Remember he was one of the adults who was suppose to keep these offal things from ever happening to his kids. My dad filmed my mom beating me. Then he left for vietnam for 10 years. I asked him on his 80th birthday why he left 3 small sweet children with a woman he knew was beating the crap out of us. He replied that he just couldn't take it any more. I then asked him why he didn't come home to visit us more then every year or so. He replied that he really liked visiting the "girls" in tiland more.