Narcissism Demystified

Looking behind the narcissistic facade.

Dan Neuharth Ph.D., MFT

9 Ways Many Narcissists Behave Like Cult Leaders

Why are the gaslighting techniques used by narcissists so disorienting? They bear a striking resemblance to 9 powerful techniques of cult indoctrination and control.

8 Insidious Ways Narcissists Try to Control You

Narcissists use devious tactics to enhance their own image while manipulating others. Here's how to identify eight of narcissists' underhanded methods.

Do You Have a Pattern of Being Drawn to Narcissists?

Are you drawn to narcissists or find that narcissists are drawn to you? Here's help on letting go of such unhealthy attractions.

The Painful Catch-22 of Caring About a Narcissist

To gain narcissists' approval, you often have to demean yourself. Here's how to stay true to yourself around people who want you to bend to their wills.

10 Ways Narcissists and Alcoholics Are Similar

Narcissism and alcoholism have much in common. Recognizing the commonalities can help you cope with narcissists or addicts.

7 Tips for Coping With Narcissists During the Holidays

Are you dreading holiday visits with narcissistic family, friends, or in-laws? These seven tips can help you celebrate and renew rather than regress and disconnect.

Is the Narcissist in Your Life a Peacock or an Ostrich?

How can you tell the difference between an overt narcissist and a covert narcissist? These tips can help.

13 Fake Apologies Used By Narcissists

Do you ever wonder why narcissists' "apologies" often leave you underwhelmed, puzzled, or feeling even worse? Learn why their faux apologies fall short.

A Provocative Psychological Analysis of Trump by a Trump

A Trump family insider writes a sobering analysis of how the president's early psychological development affects him, and may touch all of us.

7 Ways to Set Boundaries With Narcissistic People

How can you keep a healthy sense of self around narcissists' manipulative behaviors? Here are 7 ways to establish strong boundaries.

13 Ways Narcissists Behave Like Children

Do you find narcissists' behaviors maddening? Viewing their actions through a developmental lens can help you understand their manipulative tactics.

Narcissists’ Greatest Fears

How to decode the deepest fears underlying narcissists' larger-than-life personas.

If You Wonder Whether You Are a Narcissist...

If you're worried about this question, the answer is probably no.

13 Keys to Understanding Narcissist-Speak

Narcissists often communicate for self-aggrandizement more than for connection. Here are tips on how to translate what they are really saying.

15 Ways Being Raised by a Narcissist Can Affect You

If you grew up with a narcissistic parent, you may be paying a price even long after you've left home. Here is help on how to recognize and overcome a destructive family legacy.

Impeachment Angst: Tallying the Psychological Impact

Why is this week's impeachment of Donald Trump so emotionally radioactive?

Do You Have "Narcissist-Family-Holiday Affective Disorder"?

The holiday season can bring out the worst in narcissists. Here's advice on how to cope with narcissistic family members or in-laws during the upcoming holiday.