This is a variation of the Ken Dodd hit number of yesteryear which was called "Happiness, Happiness, The Greatest Gift That I Possess" because I truly believe that without gratitude we cannot be happy.

This applies not just to love but life itself. It's all too easy in a relationship to keep a mental score of all the things your partner has done or is currently doing to annoy you and it can become endemic. Much better for a healthy relationship for both partners to recognise and be grateful for all the things they love about each other. Too many couples ditch a relationship once that initial excitement has gone only to go on repeating the same cycle in subsequent relationships.