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Listening is hearing with focus and attention. A good listener is patient and respectful. They have empathy and curiosity, and they absorb what is being said. They maintain good emotional intelligence, keep an open mind, and avoid making judgments. See where you fall on this scale.
This test is for anyone who wants to improve their listening skills. This test is designed for adults and is not intended to be diagnostic.
If you need help improving listening skills and relating to people, speaking to a mental health professional can help. You can easily find a therapist in your area on the Psychology Today Therapy Directory.
Listening Styles Profile-Revised. G.D. Bodie, et al. Communication Research Reports
Measurement of Interpersonal Attraction. McCroskey, et al.
Emotional and social intelligence competencies. D. Goleman, R. Boyatzis
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