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Why Thinking About the Future Makes Your Life Better Now

Your future self is closer than you think and the present is where it happens.

Key points

  • Thinking about who you want to become helps you make choices you’ll feel proud of.
  • Connecting with your future self builds purpose, clarity, and inner peace.
  • You have the power to create the life you want—starting right now.
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We often hear phrases like “stay in the moment” or “live for today,” and while mindfulness is undeniably powerful, research shows that looking ahead—thinking about the future—can actually improve your life right now. In fact, imagining your future self may be one of the most psychologically healthy and motivating things you can do.

The Power of Future-Oriented Thinking

Future thinking is a form of mental time travel that allows you to imagine possibilities, outcomes, and goals. Unlike anxiety-driven worry, which tends to fixate on worst-case scenarios, healthy future thinking is purposeful, vivid, and constructive. It’s not about fantasy—it’s about using your imagination as a tool for motivation, resilience, and well-being.

In fact, studies show that people who regularly think about the future tend to make better decisions in the present, from saving money to exercising more consistently [1]. When you can picture your future self clearly—whether it’s five minutes, five days, or five years from now—you’re more likely to make choices that benefit that version of you.

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The Future Isn’t Far Away—It’s Already Arriving

We often think of the future as something distant or abstract, but in reality, the future starts with your very next moment. Each decision you make today shapes the “you” that shows up tomorrow. When you practice asking yourself, “How can I make the next moment better?” throughout the day, you begin to actively create a better future self in real time.

From this perspective, the present is not just where you are—it’s the arrival point of the future you once imagined. Every moment becomes a bridge between where you are and where you want to go. You’re not passively waiting for life to happen—you’re participating in its creation. Your future self isn’t hypothetical. It’s a real version of you, being built right now, one choice at a time.

Future Thinking Builds Motivation and Meaning

When you visualize meaningful goals, you create something psychologists call psychological distance—a tool that helps you rise above short-term impulses and focus on long-term rewards [2]. This ability to mentally “step back” from the moment helps you connect to deeper values and purpose, and fosters what’s known as eudaimonic well-being—the kind of happiness rooted in growth, meaning, and personal fulfillment [3].

One study found that people who wrote about their “best possible future self” for just a few minutes a day experienced greater optimism and life satisfaction for weeks afterward [4]. What increased wasn’t just optimism—but also a sense of control and agency. When you believe your actions today influence your tomorrow, you’re far more likely to take those actions.

Tools From Future Directed Therapy: How to Think Forward

Future thinking isn’t just a concept—it’s a skill that can be practiced. Future Directed Therapy (FDT), is a therapeutic approach designed to help people shift out of rumination and reactivity and begin creating the life they want.

Here are some foundational tools from FDT that can help you think forward more effectively:

  • Recognizing and Redirecting Thought Patterns. FDT teaches you to become aware of when your thoughts are stuck in past regrets or current obstacles, and then redirect them toward desirable future outcomes. This shift breaks the cycle of learned helplessness and fosters renewed hope.
  • The “What Do I Want?” Exercise. This deceptively simple daily question helps train your brain to focus on what you’re moving toward, not what you’re trying to avoid. It builds clarity and solution-oriented thinking.
  • Creating a Future Image. Visualize in vivid detail what you want your future to look like—not just the outcomes, but how you feel, act, and live day-to-day. Writing it down helps anchor your vision and fuels motivation.
  • Intentional Action Lists. These are like to-do lists with purpose. Instead of tasks for the sake of productivity, each step is intentionally aligned with your long-term goals.

Research shows that practicing these skills can reduce symptoms of depression and increase optimism—often in just a few weeks [7]. The takeaway? Your attention is your most valuable resource. When you focus it on the future you want, you build momentum in the present.

Future Thinking Supports Better Mental Health

Constructive future thinking doesn’t just improve motivation—it also supports emotional well-being. Future-oriented individuals tend to reframe stress as temporary and part of the path toward a goal, rather than seeing challenges as permanent or overwhelming [5]. This mindset is a key factor in emotional regulation and long-term resilience.

Neuroscience supports this, too. Brain studies reveal that when you think of your future self, your brain lights up similarly to when you think about someone you love. The more connected you feel to that future you, the more likely you are to act in their best interest [6]. In other words, developing a strong relationship with your future self can increase self-care in the present.

Balance Is the Key

You don’t need a five-year plan or a perfectly crafted vision board to benefit from future thinking. What matters is creating just enough distance from the present to see where you're going—and to remind yourself why today’s effort matters.

When you stay connected to where you’re headed, even the smallest actions begin to feel more meaningful. The future isn’t just something that happens to you—it’s something you have the power to shape. And that power is something you already possess.

Because sometimes, the best way to live a good life today… is to think about tomorrow.

If you'd like more tools for thinking about the future in a positive way, check out my book, Think Forward to Thrive: How to Use The Mind's Power of Anticipation to Transcend Your Past and Transform Your Life.

References

[1] Hershfield, H. E., et al. (2011). Increasing saving behavior through age-progressed renderings of the future self. Journal of Marketing Research.

[2] Trope, Y., & Liberman, N. (2010). Construal-level theory of psychological distance. Psychological Review.

[3] Ryff, C. D., & Singer, B. (2008). Know thyself and become what you are: A eudaimonic approach to psychological well-being. Journal of Happiness Studies.

[4] King, L. A. (2001). The health benefits of writing about life goals. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin.

[5] Sweeny, K., et al. (2015). Waiting for a good future: The anticipatory effects of positive expectations. Emotion.

[6] Ersner-Hershfield, H., et al. (2009). Don't stop thinking about tomorrow: Individual differences in future self-continuity account for saving. Judgment and Decision Making.

[7] Vilhauer, J. (2014). Think Forward to Thrive: How to Use the Mind's Power of Anticipation to Transcend Your Past and Transform Your Life. New World Library.

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