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Hollywood Portrayal of Thinness, Success, and Butter

Does being thin and beautiful make you happier?

One of those undertones involves the relationship of thinness and beauty to happiness and success.

Hollywood, as well as other media outlets, has long promoted this connection. As media consumers, we are constantly bombarded by images of women, such as Kate Moss, who are impossibly thin and gorgeous living the high life and having sex with equally gorgeous men. Several studies dating back to the 1990's indicated that the "ideal" female body as portrayed by the media has become progressively (and more unrealistically) thinner with each decade since the 1950's.

Unfortunately, young women are susceptible to these portrayals, and an alarming increase in life-threatening eating disorders on college campuses, as well as in high schools, middle schools and even in elementary school-age girls, has paralleled this media trend toward unhealthy thinness. While media portrayals are certainly not the sole cause of anorexia or bulimia, they have been implicated as a contributing social factor.

Hurray for a positive media portrayal of a woman who is not on a diet of mineral water and rabbit food and whose beauty is not surgically-enhanced! Hurray for a role model whose inner beauty, kindness, and willingness to pursue a dream (even if that dream involved lots of butter!) are rewarded by acclaim, a long happy marriage, and lots of good times and friends.

I'm not advocating overeating as a path to happiness and success. I am suggesting, however, that a positive attitude, a love of good food and good company, and a dream that you pursue on a daily basis (all of which are Julia traits) will take you further down the path to well-being and success - and even long life (Julia lived to be almost 92) - than will starvation and the fear of fat that permeates our media.

Thank you, Julia Child, Meryl Streep, and Nora Ephron, for reminding us that butter is not the enemy!