Jarie Bolander

About

Jarie Bolander is the author of seven books on leadership, entrepreneurship, and communication, including Ride or Die: Loving Through Tragedy, A Husband’s Memoir. Ride or Die tells the story of his late wife Jane and her 15-month battle with leukemia. Written to honor her memory, the memoir offers a rare look into the male experience of grief and healing—and aims to help others feel less alone. You can follow him on LinkedIn.

Books by Jarie Bolander

Recent Posts

What The Blues Brothers Taught Me About Male Friendship

Personal Perspective: A nostalgic look at how "The Blues Brothers" reveals the power of male friendship. Shared purpose, loyalty, and a mission bring men closer in meaningful ways.

The Male Friendship Check-In

Are men really as lonely as the headlines claim? Here's what a small but growing survey reveals about how men feel about friendships.

The Gentleman’s Code of Connection

At a shooting retreat with a gentleman’s dress code, I found something rare: a modern way for men to reconnect, compete kindly, and rediscover true friendship.

Hug Your Male Friends More

We need to normalize hugs between men because simple touch reduces loneliness, eases grief, and strengthens male friendships.

The Strength in Vulnerability for Men

Men are told to “open up,” yet shamed when they do. Exploring why vulnerability is hard and how bro-spheres and friendships can make vulnerability a source of strength.

How Should I Be a Man Today?

Personal Perspective: Being a man isn’t about rhino horn supplements—it starts with friendship and ends with showing up.

The Power of Crucible Events to Solidify Male Friendships

Why would anyone pay to suffer for multiple hours in the cold Pacific? Because crucible experiences like this don’t just test friendships—they forge them.