If you’re tired of Grindr but baffled by intimacy, this therapist-led group for gay men is your safe place to talk about it. As queer people, we’re taught having a mask helps us survive yet we also want meaningful connections. So how do we let go and allow for vulnerability when it feels right and protect ourselves when it doesn’t?
Hosted by The Sexuality, Attachment, and Trauma Project
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW, MA, LMHC
Group meets in New York, NY 10019
If you’re tired of Grindr but baffled by intimacy, this therapist-led group for gay men is your safe place to talk about it. As queer people, we’re taught having a mask helps us survive yet we also want meaningful connections. So how do we let go and allow for vulnerability when it feels right and protect ourselves when it doesn’t?
If you find yourself relying on habits like scrolling, drinking, smoking, overworking, or checking out just to get through the day, you’re not alone. These patterns often begin as ways to cope, but can leave you feeling disconnected from how you want to live. This group is for individuals who want to understand these patterns and shift them with intention. We explore patterns across substance use, technology, and everyday coping habits. Participants build awareness, reduce shame, and develop more intentional ways of relating to themselves. As patterns shift, space opens up to reconnect with your values, relationships, and sense of purpose.
If you find yourself relying on habits like scrolling, drinking, smoking, overworking, or checking out just to get through the day, you’re not alone. These patterns often begin as ways to cope, but can leave you feeling disconnected from how you want to live. This group is for individuals who want to understand these patterns and shift them with intention. We explore patterns across substance use, technology, and everyday coping habits. Participants build awareness, reduce shame, and develop more intentional ways of relating to themselves. As patterns shift, space opens up to reconnect with your values, relationships, and sense of purpose.
This is a therapeutically guided online space for partners of all genders and sexualities impacted by betrayal trauma from infidelity and sexual compulsivity. We emphasize psychoeducation, proportionate boundaries, core needs, and emotional stability—grounded in recovery rather than venting alone. Members gain clarity through discovery/disclosure, relational decisions, and personal renewal in a supportive community. Longer-term members share lived experience and hope, offering reality-based solutions to move beyond betrayal's looping pain toward self-reintegration and resilience.
Hosted by Christopher M. Shea
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW, CST, CSAT, CPTT
Group meets in New York, NY 10011
This is a therapeutically guided online space for partners of all genders and sexualities impacted by betrayal trauma from infidelity and sexual compulsivity. We emphasize psychoeducation, proportionate boundaries, core needs, and emotional stability—grounded in recovery rather than venting alone. Members gain clarity through discovery/disclosure, relational decisions, and personal renewal in a supportive community. Longer-term members share lived experience and hope, offering reality-based solutions to move beyond betrayal's looping pain toward self-reintegration and resilience.
Using attachment and psychodynamic theory, I help men develop skills of intimacy, connection, communication and attachment. My groups are supportive, intimate, caring and compassionate.
Hosted by Michael Crocker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW, MA, CGT
Group meets in New York, NY 10019
Using attachment and psychodynamic theory, I help men develop skills of intimacy, connection, communication and attachment. My groups are supportive, intimate, caring and compassionate.
Ongoing group therapy for men in recovery for sex addiction.
Ongoing group therapy for men in recovery for sex addiction.
This group helps spouses, partners, relatives, and adult children who have had experiences with people exhibiting Narcissistic Personality Disorder. We meet in a friendly, safe environment, where confidentiality is primary. Individual consultations are required before participation. We do not accept insurance for this psycho-educational group. A new group will be forming in NYC.
This group helps spouses, partners, relatives, and adult children who have had experiences with people exhibiting Narcissistic Personality Disorder. We meet in a friendly, safe environment, where confidentiality is primary. Individual consultations are required before participation. We do not accept insurance for this psycho-educational group. A new group will be forming in NYC.
I co-lead a weekly group with sex therapist Dr. Wendy Miller for men with out-of-control sexual behavior. The group currently meets online via Zoom due to COVID-19. Using a sexual health model, the group provides education and deeper understanding of sexuality, tools for change, and mutual support and sharing. The goal is to help each member develop a sexual life that is pleasurable and compatible with their values and life goals.
I co-lead a weekly group with sex therapist Dr. Wendy Miller for men with out-of-control sexual behavior. The group currently meets online via Zoom due to COVID-19. Using a sexual health model, the group provides education and deeper understanding of sexuality, tools for change, and mutual support and sharing. The goal is to help each member develop a sexual life that is pleasurable and compatible with their values and life goals.
Ongoing weekly group for men recovering from sexual compulsive/ addictive behavior; porn/affairs/massage parlors/romantic obsessions and intimacy avoidance. Face the relational, physical and emotional consequences of behavior, learn ways to alter the course of addictive cycle, prevent relapse and develop healthy sexuality. All ages and sexual orientations; adjunct to 12-step programs and psychotherapy. By Appointment and Interview.
Ongoing weekly group for men recovering from sexual compulsive/ addictive behavior; porn/affairs/massage parlors/romantic obsessions and intimacy avoidance. Face the relational, physical and emotional consequences of behavior, learn ways to alter the course of addictive cycle, prevent relapse and develop healthy sexuality. All ages and sexual orientations; adjunct to 12-step programs and psychotherapy. By Appointment and Interview.
This 12-week, virtual, psycho-ed group provides a safe place to help betrayed partners work through the grief and devastation that accompanies discovery of sexual betrayal. As partners join together to talk about shared experiences, it helps to reduce the shame and pain that comes along with betrayal. The group also focuses on skill building and helpful tools to empower partners to regain control, learn to trust their own intuition and find inner safety. Topics covered include Understanding Complex Trauma, the Different types of Gas Lighting, Utilizing Anger in Productive Ways, Cultivating an authentic self, as examples.
Hosted by Karen Gelstein
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT
Group meets in New York, NY 10001
This 12-week, virtual, psycho-ed group provides a safe place to help betrayed partners work through the grief and devastation that accompanies discovery of sexual betrayal. As partners join together to talk about shared experiences, it helps to reduce the shame and pain that comes along with betrayal. The group also focuses on skill building and helpful tools to empower partners to regain control, learn to trust their own intuition and find inner safety. Topics covered include Understanding Complex Trauma, the Different types of Gas Lighting, Utilizing Anger in Productive Ways, Cultivating an authentic self, as examples.
In this support group you will learn healthy coping and problem-solving skills. This will help you increase your ability to manage your addictive thoughts and feelings in order to live a more fulfilling life. Sex addiction support groups are proven to be most effective in relation to relapse prevention and shame reduction. I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to assist the group with processing. Our group is a safe and judgment free place to recover and is for men in all stages of recovery. We have new groups opening each quarter. We are meeting on Zoom for the time being.
In this support group you will learn healthy coping and problem-solving skills. This will help you increase your ability to manage your addictive thoughts and feelings in order to live a more fulfilling life. Sex addiction support groups are proven to be most effective in relation to relapse prevention and shame reduction. I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Dialectical Behavior Therapy to assist the group with processing. Our group is a safe and judgment free place to recover and is for men in all stages of recovery. We have new groups opening each quarter. We are meeting on Zoom for the time being.
This 6-week group (on Zoom) is for sex addicts in all stages of recovery. We explore the roots of the addiction in the individual's early environment, where the essentials needed to develop self-esteem and secure attachment may be inadequate or lacking. The individual increasingly learns to turn to sexual behavior as their problem-solver, in a misguided attempt to find the nurturance and intimacy they yearn for. We use psychoeducational and experiential modalities to support participants in developing these growth-producing essentials for themselves. A 10-Day in-person Intensive Program is offered after the group.
This 6-week group (on Zoom) is for sex addicts in all stages of recovery. We explore the roots of the addiction in the individual's early environment, where the essentials needed to develop self-esteem and secure attachment may be inadequate or lacking. The individual increasingly learns to turn to sexual behavior as their problem-solver, in a misguided attempt to find the nurturance and intimacy they yearn for. We use psychoeducational and experiential modalities to support participants in developing these growth-producing essentials for themselves. A 10-Day in-person Intensive Program is offered after the group.
A therapeutic support group for gay men entering into, struggling with, or already in long term sexual addiction recovery.
Hosted by Jessica Elizabeth Cole
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MA
Group meets in New York, NY 10001
A therapeutic support group for gay men entering into, struggling with, or already in long term sexual addiction recovery.
Process Group for Intimacy Issues, Problematic Sexual Behaviors and Sex Addiction: Learn to remain sexually healthy and sexually sober while getting your real needs met from your primary relationships
Process Group for Intimacy Issues, Problematic Sexual Behaviors and Sex Addiction: Learn to remain sexually healthy and sexually sober while getting your real needs met from your primary relationships
This group is designed for men who are ready to break cycles of porn or sexual addiction in a structured, supportive, and confidential environment. Together, we focus on: Understanding the emotional drivers behind addictive patterns, reducing shame and secrecy, building accountability, developing healthier coping strategies and relationships Members are expected to be committed, engaged, and open to doing deeper work.
This group is designed for men who are ready to break cycles of porn or sexual addiction in a structured, supportive, and confidential environment. Together, we focus on: Understanding the emotional drivers behind addictive patterns, reducing shame and secrecy, building accountability, developing healthier coping strategies and relationships Members are expected to be committed, engaged, and open to doing deeper work.
Group therapy for sexual addiction helps provide a safe forum where group members who have a shared experience experience with sexual addiction can find support and help. The group experience helps combat the intense shame and sense of isolation that a sex addict often experiences. Group therapy is a very powerful therapeutic experience in a way that other modes of therapy are not. Clients often find that group therapy is an excellent way to learn how others perceive them, how they relate to others, and how they view themselves.
Hosted by Center for Intimacy Recovery
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CSAT, EMDR
Group meets in New York, NY 10018
Group therapy for sexual addiction helps provide a safe forum where group members who have a shared experience experience with sexual addiction can find support and help. The group experience helps combat the intense shame and sense of isolation that a sex addict often experiences. Group therapy is a very powerful therapeutic experience in a way that other modes of therapy are not. Clients often find that group therapy is an excellent way to learn how others perceive them, how they relate to others, and how they view themselves.
Exclusively for those who have made the difficult decision to leave or have left the relationship. Support, commiseration, therapy and post traumatic growth are the group's primary objectives.
Hosted by Dayle A. Brenner Wild, LCSW-R, CCPS, CSAT-C
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CCPS, CSAT
Group meets in New York, NY 10025
Exclusively for those who have made the difficult decision to leave or have left the relationship. Support, commiseration, therapy and post traumatic growth are the group's primary objectives.
Struggle with intense emotions, anxiety, or relationship stress? You don’t have to navigate it alone. Join our structured, evidence-based DBT group at Gateway to Solutions. We provide practical tools to help you move from reactive to responsive. What You’ll Learn: Mindfulness & Distress Tolerance Emotion Regulation Interpersonal Effectiveness Group Details: When: Tuesdays, 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM Format: In-Person, 16-Week Curriculum Investment: Insurance reimbursable Expert-led and results-focused. Ready to build the stability you deserve? Contact us today to schedule your intake consultation and secure your spot.
Hosted by Danielle Dellaquila
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, DBT, CBT, EMDR
Group meets in New York, NY 10006
Struggle with intense emotions, anxiety, or relationship stress? You don’t have to navigate it alone. Join our structured, evidence-based DBT group at Gateway to Solutions. We provide practical tools to help you move from reactive to responsive. What You’ll Learn: Mindfulness & Distress Tolerance Emotion Regulation Interpersonal Effectiveness Group Details: When: Tuesdays, 7:00 PM – 8:30 PM Format: In-Person, 16-Week Curriculum Investment: Insurance reimbursable Expert-led and results-focused. Ready to build the stability you deserve? Contact us today to schedule your intake consultation and secure your spot.
This group is designed to help men find sexual health and move away from destructive sexual behaviors. The group is a free-flowing therapeutic experience. It is a non-judgmental space to work on understanding sexual, emotional, and personal needs and navigating those needs. The SAT Project is sex positive and supports the relational model(s) you seek, including monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, kink-related sexuality, etc. You will work with the Director of the program who has been in the field for 30 years. Dr. Crocker believes that sexuality mirrors emotionality, so working on these parallels is necessary.
Hosted by The Sexuality, Attachment, and Trauma Project
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, DSW, LCSW, MA, LMHC
Group meets in New York, NY 10019
This group is designed to help men find sexual health and move away from destructive sexual behaviors. The group is a free-flowing therapeutic experience. It is a non-judgmental space to work on understanding sexual, emotional, and personal needs and navigating those needs. The SAT Project is sex positive and supports the relational model(s) you seek, including monogamy, consensual non-monogamy, polyamory, kink-related sexuality, etc. You will work with the Director of the program who has been in the field for 30 years. Dr. Crocker believes that sexuality mirrors emotionality, so working on these parallels is necessary.
Group therapy is a very effective modality for treating people recovering from Sex mixed with drug and/or alcohol use (Chem Sex). Attending a weekly group with other gay men can break the shame/isolation & provide structure while trying to make changes. Group work is also a forum to practice connecting with other gay men which can help facilitate a sense of responsibility for one's behavior while working towards recovering from substance abuse and defining what sexual health means for each member.
Hosted by Gilbert McCurdy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MBA, LCSW-R, CSAT, SEP
Group meets in New York, NY 10003
Group therapy is a very effective modality for treating people recovering from Sex mixed with drug and/or alcohol use (Chem Sex). Attending a weekly group with other gay men can break the shame/isolation & provide structure while trying to make changes. Group work is also a forum to practice connecting with other gay men which can help facilitate a sense of responsibility for one's behavior while working towards recovering from substance abuse and defining what sexual health means for each member.
This is a men's sex and pornography issues/addiction support group. This group provides a space for men with sex addiction, pornography addiction, and infidelity issues to grow, become more accountable, financial stability, and support for their sobriety. This group employs behavioral strategies, coping skills, and explores causal factors of addiction. It is also psychodynamic. This group can supplement 12-step participation. The group consists of CSAT methodology, thematic reflections, constructive assignments, and weekly processing. One of these groups is hosted each day of the week.
This is a men's sex and pornography issues/addiction support group. This group provides a space for men with sex addiction, pornography addiction, and infidelity issues to grow, become more accountable, financial stability, and support for their sobriety. This group employs behavioral strategies, coping skills, and explores causal factors of addiction. It is also psychodynamic. This group can supplement 12-step participation. The group consists of CSAT methodology, thematic reflections, constructive assignments, and weekly processing. One of these groups is hosted each day of the week.
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Sexual Addiction Support Groups
When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?
People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.
What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?
Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.
How long does therapy take for sex addiction?
Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.
What if sex addiction is left untreated?
Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.