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Your comment seem to be the first to mention this and I agree. Not everyone is intentional in their need to control and cause misery. If you grow up in an environment it's possible you'll develop those tendencies to various degrees. They're ASD much a victim as the one(s) they're torturing. You make an important point, thanks.
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