Abner Hollow
Pre-Licensed Professional (he, him)
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
4 Endorsed
Let's Connect (872) 335-4331
You’re navigating relationships, sexuality, or desire in ways that don’t fit the societal script and you want a therapist who understands without pathologizing. Whether you’re exploring non-monogamy/polyamory, kink/BDSM, queer identity, sex work, or feeling stuck in desire discrepancy or sexual shame, you deserve nuanced, empowering support.
I bring both lived experience and formal training (Adler University’s Sex Therapy Certificate) to this work. More importantly, I provide a grounded, direct, and affirming space where your sexuality and relationships are treated as complex, meaningful parts of your life, not problems to fix.
I work with partners and individuals on intimacy concerns, out-of-control sexual behavior, non-monogamy exploration, BDSM/kink exploration, nihilism/existential dread, and religious trauma.
My approach is sex-positive, queer/kink/age-gap/sex-work affirming. Together we focus on emotional processing, attunement, and relational structures which work.
Therapy with me is provocative and experiential. We deconstruct the patterns that keep repeating, process what has been avoided, and develop new ways of relating that feel authentic and intentional.
Reaching out can feel vulnerable. If you're ready to move from confusion or disconnection toward clarity and agency, I look forward to working with you.
Call or Email Abner Hollow now for a free 15 minute consultation - (872) 335-4331
Let's Connect (872) 335-4331
Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $40
- Couple Sessions $40
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Mastercard, VisaInsurance
- Aetna
- Blue Cross
- Blue Shield
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Telligen
- UnitedHealthcare UHC | UBH
- Out of Network
Abner Hollow
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (872) 335-4331
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Supervised by Rolando Torres (Illinois / 180016664) Abner Clark
- Attended University of Maine at Farmington, B.A. Psychology / B.S Biology / Minor Philosophy, Graduated 2006
- Membership with American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists 266052 / 2024
- Membership with American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists 1491078 / 2024
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Abner Hollow
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (872) 335-4331
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Polyamory & ENM
- Atheist/Agnostic/Non-spiritual Issues
- Sex-Positive & Kink Friendly
Expertise
- Anxiety
- Bisexual
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Depression
- Divorce
- Family Conflict
- Infertility
- Infidelity
- Lesbian
- LGBTQ+
- Life Transitions
- Marital and Premarital
- Men's Issues
- Mood Disorders
- Peer Relationships
- Relationship Issues
- Religious Trauma
- Sex Therapy
- Sexual Addiction
- Spirituality
- Stress
Abner Hollow
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (872) 335-4331
4 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Secular and Non-Religious
Age
Teen ,
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Communities
Bisexual Allied ,
Gay Allied ,
Intersex Allied ,
Lesbian Allied ,
Non-Binary Allied ,
Queer Allied ,
Racial Justice Allied ,
Sex Worker Allied ,
Single Parent ,
Transgender Allied
Religion
Secular and Non-Religious
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Adlerian
- Culturally Sensitive
- Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
- Eclectic
- Existential
- Experiential Therapy
- Family / Marital
- Family Systems
- Feminist
- Humanistic
- Multicultural
- Psychoanalytic
- Relational
- Solution Focused Brief (SFBT)
- Strength-Based
Abner Hollow
Pre-Licensed Professional
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (872) 335-4331
Location
Additional Location
25 East Washington Street
Suite 1021
Chicago, IL 60602
(872) 335-4331