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Grief

Easing Grief Through Creativity and Joy

A refreshing practice for invigorating approaches to wellness.

Key points

  • Grief is a universal experience that connects us all.
  • Engaging with creativity can bring a fresh wave of enthusiasm in times of grief.
  • Genuine, natural joy serves as a meaningful mental refresh.

Grief can be incredibly intense, affecting countless people worldwide as they go about their daily lives. Each day, we can encounter losses, both big and small. Loss can arise from media narratives about wars and political turmoil. How we respond to these losses significantly influences our journey. The impact of grief is not limited to the immediate loss; it can ripple through our lives, altering our perspectives, relationships, and even our sense of self. Post-traumatic growth shows the potential for positive change after trauma. The way we process grief can shape our emotions, influencing our interactions and connections with others and our ability to find wholeness in everyday moments.

As humans, we navigate two essential truths: we exist, which varies based on our beliefs, and our extraordinary ability to create, driven by our unlimited imagination. Our minds contain the brilliance to generate new ideas and concepts from nothingness. This fundamental creative capacity allows us to envision possibilities beyond our current circumstances, reinterpreting our experiences, including grief, into something meaningful.

The future sparkles with endless possibilities. Grief serves as a dynamic reminder of our cherished relationships, grounding us in the reality of our losses. It compels us to reflect on what truly matters, prompting true appreciation for the connections we have, and to honor and reevaluate the importance of those we have lost. Grief can be a catalyst for growth, pushing us to reassess our priorities and pursue a life that aligns more closely with universal truths.

By embracing creativity, we open doors to new opportunities, finding joy in various forms, whether through movement, nature, or artistic expression. Engaging in creative activities, even in small ways, nurtures happiness and connection, supporting our healing and offering comfort through shared experiences. Whether sitting in the sunlight, creating art, rebuilding an old car, drafting a manuscript, cleaning a favorite item, creating a video, spending the day with an elder, laughing about something silly with a stranger, or taking a visit in nature, these acts of creation can serve as an inspiration, allowing us to express emotions that may be difficult to articulate.

Understanding your unique experience of grief and, when ready, exploring its different facets through creativity can lead to a renewed sense of joy. This approach is not about forgetting our losses, it’s about integrating them into our lives in a way that values their significance. By allowing ourselves to feel, express, and create, we can transform a resurgence of grief into a source of vibrance and inspiration, opening pathways for healing and a deeper appreciation for life. We may discover that joy and sorrow can coexist, engaging our lives in exciting and unexpected ways.

Grasping your personal experience of grief and, when the time feels right, exploring various aspects and expressions of it through creativity can lead to a joyful refresh.

References

Perkins, V. (2024, January 18). Wellness Session: Creative Reflection [Conference Session]. National Multicultural Conference and Summit 2024, Hilton Buffalo Thunder Hotel Chapel, Santa Fe, NM, Pueblo of Pojoaque.

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