So I attempted this a few times, go out and pick one topic. Tried it afew times only thing that happens is she takes it personally and tells me that I feel that she is a terrible wife.... She does not comunícate and i can tell that she uses sex like a weapon. What I mean by this is only if she is horney. So once a month or or 2 times within 90 days. So I always have to apologise when this happens when she gets hurt feelings. I am so confused.