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Grit

Why Grit Without Passion is Just Suffering

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on July 7, 2026

Simply "grinding harder" isn't grit. It's a start, but true grit requires something more to make it effective. Here's why passion is the missing piece that makes all the difference.

Simply "grinding harder" isn't grit. It's a start, but true grit requires something more to make it effective. Here's why passion is the missing piece that makes all the difference.

Relationships

Why Romantic Chemistry Can Be a Red Flag

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on April 15, 2026

That intoxicating spark? Neuroscience calls it a dopamine surge, not destiny. Here's why chemistry alone is a terrible way to choose a partner.

That intoxicating spark? Neuroscience calls it a dopamine surge, not destiny. Here's why chemistry alone is a terrible way to choose a partner.

Confidence

You Are Choosing to Be Insecure

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on January 14, 2026

The more you try to prove yourself, the more insecure you become. Here's the counterintuitive path to genuine confidence.

The more you try to prove yourself, the more insecure you become. Here's the counterintuitive path to genuine confidence.

Friends

Break Free From Toxic Friendships

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on November 5, 2025

Healthy friendships enrich and energize; toxic ones drain and diminish. Learn how to spot the difference—and how to end friendships that harm your well-being.

Healthy friendships enrich and energize; toxic ones drain and diminish. Learn how to spot the difference—and how to end friendships that harm your well-being.

Divorce

From Heartbreak to Healing

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on September 30, 2025

Discover six essential truths for healing after divorce. Find hope, regain your footing, and learn practical strategies to rebuild your life, even in your toughest moments.

Discover six essential truths for healing after divorce. Find hope, regain your footing, and learn practical strategies to rebuild your life, even in your toughest moments.

Parenting

Giving the Right Kind of Parental Praise

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on September 3, 2025

How a child is praised can unlock future success or unintentionally hold them back. Choosing the right praise matters more than most people realize.

How a child is praised can unlock future success or unintentionally hold them back. Choosing the right praise matters more than most people realize.

Trauma

What Deploying to Iraq Taught Me About Trauma

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on July 16, 2025

Two soldiers. Two traumas. One shared lesson: When tenacity meets courage, healing—and meaning—can take root, even in the harshest places.

Two soldiers. Two traumas. One shared lesson: When tenacity meets courage, healing—and meaning—can take root, even in the harshest places.

Parenting

Essential Life Skills for Kids

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on July 3, 2025

Raising children into capable, healthy adults is challenging, and sometimes confusing—but it’s easier when parents know which skills and character traits to prioritize.

Raising children into capable, healthy adults is challenging, and sometimes confusing—but it’s easier when parents know which skills and character traits to prioritize.

Anxiety

Two Research-Backed Supplements May Reduce Anxiety

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on June 6, 2025

Struggling with anxiety? Emerging research suggests that certain supplements, like L-theanine and ashwagandha, may offer some relief.

Struggling with anxiety? Emerging research suggests that certain supplements, like L-theanine and ashwagandha, may offer some relief.

Sport and Competition

The Unseen Threat of Sexually Predatory College Coaches

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on May 7, 2025

College coaches hold power—and sometimes, the unscrupulous and insecure exploit it. Learn how grooming happens and what parents must know to protect their daughters from abuse.

College coaches hold power—and sometimes, the unscrupulous and insecure exploit it. Learn how grooming happens and what parents must know to protect their daughters from abuse.

Dreaming

Nightmares No More

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on March 6, 2025

Chronic nightmares can lead to fatigue, anxiety, and depression. A new approach to treating nightmares shows promise and is simple enough to use at home.

Chronic nightmares can lead to fatigue, anxiety, and depression. A new approach to treating nightmares shows promise and is simple enough to use at home.

Guilt

In Praise of Guilt

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on February 19, 2025

Guilt can be a festering wound that follows you throughout life, or it can be a catalyst for change that promotes growth and transforms you into a better version of yourself.

Guilt can be a festering wound that follows you throughout life, or it can be a catalyst for change that promotes growth and transforms you into a better version of yourself.

Relationships

Lightning in a Bottle or the Long Game of Love

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on February 13, 2025

Some men and women seek romance that begins with extreme but unsustainable passion and are disillusioned when the sparks fade. Understanding what sustains real intimacy can help.

Some men and women seek romance that begins with extreme but unsustainable passion and are disillusioned when the sparks fade. Understanding what sustains real intimacy can help.

Relationships

"I Need to Love Myself Before I Can Love Others"

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on January 31, 2025

The notion that one needs to learn to love oneself before one can adequately love others ignores the brute facts of human development. Fortunately, there are other solutions.

The notion that one needs to learn to love oneself before one can adequately love others ignores the brute facts of human development. Fortunately, there are other solutions.

Relationships

How Trust Transforms Relationships

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on December 28, 2024

Earning the trust of others can transform your life, deepen intimacy, and build a deeply rooted sense of well-being.

Earning the trust of others can transform your life, deepen intimacy, and build a deeply rooted sense of well-being.

Resilience

When Life Is Painful, Make It Count

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on December 18, 2024

Everyone experiences heartaches throughout life. How you respond to these challenges determines whether they become doorways to a better future.

Everyone experiences heartaches throughout life. How you respond to these challenges determines whether they become doorways to a better future.

Happiness

The Road to Fulfillment

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on December 11, 2024

Personal Perspective: Life is most full and meaningful when you are engaged in those things that deeply matter. The worst distractions are the desires for approval and status.

Personal Perspective: Life is most full and meaningful when you are engaged in those things that deeply matter. The worst distractions are the desires for approval and status.

Relationships

Building Lasting Romantic Connections

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on November 20, 2024

New romantic relationships involve risks. One of these is self-disclosure. How you respond to your love interest's disclosures can be the spark that helps fuel a great romance.

New romantic relationships involve risks. One of these is self-disclosure. How you respond to your love interest's disclosures can be the spark that helps fuel a great romance.

Therapy

Can "Retail Therapy" Help You Feel Better?

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on September 3, 2024

Retail therapy is often seen as a way of simply papering over problems. But it turns out that retail therapy can have some surprising benefits when wisely employed.

Retail therapy is often seen as a way of simply papering over problems. But it turns out that retail therapy can have some surprising benefits when wisely employed.

Mating

Decoding Romantic Attraction

Forrest Talley Ph.D. on August 5, 2024

Romantic attraction can be influenced by mental operations that occur outside awareness. This includes cognitive biases that lead us to think someone is something they are not.

Romantic attraction can be influenced by mental operations that occur outside awareness. This includes cognitive biases that lead us to think someone is something they are not.