Aaron J.
Registered Psychotherapist, CHT, NLC, SEP
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
3 Endorsed
128 W. 14th Street, Suite B-7, Durango, CO 81301
Let's Connect (970) 404-3030

Capable in life. Stuck in intimacy.
You manage complexity, solve problems, and show up reliably. But when relationships ask for vulnerability, emotional honesty, or staying present through conflict, you may shut down, go numb, or perform connection rather than actually feel it. Many people I work with have done talk therapy and still feel stuck. And yet remember - the goal isn't to fix you, it's to turn insight into practice—so the same patterns don't keep taking over under stress and you can stay present, choose differently, and live the life you want.
We work with the automatic reactions that sabotage connection. You'll learn to catch yourself before you shut down, name what's happening, say what you need, and repair after conflict, not just understand why you react that way. The goal isn't insight. It's staying present when relationships get vulnerable instead of disconnecting or performing.
Sometimes the issues we encounter in life are almost impossible to resolve on our own. When doing our healing work, a nurturing relationship is one of the most powerful forms of nervous system regulation there is. I've done my own healing and understand this process from the inside. I'll be in your corner as you do yours. Free consultation available.
Call or Email Aaron J. Thomas now for a free 15 minute consultation - (970) 404-3030
Let's Connect (970) 404-3030

Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $135
- Couple Sessions $195
- Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
Payment Methods
American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Mastercard, Paypal, Venmo, Visa, Wire, Zelle
Aaron J. Thomas
Registered Psychotherapist, CHT, NLC, SEP
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 404-3030
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Colorado / NLC.0108252 Aaron J. Thomas
- In Practice for 8 years
- Attended Somatic Experiencing International , SEP, Graduated 2023
- Certificate from Embody Lab EMDR Certification 2025
- Degree/Diploma from Hakomi Institute Certified Hakomi Parctitioner / 2018
Education and Years In Practice
Additional Credentials
Aaron J. Thomas
Registered Psychotherapist, CHT, NLC, SEP
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 404-3030
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Anxiety
- Trauma and PTSD
- Relationship Issues
Expertise
- Boundary Issues
- Codependency
- Communication/Interpersonal Issues
- Depression
- Infidelity
- Men's Issues
Aaron J. Thomas
Registered Psychotherapist, CHT, NLC, SEP
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 404-3030
3 Endorsements
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Experiential Therapy
- Hakomi - Mindfulness + body-centered modality.
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Person-Centered
- Psychodynamic
- Somatic
- Somatic Experiencing - Trauma resolution modality.
- Transpersonal
- Trauma Focused
Aaron J. Thomas
Registered Psychotherapist, CHT, NLC, SEP
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (970) 404-3030
Location
Nearby Areas
Neighborhoods
Aaron J. Thomas
Registered Psychotherapist, CHT, NLC, SEP
Call for a free consultation now - (970) 404-3030