There are ways to temper your toughest critic and take constructive control of your feelings.
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Initiating contact, or initiating any activity, actually takes an inner starter engine. That starter engine sometimes is stronger and sometimes is weaker. People who smoke too much marijuana, for instance, sometimes lose their starter engine. People with ADD sometimes have starter engine problems.
With aging also, the starter engine sometimes goes out along with memory difficulties and other gradual losses of higher level mental functioning.
So there's all kinds of possible reasons why some people initiate actions more and some less.
Have you had yet this most important conversation with your kids?
No need for divorce for one parent to selfishly turn the kids against the other.
Can a daughter who was molested by her father ever forgive him? And if so, how?
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