If a man has no friends or an intimate social support system, does that mean he doesn't need one? Nope. We're all members of a social species and friends are important.
There are two types of people in this world: those who want to be free and those who want to have control. With which do you intend to build a romance?
Failure to integrate our sexuality and spirituality creates disaster because our values are there to guide us and without their illumination, we are blinded.
In the last 30 years of my practice, those who have committed sex crimes have a 100 percent likelihood of three failures in their personal lives: career, friendship, and love.
Part 2: When I ask sex offenders the question, "What would you like to get out of therapy?" the most common response over decades is, "I'd like to know how this happened."
For the last 21 years, I've worked as a sex offender counselor helping people who have been accused or convicted of sex crimes. We could all learn a lot from their stories.
Most of us have experienced regret about getting into a committed relationship with someone who turned out, in hindsight, to have been so very wrong for us.
No, you're not too picky. We all have personal deal-breakers that come up as we try to figure out how to have a great relationship and a sublimely happy future.
There are two specific types of variables, both deal breakers, that can keep two people from having a successful, loving relationship. Today, we're going to discuss the first.
Our resources of time, treasure, and talent are not infinite. When we fail to perform our due diligence when selecting a mate, we impoverish ourselves emotionally and spiritually.
You won't hear about the idea of intelligent management of sexuality at school, from family, or from church. But, like seatbelts, it's an idea that will catch on.
We're all supposed to have sex with someone we're interested in, right? The problem is that the data collected isn't really relevant to the task at hand: finding a compatible mate.
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