This is why if there is no legal reason to monitor your ex, then I have a policy of defriending and blocking them. Its not personal. It is just self-care.

It probably goes without saying that people can and do use Facebook to monitor the activities of their current romantic partners (Marshall, Bejanyan, Di Castro & Lee, 2013). Further, the evidence suggests that one third of people also use Facebook to monitor the activities of former partners (Chaulk & Jones, 2011). Provided that this surveillance behavior does not intrude on or adversely affect the life or well-being of an ex, is such behavior a problem? Strictly speaking, surveillance behavior would be defined as actively looking through an ex-partner’s Facebook profile, whereas simply remaining Facebook friends would not necessarily mean actively looking for information regarding an ex-partner on Facebook.
A further question, which we pose here, is:
Does the continued surveillance of an ex-partner, or even remaining friends with an ex-partner, have the effect of delaying a person’s emotional recovery following a breakup, or does it in fact help post break-up recovery?
Contact with an ex
If we wish, we can stay in contact with an ex-partner in various ways. We can see them in person or maintain some kind of online contact through social networking. In terms of keeping in contact with an ex-partner, the distinction may be between what is called strong-tie contact, which is offline contact (seeing someone face-to-face), or weak-tie contact, which may mean remaining Facebook friends or looking at an ex’s activity on Facebook (Marshall, 2012). These weak ties mean that there is continued exposure to an ex-partner’s activities, which one would reasonably assume could prolong any distress experienced following a break-up.
To investigate this issue, Tara Marshall recruited 464 participants who reported being in various types of relationship (e.g., single, married, exclusively dating, etc). Participants all had a Facebook account, and had experienced at least one relationship breakup.
All participants were asked to recall a breakup with someone who had a Facebook account, and which had caused them distress. The study also ascertained whether participants:
- Currently had offline contact with their ex-partner.
- Engaged in Facebook surveillance of their ex-partner. This was assessed with two questions: “How often do you look at your ex-partner’s Facebook page?” and “How often do you look at your ex-partner’s list of Facebook friends?”
- Were still Facebook friends with the ex-partner.
Data were also collected on:
- Current distress over the relationship breakup.
- Negative feelings towards their ex-partner.
- Sexual desire for their ex-partner.
- Longing for their ex-partner.
- Personal growth, after the breakup, defined in terms of how many life changes and how many new experiences had occurred since their breakup, e.g. developing new interests.
What was found?
1. Offline Contact
The amount of offline (face-to-face) contact was positively associated with current distress, desire, and longing for an ex. The more offline contact a person had with an ex-partner, the greater the amount of current distress experienced and the more participants desired and longed for their ex.
2. Facebook Surveillance
Facebook surveillance was positively associated with current distress, negative feelings and a longing and desire for an ex-partner, but negatively related to personal growth. In other words, actively monitoring an ex-partner via Facebook was related to greater distress following a breakup and more longing for the ex-partner.
3. Facebook Friends
Remaining Facebook friends with an ex-partner was inversely related to the amount of desire and longing for and negative feelings towards an ex-partner. So remaining Facebook friends meant that respondents experienced lower levels of desire and longing for an ex-partner. However, remaining Facebook friends was also associated with a lower level of personal growth. In other words, remaining Facebook friends meant that people were less likely to move on and develop new interests.
What does this mean?
Marshall’s study (2012) suggests that Facebook surveillance of a former partner may have a greater effect on post-breakup functioning than strong-tie contact (offline). Why is this the case? It was speculated that Facebook provides information not readily available offline, such as an ex-partner’s involvement with someone else.
Contrary to what might be thought, and what was expected in this study, those who remained Facebook friends with an ex-partner reported lower negative feelings toward them, and less sexual desire and longing for them than those who did not remain Facebook friends. Marshall (2012) suggests that perhaps those who remain Facebook friends may have had weaker feelings for the partner before the breakup, or maybe they experienced a more amicable breakup, than those who defriended their ex. Indeed, remaining Facebook friends possibly suggests that people may have had a more amicable breakup than those who defriended their ex.
However, those who remained as Facebook friends experienced lower personal growth than those people who defriended. This weak-tie contact of remaining as Facebook friends seems to inhibit a person’s ability to move forward, and therefore the suggestion is that recovery and personal growth are independent.
Marshall speculates that the continued exposure to an ex-partner’s comments, photos, and status updates as a result of remaining Facebook friends, may have the effect of decreasing any lingering attraction to an ex-partner. Whereas ex-partners with whom we are no longer in contact remain a mystery to us, possibly sustaining our longing.
All in all, then, it seems that remaining Facebook friends with an ex may help rather than hinder emotional recovery following a romantic relationship breakup.
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References
Chaulk, K. & Jones, T. (2011) ‘Online obsessive relational intrusion: further concerns about Facebook’. Journal of Family Violence, 26, 245–254.
Marshall (2012) ‘Facebook surveillance of former romantic partners: associations with postbreakup recovery and personal growth’. Cyberpsychology, Behaviour and Social Networking, 15(10) 521-526.
Marshall, T. C., Bejanyan, K., Di Castro, G. & Lee, R. A. (2013) ‘Attachment styles as predictors of Facebook-related jealousy and surveillance in romantic relationships’. Personal Relationships, 20, 1–22.
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I sent prophet luba my problem,but in my message i told him i'm a bit skeptical about his powers but i just decided to give him a try and that if he can help me return my husband back to me,i will reward him and he said okay that he is going to help me but i was still having doubt just like the way you people will be having doubt reading my testimony.He told me the items i will buy for my spell casting but i was afraid to do it,so he ask me to pay half for the items that once i have seen result and that my husband has returned to me i will pay the balance and also pay him my homage.I said to myself this was a little bit better but i just decided to do it because i was desperate and more also i love jay very much and i can do anything for him just to have him back to my life.So luba cast my spell, i was afraid,so i ask him i don't want the spell to hurt Jay and he told me his spell are for good and not for evil,that he will only bring back my husband back to the normal ways and not to hurt him.so he cast my spell,and he told me for now till 72 hours my husband will start pleading that he wants me and the kids back in his life and behold friends my husband came to my parents home and started pleading,he was kneeling down with his eyes filled with tears pleading my parent and me that he want me back as his wife,behold i stood up and gave him a kiss, i was also crying, my daughters too came to hug us and i told him i love him with my life.we are happily married again all thanks to prophet luba.friends I'm not here to write because i love writing, i only shared this testimony because i know many people out there need it to save there marriage.Give luba a try today and i promise you all your problem will be solved.save your marriage today if i worth it and you are truly in love.I will recommended anyone with similar situation to the great prophet luba.here is prophet luba private whatsapp number +2348159810029 contact him and you will have a great testimony to tell the world.
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Sincerely i was so crushed when my Husband of 8 years left me and moved to Texas to be with another woman. The pains was just too much for me to bear that I couldn't just bear it anymore. I traveled to greet my friend and her family during Christmas celebration then i explained to her, how my husband has abandon me and my children for a period of time and be with another woman, and my friend told me about Dr Ogbefun the great spell caster who had helped her in the past before, when i contacted him with his email i explain to him, how my Husband has been with another woman for two year now and that's the problem am facing in my marriage now and i need to end it by killing her, and i don't want to make use of assassin because it will be risky so i needed to do it in a spiritual way that's why i decided to contact him, he assured me not to worry as i have contacted the right person at the right time, i co-operated with him and in less than a week she die, she slept and never woke up, and truly my husband come back apologizing that he never knew what came over him my husband apologize to me and we are happy family now. all thanks to dr ogbefun you can contact Dr Ogbefun for any death spell, such as killing your superior in the office and take his or her place.spell for increase in salaries, spell for promotion at the office, spell to get your ex lover back, if things is not working well in your life then you need to contact him now via add him on whatsapp +2348102574680
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Good day everybody my name is Mrs Caroline Gilli am here to share with you my life experience how a great man called Dr Alexzander saved me and my marriage.I have been Married & Barren for for 5 years i had no child. i have never been pregnant i was a subject of laughter from my Friends & neighbors, i almost lost my marriage because of this issue.i was so confused that i did not know what to do until i came across this great Dr online and i contacted him at once i was scared weather it was going to work because i never believed things like this before, so i decided to give it a try and i did all what Dr Alexzander asked of me and today to my greatest surprise i took in the first time and i gave birth to a bouncing baby boy and now my marriage that was about crashig before is now restored. my husband now love and want me better, Am so happy for everything that have been happening my life since i met this Dr Alexzander.
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Hello everyone.. I was married for 8years with William. things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time. it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce. I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me. But he moved out of the house and still went ahead to file for the divorce. I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. The breakthrough came when a friend introduced me to this wonderful, great spell caster who eventually helped me out. I have never been a fan of things like this but just decided to try reluctantly cause I was desperate and left with no choice. He did special prayers and used roots and herbs. Within 4 days he called me and was sorry for all the emotional trauma he had cost me, he moved back to the house and we continue to live happily. what a wonderful miracle dr. Umagbai did for me and my family. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news. I strongly believe someone out there need's his help.dr.umagbaisolutionhome@ gmail. com his whatsapp number (+2348051122286) so make extra effort to save your marriage/relationship,you can also contact him if you have any problems..
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i was so depressed when my lover left me for another guy after we have dated for 5 years , i tried begging her to come back to me she refused and said she no longer have feelings for me .
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Hi, everyone, I'm here to share my testimony all around the globe in respect to the help that Doctor Zakuza did for me. I was devastated and confused when I got divorced by my husband 2 years ago because he wanted to go back to his mistress. I searched for help from those that i knew but all was to no avail not until i was directed to Doctor Zakuza the spell caster. I contacted Doctor Zakuza and told him everything that I've been going through and he gave me full assurance that he will help me. I did everything he told me to do and I put my trust and hope on him. Could you believe that my husband came back to me pleading within 12 to 16 hours just as Doctor Zakuza told me after i contacted him and now, my husband is back home and we are living together again. I will recommend anyone in need of help to reach him now for he's also specialized in money spells, lottery spells, pregnancy spells, sickness spells E.T.C. Whats-app, call/text him on +1 (845) 400-7115.
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Powerful Effective Love Spell Get Your Ex Back About a month ago I got back to my ex(after 2 and half years separated).Everything was ok and she was the most adorable woman in the world. she spoke about wedding ceremony, how many kids we would have, said that our relationship was the most important thing in her life and she was 100% sure about it…Then he traveled to work in other country for 3 weeks. she changed his behavior completely. she disappeared every night, was saying she had to do some work and would talk to me later, but disappeared the rest of the day and night… no explanation, when I asked why she was disappearing every night, she stopped answering me. she’s ignoring me since last week, April 15. she ignored even my birthday, that was April 16. Not even a message. I wrote to her a few times trying to understand what happened, she read but just ignored me.I feel so bad cause I couldn’t stop contacting and trying to understand what happened.i loved her so much and wanted to get her back, then i was told to contact who can help out with a love spell to reunite your relationship back, so instantly do contact him and give him a try and trust me he did an urgent effective love spell for me and with in 48hours promise he made to me, my woman was back, today i testify to you all that you should seek and contact Dr happy for his spell result is genuine sure and guarantee unite and get your ex back save your
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I feel very happy to share my great and wonderful testimony with everyone on this site,I was married for 4 years to my husband and all of a sudden another woman came into the picture he started hating me and he was abusive.but i still loved him with all my heart and wanted him at all cost.... He filed for divorce and my whole life was turning apart and i didn't know what to do, he moved out of the house and abandoned me and the kids... my very close friend told me about trying spiritual means to get my husband back and introduced me to a spell caster so i decided to try it. although i didn't believe in all those things then when he did the special prayers and spell, after 2 days, my husband came back and was pleading that he had realized his mistakes I just couldn't believe it, anyway we are back together now and we are happy in case anyone needs help here is his email address; gbojiespiritualtemple @ gmail. com His spells is for a better life OR call his number +2349066410185
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Not certain where to begin, I was overwhelmed lately trying to get out of a funk situation in a relationship. My fiancé was a whole other story. He was downright hurtful and ungrateful; his life and belongings were in shambles. He was someone addicted to drugs and women. He liked hiding behind excuses, giving me reasons to live a reckless life.
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One thing we needed was someone or a spell doctor that will place himself in our spot to cure or tell us how easy it is to maintain or build a relationship surrounded by true love and healthy living.
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My purpose out here today is to share this article to the world about how Dr. Zakuza from India. Dr. Zakuza helped me in getting back my EX-girlfriend that broke up with me 4 months ago. My name is Jackson Pinckney from Cape Town South Africa. I tried all i could to make her see reasons with me that we can continue our relationship but she neglected and turn down my decision. Thank God for giving me the thought of going into the internet for help, i searched properly and i saw different reviews of Dr. Zakuza and i insisted in giving it a try by contacting him via what's app on +1 (845) 400–7115. He gave me reason to live again and he prepared a spell and told me that my Ex-girlfriend will come back to me within 12 to 16 hours. Can you believe it, my EX-girlfriend came back to me and our wedding will hold before the end of this year. Contact him now!!! if you need any help. Email: doctorzakuzaspelltemple @yahoo. com
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My name is Jessica Edwards. I want to thank Dr. Odiagbe, a very powerful sorcerer who helped me bring my husband, a few months ago I have a serious problem with my husband, to the point that he left the house, and he started dating another woman and he He stayed with the woman, I tried everything possible to bring him back, but all my effort was useless until the day my friend came to my house and I told her everything that had happened between me and me. husband, then she told me about a powerful spellcaster who helped her when she was in the same problem as me, so I contacted Dr. Odiagbe and told him everything he thought and he told me not to worry because my husband would return. for me after having bewitched him, I thought it was a joke, after he finished casting the spell, he told me that he had just finished casting the spell, to my great surprise within those 3 days, my husband really came back and begged me forgive him, if you need help you can contact him with whatsapp +2349054353335 is willing to help any body that needs your help.
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