Yessss!!! I am in same exact situation with my guy! Ughhh!! I have NEVER had any place I live be this hard to clean! And, before we got together his old house was a freaking disaster area!! He used to work in the oil field, so he'd be gone for 2 weeks, and I could keep it clean then. Now he's home every day and I have never had to try to teach anybody else I've lived with HOW TO CLEAN!! Or at least not be disgusting! Geeez... I know its an older comment, but wow do I relate! Wondering how things went for you since you posted? Hope all is well!! Maybe you've got some tips for me! ;))))