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The word "cheat" alone indicates a fraud or abuse and more often than not the faithful partner is not "breaking into" anything. They typically discover something quite by accident and then look deeper into it. That's basic due diligence.
One thing to take away from this is the exit point. If you are not careful the investigation itself becomes an obsession and you lose sight of the goal - which was to answer a few simple questions: What, when, for how long, and am I in danger?
I have no issue with the spying - it's not knowing when to stop that does additional damage to the victims self-esteem and person.
Gradudate school training does not sufficiently guide you about what to do.
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