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First off, major props for realizing how damaging this crap is to your wife. You're much more of a man than many others. A great book I found that helps rebuild trust is "Worthy of Her Trust" by Jason Martinkus. Excellent read, and great applicable steps to rebuilding marital trust.
Secondly, I didn't mean "with" as in connecting bodies. I meant just location. Like I was a viewer in the room with them.. Make sense? I think that's the most powerful aspect of online porn and why VR is now such a huge thing already. You're in with the action even more. I cringe at all the thought of all the men who will engage in this and say "but I wasn't cheating, babe!"
By slowing down and asking these questions you can save yourself time and pain.
Many readers say porn is not helping their relationship.
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