16 Things Women Hate to Hear (Even When We Like or Love You)

So, make up your mind- DO you want to know how men feel or don't you?

If you ASK a man how you look, you'd better actually want to know. "You look fine, and besides, it's a low-key occasion and nobody will care how you look anyway" strikes most straight men as a perfectly fine answer. If you DON'T actually want to know what your husband or boyfriend thinks, don't ask him. Ask your female friends or gay male friends, since it's obvious their opinions are the only ones that count in your mind!

When your husband or boyfriend sulks or fumes because his favorite football team lost a big game, do you lend a sympathetic ear? Maybe, but I'm betting you tell him, "Get over it! It's just a game! It isn't that important! Relax!" Which, come to think of it, is often sound advice.

Finally, for a comedienne, you DON'T have much of a sense of humor. Most women don't. I swear, I've told the "Death... by Bunga Bunga" joke and the "Boys' Pants Half Off" joke a million times, and women never laugh!

You have listed just 16 of the inevitable reactions to repeatedly reading and hearing the one thing that men are sick to death of: "I hate men because..."

I love the photo you picked for this article! :D

Sometimes the thing we hate to hear is exactly what we need to hear.

Where is the "you are starting/sounding like your/my mother" comment, I would have thought it would make at least the top 5!

undoubtedly,there's a lack of compassion and empathy in this checklist.
you add "Even When We Like or Love You" !???
it doesn't make sense to love a man/woman who is not compassionate/empathetic toward us.

While I don't like the dismissive tone of many of these, it looks like most of them are responsive phrases that would only be used in reply to things that Men would not wan't to hear. But I suppose our double standards won't allow us to write a list of things women shouldn't say to men. That would be sexist.
Also, not only would most of the women I know not say the things that would prompt these responses very often, but I would hope they would take offense to the way this list characterizes both men and women: men, as dismissive, emotionally repressed jerks, and women, as over-emotional basket-cases that feel the need to micro-manage the expressions of others.
This sort of trivializing of gender roles and promotion of disharmonious stereotypes belongs on the cover of Cosmo, not on HuffPost, and definitely not in Psychology Today.