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I spilled everything. Every fantasy. And she says she wants to help me fulfill all of them.

I think you're very lucky. I dare to say most women would not react quite so positively, and a few would even be horrified and disgusted by some of the common male fantasies. In fact, the general recommendation is to start with some of the tamest fantasies, and realize some fantasies may not be wise to share. You need to feel out your spouse's insecurities etc. For example, some women would be very unsettled to know that their man has fantasies about other women who don't resemble them.