Experts suggest ways to correct habits that keep us from resting well
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That's exactly how I thought of it too when I would indulge. I was just taking care of myself, or so I thought.
Major, major props for turning toward your wife rather than minimizing her experience. She will love you even more for it. Just be there for her and listen.. Try to empathize. We may not understand their pain, but just try to "enter into her pain" with her. You'll connect like never before. Show her how much she means to you.. You won't regret it. If no other reason than at least you gave her your all.
Take care and much respect.
By slowing down and asking these questions you can save yourself time and pain.
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