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Fern DeMello
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
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Fern DeMello

Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Honolulu, HI 96815
Let's Connect (253) 559-0086
What do you fear? What do you long for? I have found that the answers to these questions often overlap, which can make us feel stuck, lost or out of control. You may feel like you've tried everything. You may be telling yourself that you are wrong or defective. Blaming ourselves for our pain is so normal and human. Know that here, you are not too broken. I view therapy as a no-expiration invitation to return to ourselves and a space where we reach for what has felt untouchable. I believe we can only work to the extent that you feel you can trust me. Because of this, we will give focused time to our relationship dynamic.
We will also look at your other relationships, values, beliefs and feelings. We will look at the meaning you've made of your pain. We will dig into the stories you tell. Gather around what lives in your body. We'll look deeply at what you desire, and what feels in the way. We will honor how you have survived, as all coping has roots in wisdom.
With your permission, we will relocate your innate ability to heal...the things you used to know in your bones that got lost along the way. If you are curious about what work with me would look like, I would love to connect with you. You don't have to be exactly sure of what you want before you reach out. If you hear truth and feel drawn in, let's talk.
Call or Fern DeMello now for a free 15 minute consultation - (253) 559-0086

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

candlemine psychotherapy

Honolulu, HI 96815

(253) 559-0086

candlemine psychotherapy

Renton, WA 98057

I specialize in Eating Disorders, Self Esteem and Life Transitions 
$140 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and groups  
Let's Connect (253) 559-0086

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

candlemine psychotherapy

Honolulu, HI 96815

(253) 559-0086

candlemine psychotherapy

Renton, WA 98057

I specialize in Eating Disorders, Self Esteem and Life Transitions 
$140 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and groups  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $140
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by American Express, Cash, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Venmo, Visa

Insurance

  • Premera
  • Out of Network
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We accept cash, check or card (subject to an additional fee) at the time of service. We provide a superbill upon request for reimbursement.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
"
We accept cash, check or card (subject to an additional fee) at the time of service. We provide a superbill upon request for reimbursement.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Washington / LH61008619 Fern DeMello
    License state differs from primary location state.
  • In Practice for 7 Years
  • Attended Bastyr University, M.S. Nutrition and Clinical Health Psychology, Graduated 2017
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Eating Disorders
  • Self Esteem
  • Life Transitions

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Bisexual
  • Body image issues
  • Chronic dieting
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Grief
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Mood Disorders
  • Obsessive-Compulsive (OCD)
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self-Harming
  • Stress
  • Suicidal Ideation
  • Transgender
  • Women's Issues
Do these issues align with your needs? or (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
Do these issues align with your needs? or (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Body Positivity
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Group

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Body Positivity
Gay Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Racial Justice Allied
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Body Trust, Health at Every Size, Intuitive Eating
  • Compassion Focused
  • Culturally Sensitive
  • Existential
  • Feminist
  • Humanistic
  • Integrative
  • Multicultural
  • Narrative
  • Person-Centered
  • Psychodynamic
  • Psychological Testing and Evaluation
  • Relational
  • Somatic
  • Strength-Based
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN

Location

Primary Location

candlemine psychotherapy

Honolulu, HI 96815

(253) 559-0086

Additional Location

candlemine psychotherapy

Renton, WA 98057

(253) 559-0086
Call for a free consultation now - (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
Call for a free consultation now - (253) 559-0086
Fern DeMello
Counselor, MS, LMHC, CN
Last Modified: 12 Oct 2023