Emotionally Focused Psychiatrists in Santa Clara County, CA

Photo of Ruben Yu, Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, BC, MSN
Ruben Yu
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, BC, MSN
Verified Verified
Online Only
I use culturally sensitive, emotionally focused, and person-centered therapy to address your unique needs.
As a Family Nurse Practitioner and Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, I am committed to providing caring and complete healthcare. My focus is to respect each person's unique needs and values, emphasizing patient-centered care. I strive to support mental, emotional, and overall well-being, helping clients achieve optimal health. You can trust me to listen with empathy and kindness, always respecting your preferences. It is my honor to assist you on your journey to better mental and emotional wellness.
I use culturally sensitive, emotionally focused, and person-centered therapy to address your unique needs.
As a Family Nurse Practitioner and Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, I am committed to providing caring and complete healthcare. My focus is to respect each person's unique needs and values, emphasizing patient-centered care. I strive to support mental, emotional, and overall well-being, helping clients achieve optimal health. You can trust me to listen with empathy and kindness, always respecting your preferences. It is my honor to assist you on your journey to better mental and emotional wellness.
(408) 610-2241 View (408) 610-2241
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Sandra Merino
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, BC
Verified Verified
Morgan Hill, CA 95037
As a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I specialize in mental health care, offering person-focused, emotionally focused, and coaching-based treatment.
Hello! I’m Sandra U. Merino, a dedicated Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner and Registered Nurse with over 18 years of experience in the nursing field. My ideal client struggles with depression, anxiety, ADHD, PTSD, or mood disorders. They seek compassionate, stigma-free mental health support to regain control over their lives. Their goal is emotional stability, improved relationships, and a better quality of life through evidence-based, holistic care. They want a provider who listens, understands, and tailors treatment to their unique needs.
As a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I specialize in mental health care, offering person-focused, emotionally focused, and coaching-based treatment.
Hello! I’m Sandra U. Merino, a dedicated Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner and Registered Nurse with over 18 years of experience in the nursing field. My ideal client struggles with depression, anxiety, ADHD, PTSD, or mood disorders. They seek compassionate, stigma-free mental health support to regain control over their lives. Their goal is emotional stability, improved relationships, and a better quality of life through evidence-based, holistic care. They want a provider who listens, understands, and tailors treatment to their unique needs.
(669) 345-5017 View (669) 345-5017
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Tony Truong
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP, MSN
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I help with ADHD, anxiety, depression, and PTSD using a tailored approach that may include CBT and emotionally focused therapy.
My ideal client is someone struggling with ADHD, anxiety, depression, or PTSD, looking for a compassionate and structured approach to healing. They may feel overwhelmed, distracted, or stuck and seek clarity, coping strategies, and emotional stability. Their goal is to regain focus, improve relationships, and feel more in control of their emotions. They want a provider who listens, understands their unique challenges, and offers evidence-based solutions tailored to their needs. Through therapy and support, they aim to build resilience, confidence, and a healthier mindset for long-term well-being.
I help with ADHD, anxiety, depression, and PTSD using a tailored approach that may include CBT and emotionally focused therapy.
My ideal client is someone struggling with ADHD, anxiety, depression, or PTSD, looking for a compassionate and structured approach to healing. They may feel overwhelmed, distracted, or stuck and seek clarity, coping strategies, and emotional stability. Their goal is to regain focus, improve relationships, and feel more in control of their emotions. They want a provider who listens, understands their unique challenges, and offers evidence-based solutions tailored to their needs. Through therapy and support, they aim to build resilience, confidence, and a healthier mindset for long-term well-being.
(323) 524-9243 View (323) 524-9243
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Toni Ann Locke
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Online Only
In addition to medication management, I use a combination of CBT and emotionally focused therapy.
I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, postpartum depression, and ADHD in adult patients primarily 19-55. I have a relaxed, easygoing style of communication and I take a team approach when treating my patients.
In addition to medication management, I use a combination of CBT and emotionally focused therapy.
I specialize in treating anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, postpartum depression, and ADHD in adult patients primarily 19-55. I have a relaxed, easygoing style of communication and I take a team approach when treating my patients.
(650) 547-4063 View (650) 547-4063
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Richard La Fayette
Psychiatric Nurse, FNP, MSN
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Using coaching, emotionally focused, and humanistic methods, I develop personalized treatment plans that empower clients to manage symptoms, build resilience, and improve their overall well-being.
My ideal client struggles with ADHD, anxiety, depression, or insomnia and seeks a compassionate, patient-centered approach. They may feel overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about managing their mental health. They want a supportive space where they feel heard and valued, with a provider who listens and tailors treatment to their needs. Their goal is to regain balance, develop coping strategies, and improve daily functioning. Through personalized, evidence-based care, I help clients work toward lasting well-being and emotional resilience, empowering them to lead fulfilling lives.
Using coaching, emotionally focused, and humanistic methods, I develop personalized treatment plans that empower clients to manage symptoms, build resilience, and improve their overall well-being.
My ideal client struggles with ADHD, anxiety, depression, or insomnia and seeks a compassionate, patient-centered approach. They may feel overwhelmed, stuck, or uncertain about managing their mental health. They want a supportive space where they feel heard and valued, with a provider who listens and tailors treatment to their needs. Their goal is to regain balance, develop coping strategies, and improve daily functioning. Through personalized, evidence-based care, I help clients work toward lasting well-being and emotional resilience, empowering them to lead fulfilling lives.
(650) 487-1844 View (650) 487-1844
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Uchenna Okoye
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
(408) 550-1766 View (408) 550-1766
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Catalina Villa
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
(408) 852-7953 View (408) 852-7953
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Uchenna Okoye
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
(408) 692-2379 View (408) 692-2379
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Riz Ahmad
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now welcoming new patients!
(650) 628-8367 View (650) 628-8367
Photo of Jaspreet Takhar, Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Jaspreet Takhar
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now welcoming new patients!
(650) 582-2148 View (650) 582-2148
Photo of Catalina Villa, Psychiatrist, MD
Catalina Villa
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is a challenging thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here, and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now, welcoming new patients!
(408) 617-8952 View (408) 617-8952
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Dr. Randall Bailey
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
Do you Over-Think things? Over-Experience your emotions? Do you struggle to focus or complete tasks? Difficulty sleeping? Putting off your mental health is no longer an option! With over 75 clinical experts, WellPsyche and MediPsych providers provide Empathetic Psychotherapy and Personalized Medication Management services for Children, Adolescents, and Adults. 100% of our visits are conducted via Zoom, and we are available mornings, afternoons, and evenings. Meet with your psychiatrist from the privacy and convenience of home or work. We are simplifying the mental health experience so you can become the best version of you!
Do you Over-Think things? Over-Experience your emotions? Do you struggle to focus or complete tasks? Difficulty sleeping? Putting off your mental health is no longer an option! With over 75 clinical experts, WellPsyche and MediPsych providers provide Empathetic Psychotherapy and Personalized Medication Management services for Children, Adolescents, and Adults. 100% of our visits are conducted via Zoom, and we are available mornings, afternoons, and evenings. Meet with your psychiatrist from the privacy and convenience of home or work. We are simplifying the mental health experience so you can become the best version of you!
(310) 340-6034 View (310) 340-6034
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Mottsin Thomas
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS-Bonmente knows asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be.
ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS-Bonmente knows asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be.
(650) 686-5441 View (650) 686-5441
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Yang Xu
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Palo Alto, CA 94301
Accepting New Patients. "Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful." I believe that while our patients face mental heath challenges, their own unique personalities and virtues also can help them overcome these difficulties and achieve personal growth through the recovery process. As a psychiatrist, my job is to utilize my knowledge, skills and clinical experience to guide and facilitate this process and make it faster and more fruitful. I am very grateful for the trust of my patient have put in me and the rewarding experience witness their recovery and personal growth.
Accepting New Patients. "Challenges are what make life interesting and overcoming them is what makes life meaningful." I believe that while our patients face mental heath challenges, their own unique personalities and virtues also can help them overcome these difficulties and achieve personal growth through the recovery process. As a psychiatrist, my job is to utilize my knowledge, skills and clinical experience to guide and facilitate this process and make it faster and more fruitful. I am very grateful for the trust of my patient have put in me and the rewarding experience witness their recovery and personal growth.
(650) 727-1523 View (650) 727-1523
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Brittnai Johnson
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Online Only
My name is Brittnai Johnson. I am a Board-Certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with more than 12 years of experience in the field of Psychiatry. I use a person-centered approach to therapy and have a broad focus, such as Trauma, LGBTQ+, Mood Disorders, anxiety, ADHD, and many others! I use person-centered care to create a safe, non-judgmental environment and cater to each person for an individualized treatment plan.
My name is Brittnai Johnson. I am a Board-Certified Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with more than 12 years of experience in the field of Psychiatry. I use a person-centered approach to therapy and have a broad focus, such as Trauma, LGBTQ+, Mood Disorders, anxiety, ADHD, and many others! I use person-centered care to create a safe, non-judgmental environment and cater to each person for an individualized treatment plan.
(650) 547-1150 View (650) 547-1150
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Jordan Blaine Udeshi
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Online Only
ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS - We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be.
ACCEPTING NEW PATIENTS - We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be.
(424) 232-0542 View (424) 232-0542
Photo of Kerrie Humbatova, Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, FNP, PMHNP
Kerrie Humbatova
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, FNP, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Cupertino, CA 95014
Look No Further <3<3<3 If you are tired of meeting with provider after provider and not finding the one that fits, then book with me. Appointments daily, weekends & holidays! I extend my care to those with diverse backgrounds and address a range of mental health conditions. Specializing in trauma, serious mental health conditions, geriatrics, and MAT for recovery. I respect and honor each individual’s preferences and values, including their desire to utilize alternative therapies alongside traditional interventions, such as Ketamine. Schedule Today! Text me on my 24 hour HIPAA compliant number 510-936-6525.
Look No Further <3<3<3 If you are tired of meeting with provider after provider and not finding the one that fits, then book with me. Appointments daily, weekends & holidays! I extend my care to those with diverse backgrounds and address a range of mental health conditions. Specializing in trauma, serious mental health conditions, geriatrics, and MAT for recovery. I respect and honor each individual’s preferences and values, including their desire to utilize alternative therapies alongside traditional interventions, such as Ketamine. Schedule Today! Text me on my 24 hour HIPAA compliant number 510-936-6525.
(408) 869-5491 View (408) 869-5491
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Dr. Randall Bailey
Psychiatrist, MD
Verified Verified
Online Only
Do you Over-Think things? Over-Experience your emotions? Do you struggle to focus or complete tasks? Difficulty sleeping? Putting off your mental health is no longer an option! With over 75 clinical experts, WellPsyche and MediPsych providers provide Empathetic Psychotherapy and Personalized Medication Management services for Children, Adolescents, and Adults. 100% of our visits are conducted via Zoom, and we are available mornings, afternoons, and evenings. Meet with your psychiatrist from the privacy and convenience of home or work. We are simplifying the mental health experience so you can become the best version of you!
Do you Over-Think things? Over-Experience your emotions? Do you struggle to focus or complete tasks? Difficulty sleeping? Putting off your mental health is no longer an option! With over 75 clinical experts, WellPsyche and MediPsych providers provide Empathetic Psychotherapy and Personalized Medication Management services for Children, Adolescents, and Adults. 100% of our visits are conducted via Zoom, and we are available mornings, afternoons, and evenings. Meet with your psychiatrist from the privacy and convenience of home or work. We are simplifying the mental health experience so you can become the best version of you!
(424) 361-1770 View (424) 361-1770
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Arnold Fosah
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, MSN, PMHNP, BC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Jose, CA 95110
If you're feeling sad or anxious or struggling with relationship conflicts or habits that negatively impact your life, I'm here to help. With my therapeutic approach, you can expect to feel completely heard, understood, and empowered towards positive change. Together, we'll work on developing practical tools and gaining new perspectives to help you grow and improve your overall sense of well-being and purpose. In my practice, I use a holistic approach to better understand you and address your unique needs. I'm also trained to diagnose psychiatric disorders and utilize medication therapy when necessary.
If you're feeling sad or anxious or struggling with relationship conflicts or habits that negatively impact your life, I'm here to help. With my therapeutic approach, you can expect to feel completely heard, understood, and empowered towards positive change. Together, we'll work on developing practical tools and gaining new perspectives to help you grow and improve your overall sense of well-being and purpose. In my practice, I use a holistic approach to better understand you and address your unique needs. I'm also trained to diagnose psychiatric disorders and utilize medication therapy when necessary.
(408) 617-9317 View (408) 617-9317
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Claudette Banda
Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, PMHNP
Verified Verified
Online Only
We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now welcoming new patients!
We know asking for help is not an easy thing to do. We also know that finding a provider you trust to help you navigate mental health care can be a challenge. That's why we're here and we're doing things differently. As a patient at Bonmente, you enjoy comprehensive treatments customized specifically for your unique circumstances, convenient telemedicine appointments that allow you to see your provider from the comfort of home, an online patient portal that lets you communicate directly with your provider, and a highly trained support team that makes becoming a patient as simple as it should be. Now welcoming new patients!
(650) 789-7742 View (650) 789-7742
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Emotionally Focused Psychiatrists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.