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I agree 100%. It’s like everything else: we need to receive each other as INDIVIDUALS, not as stereotypes. It is really unfair to think of men as bad or inferior as a GROUP. We shouldn’t stereotype based on race, religion, gender, or sexual orientation.
We never stereotype our own group. i.e., if a white man sees a woman driving badly, he says “Crazy woman driver”, but if he sees a white man driving badly, he doesn’t say “Crazy white male drivers”, because he identifies with that group and therefore sees the driver as an individual. It’s like thinking all black men are criminals. When Timothy McVey blew up the government building, did you think, “White men are all terrorists”? Of course not. If you’re white, you thought, “What a loon” or “what an a**hole”, you didn’t think of yourself as part of the same group McVey is in. But if a Moslem is a terrorist, you think all Moslems are. People who have been to Casablanca, mostly Moslem, say those are the nicest people in the world. You won’t see that on Fox news.
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