Dang! You hit the nail on the head, or should I say MY head. I’m the codependent, he’s the narcissist. Perfect fit, huh? I guess so. After 40 years together, his family asks me, how I stay with him for all these years. I know how to answer now, we’re both dysfunctional. Lol! I’ll be paying attention to any of your posts, Darlene Lancer JD.