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Very well written! I'd just like to add a bit of personal experience - some people who actually suffered (like losing their loved family members, or suffering from mental diseases like me) have judged and blamed me in a similar fashion. Could it be that some people blame not because they think the world is a just place, but because of their belief that they're better than the others? That people can overcome every misfortune by their strong will and strong personality alone, and they belittle people who don't manage to do it by blaming and judging them for being 'weak-willed'? Belittling 'weaker' people makes them feel superior, I suppose.
The desire to be seen in a positive light can give rise to dangerous behaviors.
Anxiety about rejection can undermine satisfaction.
Doing well can be a double-edged sword.
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