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Can You Spot Dating Red Flags?

13 Questions
2 Minutes

Test your knowledge of signals that a new connection may be unhealthy.

Dating is a process of trial and error. It takes time to make dates, figure out if you like someone, and decide if you might be compatible. The ability to recognize the red flags of a partner who just won’t be right for you can help preserve your time, energy, and emotional health.

1. It’s normal to talk about one’s exes a lot early in a relationship.
2. It’s never too early in a relationship for a partner to say “I love you.”
3. Even at the start of a new relationship, you should have time for friends and family.
4. The fear of being single forever should not factor into your dating decisions.
5. Replaying and analyzing what a date says to you for days after you see them is a problem.
6. Each of us has a romantic destiny so you should be searching for a soul mate—“the one.”
7. It’s ideal for a partner to see you as perfect and put you on a pedestal.
8. It’s important for your friends and family members to like your new partner.
9. It’s appropriate for someone to share deeply personal details on a first date.
10. “No drama” is a good rule for new relationships.
11. It’s fine for a partner not to introduce you to friends and families, even after dating a while.
12. It’s great for a brand-new partner to talk to you about their plans for your long-term future together.
13. Frequent public displays of affection and pressure to have sex are just signs that a new partner is attracted to you.
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