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I'm assuming you're addressing me. Why would you think I am cluster B? As a matter of fact, I am quite the opposite. I help my neighbors without being asked, I will speak to anyone anywhere, and I help the needy when I can, asking nothing in return. In addition, I will never start a fight or argument and will always walk away.
On the other hand, if a friend is being harmed, I will defend them if there is no other way.
How is it possible that you got cluster B out of what I wrote? My A type only comes through when needed to complete a job or when needed in defense of a physical threat when all other options run out. As a matter of fact, I am one of the most even tempered people that you could meet. I would even go so far as to say that most people are like me, except that I am usually more open to conversation compared to most people.
I'm curious, what is your state of mind that you would assume cluster B? I never heard of it till you mentioned it. Don't feel like I'm picking on you, misunderstandings happen all the time and asking questions is the only way to correct them.
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