Anonymous wrote:

A day doesn't go by that I don't touch her and let her know that I'm thinking about having sex with her. I'll walk out behind her in the grocery store and tell her I was just checking out her ass and that it's looking good. We hug everyday and I never fail to cop a feel while I'm doing it. She knows how much she's desired by me and I believe that cancels out any internal negative thoughts she might have.

That's all fine and good as long as she reacts that way. But after a few years, and especially after childbirth, daily pressures of kids and work, and most especially with the beginning of perimenopause, many men like you unfortunately find their wives saying, "Is that all you think about?"