Recommitting is the Key to Long-Term Recovery from Alcoholism
The key to long term recovery from alcoholism- recommitting!
Posted Feb 02, 2011
Initially, getting sober may feel exciting, new and fresh-the world suddenly appears different and a person may feel better mentally and physically. However, this "pink cloud", as many have labeled it, will wear off and "reality" of this lifelong venture will set in. At this time it is crucial to have a social support system in place as well as outside help for co-occurring mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, etc. (ie, individual therapy and medication management-as needed). Getting through a difficult time while staying sober builds their "muscle" and makes the next challenge feel possible to work through. Recovery itself may start to feel mundane and tedious and it is up to the individual to take a look at all facets of their lives to see what actions they need to take in order to get back on track. This is the process of "re-committing" and it involves acknowledgement of weakness in an area(s) of recovery and then self-correcting.
There are many aspects involved in having stable recovery. Some common areas in which sober alcoholics may lose their commitment over time are:
• Attending individual therapy as recommended
• Obtaining proper sleep
• Maintaining balanced nutrition
• Attending regular mutual-help meeting (A.A., SMART Recovery, Women for Sobriety)
• Attending group therapy
• Staying in contact with sober peers
• Not engaging in other addictive behaviors (ie, shopping, sex, gambling)
• Taking prescribed medication that has been assessed as necessary
• Being honest
• Pursuing spiritual practice
• Following through with daily responsibilities (ie, work, paying bills, chores)
• Giving back to others
• Involvement in healthy relationships (friendships, family and romantic)
One pattern that can lead to relapse is, for example, not attending mutual-help meetings for a period of time and then feeling discouraged about this pattern, giving up all effort in other areas of recovery and possibly relapsing. Instead of viewing this break from an aspect of recovery as a temporary lull and then recommitting, many individuals use "black and white" thinking to judges themselves in a negative way and as a result may "give up" on sobriety. However, no one is perfect, and everyone with long-term recovery has had a time when they were lacking motivation in one area or another. The key is to observe what aspect of life is out of balance and to work on making adjustments without giving up completely. Sometimes creating small and obtainable daily goals can help a person to get back into their routine. It is important to reach out for help and to talk with others in their support network about these challenges-for no one has to be alone on this path.
For more information and resources about high-functioning alcoholics, please visit: www.highfuntioningalcoholic.com and remember that my book "Understanding the High-Functioning Alcoholic" is now available in paperback!