why is it damaging? I don't see it anymore damaging then the women who sells high powered career lives, Or the women who sells her body and beauty for ads. Why cant we just say that some people may just be happy at home and some may be happy working full time? We are individuals after all. And nobody has to live your life besides you.

Emily Matchar
This essay, by Austin-based writer Melanie Haupt, is one of the most interesting things I’ve read in the past few months. Haupt, who wrote her dissertation on women and food writing, takes on the blogging phenomenon known as The Pioneer Woman (if you aren’t familiar, here’s the quick and dirty background: Ree Drummond, aka The Pioneer Woman, had a go-go city girl life in LA before moving to Oklahoma, marrying a cattle rancher, and becoming a “domestic country wife” raising and homeschooling four kids in the middle of nowhere. By blogging charmingly about her daily life, she’s becoming one of the most popular and highest-paid bloggers in the world, raking in something like $1 million in ad dollars a month and earning several book deals and a Hollywood biopic).
Haupt sees The Pioneer Woman as a modern-day Betty Crocker, someone who turned herself into a living trademark to sell a product. Her image of happy domesticity is just that—an image—argues Haupt, and a potentially damaging one at that. As she writes:
“[The Pioneer Woman] represents an idealized woman, a frontier version of the angel in the house with a 21st-century twist, one who offers up domesticity as escapist entertainment. She offers a nostalgic image of a pastoral Midwestern existence that, while a simulacrum, has found traction in a nation that is increasingly urbanized. Second, in the process of “keepin’ it real,” Drummond-as-Pioneer-Woman regurgitates hegemonic tropes of femininity and masculinity in that she frequently posts worshipful entries extolling her husband’s virtues, which include his chaps-clad rear end and muscular forearms; additionally, her pet name for him, Marlboro Man, conjures up images of rugged Western masculinity and virility while also gesturing toward an iconic advertising campaign for the Marlboro cigarette brand.”
I think Haupt is getting at the heart of why lifestyle blogging can be so problematic—it blurs the line between reality and fantasy, “ordinary woman” and professional lifestyle guru. Nobody really aspires to be Martha Stewart because we all know she’s basically a product. But these lifestyle bloggers sell themselves as real people—after all, blogging is the official medium of ordinary people—so it’s hard not to compare yourself to them and wonder why your living room doesn’t look nearly as good and why don’t find making dinner nearly as fulfilling. But women like The Pioneer Woman actually are pros, but they don’t necessarily admit it. It sort of raises the bar for ordinary women, while potentially re-romanticizing domesticity in an unrealistic and unhelpful way.
What do you think? Any Pioneer Woman fans/haters out there?
PS. After a divorce my mom
PS. After a divorce my mom remarried and never went into the work place again lol. Just shows you that its not for everyone. Society has taken that choice away from many people because things are so expensive, but if you play your cards right and learn to live on less it can be done.
Gail/Sarakanne/Marlboro Woman
Gail Lee Spies Baker, aka Sarakanne, aka Marlboro Woman, aka BaileyGreen2010, aka Taylor5622, aka Hilary Jamieson, consistently demonstrates that she possesses the same infantile level of maturity of her baby-idol Trump.
Need proof? Well, stand by for demonstration!
Kim Thomas Hockaday Class of '86 Stalks The Marlboro Woman
Kim Thomas aka Kimberly Drummond Thomas, a certified wack job and the Pioneer Woman's hired gun, stalks The Marlboro Woman 24/7 from proxy servers and VPNs. Following Kim's sloppy cyber-trail led to the black hole she operates from in The Woodlands, Texas. She's been banned from the MW site for years, but Kim can't let it go. Sooo she revisits this unmoderated site repeatedly, using multiple pseudonyms, trying in vein to get someone to listen to her speculative diatribe. Poor Kim needs an intervention. Stalking people isn't healthy plus it's illegal
Kim Thomas
"trying in vein"
I think you mean VAIN!
Not sure to what your comment alludes?
Kimberly Drummond Thomas is a Hater
Now what, Kimberly Drummond Thomas, 1986 grad of Dallas' elite The Hockaday School and current resident of The Woodlands, Texas? Hmmmm, correct me if I'm wrong, but didn't your sock puppet, Winnie Uno Primo, say you were done with PWSux, Pie Near Woman and The Marlboro Woman? Then, what made you crawl back out of the woodwork? Just can't stop hating the haters, can you? And Kim, how come you never told us about your cute--a tad psycho--Twitter account @menopausalpaula. ROTFLMAO Kim, what's up with calling yourself Paula? Hiding behind multiple pseudonyms only draws more attention honey. Call someone, anyone and get help soon...before you make an even bigger fool of yourself. Stop, please just stop.
Gail Lee Spies Baker is...
... still eminently pathetic. Are you glad you started your “anonymous” jihad against a hardworking, honest woman? Gail Lee Spies Baker — saddest graduate of Tulsa Memorial, most pathetic acolyte of David Caruso & other D-list folks, least admirable employee of WW ... well, you know where I’m going here.
Ugh. Stop.
Gail Lee Spies Baker, you know full well that I am not a Drummond cousin. Stop trying to be "clever" to smoke me out.
Clever doesn't suit you. It never has.
Lumbering, humorless and mouth-breathing, well, yes, of course.
But not clever. Never clever.
Sad, sad Sarakanne
So pathetically cute, but mostly sad, to see you flirt with Ken, Gail Lee Spies Baker. I know you like to pretend you are in your 30s (your weird obsession with Metallica fools no one); does he know you actually are pushing 70?
For Sarakanne (Gail)
So cute how you pretend to have parents in Chicago. Adorable.
Still awful
Just a reminder to everyone that Gail Lee Spies Baker of Houston, formerly Tulsa, tried to ruin one woman’s life.
Pioneer Woman and her man
Anonymous wrote:why is it damaging? I don't see it anymore damaging then the women who sells high powered career lives, Or the women who sells her body and beauty for ads. Why cant we just say that some people may just be happy at home and some may be happy working full time? We are individuals after all. And nobody has to live your life besides you.
I totally agree. Some people like to write articles to debunk a person's success. I think I detect some jealousy, don't you? The Drummonds sound happier than the author of this article. By the way, het husband is dreamy!
author is not very well adjusted
So agree with Kim. Why the need to knock down a successful, happy woman? I don't see folks doing this to successful business women.
When I see articles like this, I always suspect it is a personal problem of the writer. Normal, happy, well adjusted people are happy for the success of others. They don't feel a bitter need to knock them down.
Ree Drummond aka Pioneer Woman
Thank God someone is coming to the defense of Ree and her family/lifestyle! If you read between the lines of 99% of these bloggers, you will see a huge amount of jealousy and envy. She's doing her thing, most are just pissed off because they didn't hit it big first! No one slams Oprah for living a lavish life or spending her billions on clothing, houses, personal jets, etc., it is simply the American Dream! Again, thanks for bringing this topic to the fore-front of the conversation.
Rich Edwards
REE
I am surprised people can get away with bashing her so publicly . You would think her company would put a stop to it, especially those bloggers. One is actually a subscription service. I say what is real? House hunters is scripted, most TV programs are. It's good entertainment and I enjoy The Pioneer Woman.
The Truth About Ree Drummond
Jean, dear, next time you're not watching fairy tales, google "freedom of speech." It's not a crime for bloggers to expose a fraud, especially one whose claim to fame involves lifted church recipes, a professional TV studio disguised as a guest house, and the services of publicists and agents. The right to question Ree Drummond, and anyone for that matter, is guaranteed by the First Ammendment to the U.S. Constitution.
First Amendment
Yes free speech is legal but downright bashing someone is MEAN.
I love my fairy tale, it's better than looking at all the worst in people.
Why
Just out of curiosity, why does she bother you so much? You seem to be very personally affected by a TV personality who (as far as I can tell) you don't personally know, and who has not caused you any direct harm. And yeah, sure, it's your right to voice your opinions about how big a fraud you think she is -- but why? What's the point?
Lady! Maybe you are the one
Lady! Maybe you are the one conjuring ideas in your head. It is a show and she is profitting from her love of cooking. If you bought into the idea that all she does is cook and homeschool and is always cheery maybe you need help dear. You probably also thought that Chandler, Joey and Phoebe were real and spent all day in the coffee shop right? Get a life your blogging career won't be successful while you remain hateful and jealous.
bitter haters
It's also not a crime to point out that women who bash her are probably very unhappy, bitter people themselves. Instead of being happy for the success of others, they are jealous, envious and bitter. We have a "free speech right" to point that out when we see it.
You seen to have a keen
You seen to have a keen insight into the female psyche. Perhaps i can ask for your wisdom into solving a conundrum. Why are women not allowed to simply dislike a female 'celebrity' without being accused of being jealous?
I find Ms. Drummond to be insipid and shallow. She has no qualities I aspire to have. I certainly don't want to live in Oklahoma. Why are women unable to grasp that fact?
you are just a bitter old hag
you are just a bitter old hag that is JEALOUS of her life!!!
what a joker
I'd rather be a real, bitter old hag, than a phony, "smile for the camera" fembot like ReeRee.
Gosh, "Kim" -- Spoken like,
Gosh, "Kim" -- Spoken like, oh, I don't know, someone named Gail Lee Spies Baker?!?
You really need to learn how to do a better job of disguising your online voice. Your one-note comments are so easy to identify, Ms. Ackscyn Baker.
Ree
Kim, I think the problem is that people are spending to much energy on spreading negativity. It might be easier to focus on the fact that she is actually quite charming and has mass appeal. Love her or hate her she is a success and I believe it is largely due to her positive vibe. You will never shine throwing shade right Kim?
Truth
Ree is not a fraud. You should get your facts straight before you post false facts.
Real Pioneer Woman
Is a monument to the women who help build the West, it is located 60 miles west of her location and yet she never mentions the monument to all Pioneer Women. I guess if she did that she would have to admit she stole the name from the monument dedicated to the Pioneer spirit she is supposed to represent.
Real Pioneer Woman
How do you know she stole it? She very well could of had permission to use that name. Stop posting false claims about someone you know nothing about.
The Pioneer Woman in Ponca City
I appreciate your mentioning this statue. She most certainly took her name from this. I too am upset that she put herself in the same category of the women this represents. She could have called herself "Frontier Woman" which would have been fine with me or "Prairie Woman" or "Country Woman" or "Redneck Woman"! Everyone is this area is very aware of this landmark in Ponca City. This was not a coincidence. And as for people believing the fantasy of her life, that's their problem. They need to know there is a director out there saying "Que the family to enter the lodge" and they aren't really coming in from herding cattle. Ms. Drummond and her enterprises have done much for the small town of Pawhuska, and the other businesses. I hope she just stays there and doesn't go "Hollywood".
It's called "freedom of
It's called "freedom of speech" and opinion.
our freedoms & our convictions.
I agree with you. Our freedoms & opinions are each owns entitlement. And I might add so is to live our life by our own convictions. She is taking the best part of her life that she enjoys & blogging about it, creating wonderful recipes &
enjoying photography to share. We all have negative aspects in our lives. No one would want to read just that. She is smart.
ree
Im guessing the reason they arent putting a stop to it is they really dont have to. Ree has the backing of the Drummonds and has been from the beginning of her little ole me blog a cleverly marketed success...
Im a fan dont get me wrong, Ive even won a 200 gift card in one of her trivia contests but I will admit I was a little sad when I realized all the money and carefully timed publicity involved...starting with her blog, then her book that tells of her meeting Ladd and the first year of her marriage and kids book on newly departed and very much missed faithful pooch Charlie AND CONTINUING with the brand new Merc restaurant/deli/bakery/gift shop...
When I realized it wasnt so much a pleasant surprise she got so much fame and more the clever packaging and branding I admit I was a little sad....she isnt the same to me as back when one good thing followed by another coincidentily came her way...and the tales of her country, hard working kids (which I dont doubt) never getting out much doesnt really fly because they seem to get around a lot..Yeah Im a little jealous.I admit it...she did go from a great childhood on a golf course with a surgeon father to college in CA before landing her handsome Marlboro Man...LUCKY...so as jealous as I am I cant help love her and hope shes as sweet as she seems on QVC while presenting In the Kitchen with Davids David Venable with a pair of cowboy boots...OH MY GOSH..I JUST realized..Im conflicted....
Ree and people who "rip" her
Rich, I am not sure Oprah and Ree are the same, meaning comparing apples to apples so to speak. We all know Oprah went from reporter to talk show host to media mogul. The lifestyle stuff goes with that. A tad 'look at me", but it is no secret Oprah owns her own cable network, magazine, and syndication distributor. She is not presenting herself as an "average" person. I find her power, wealth, and influence amazing given that she came from nothing. A true American dream rags to riches story.
My wife watches Pioneer Woman, and that is how I became aware of her. I also work in the television industry, so when I see the program all I can think of is how well lit interiors or exteriors are, how many boom mics out of sight there are, or how almost everyone is wearing a wireless microphone hidden on them, and how uncomfortable the kids and or guests look when conversing in "real" and 'candid" moments. Multiple takes are sometimes required, of that I am certain, so I imagine only the most common dullard actually thinks anything is candid or unfolding in real time when they watch this show. That is what irks me when I catch a glimpse of this. Even her husband looks a tad annoyed when they have to play out a "spontaneous" lunch brought out to them on the ranch, or a dinner with family. Like no one is aware of the lights or reflectors or multiple cameras present.
Ree is making tons of dough, and good for her. People obviously see value in what she writes about and or the recipes she imparts on air. People find some value in what she has to offer.
I believe the people who you state are "jealous" are perhaps looking at the domestic ideal being presented by two people who were born wealthy, and have taken that fortunate pedigree, and added even more to their pot. They are anything but average, Ree having been raised in a country club, and her husband a descendant of a wealthy cattle ranching dynasty. I do not begrudge them that, nor do the some of the people who you mention may be jealous of them. I just find it a tad disingenuous that nothing of their fortunate birthright is mentioned when they present their version of domestic bliss. Caveat emptor, buyer beware, and it is after all the consumers responsibility to separate the wheat from the chaff when ingesting this television program or her blog.
What you said!
It is amazing that so few know that Ree and her husband are megabucks wealthy. The Drummonds are old, old Oklahoma money -- "royalty" -- like the Kennedy's. There is no WAY Ree did not know who he was when she met him! And yes, it is despicable to go on and on about their "farm life" as if they were really farmers and not rich gentry. Why not tell the truth? I said in one forum that this would be like "Jackie Kennedy pretending she was a Lobsterman's Wife, who happened to marry into a fishing family and move to the east coast....without mentioning JFK was the scion of one of the wealthiest political families in the nation or a billionaire".
Re; Ree and People Who Rip Her
Yes. The problem arises when people buy her fantasy as truth. They ascribe all kinds of virtue to something that is staged and fake. It's fine to enjoy the fantasy, as long as you understand that this is commodifying your family, relationships and household to build a brand. It isn't real; it isn't all sweetness and light, it's a very calculated business.
People are free to enjoy her programs, restaurant, etc. Those who are worshipful, however, are a bit scary.
Ree Drummond
It is damaging because she is a figment of your imagination. She presents herself as a self made woman. In reality, she is a spoiled rich brat who found success selling her leisure-like carefree lifestyle to women like her. The rest of us are working our asses off to make ends meet.
Sigh
Of course she's a figment of your imagination - it's a television show and a blog. It isn't an Anderson Cooper special on the real lives of cattle ranchers. Nor does it purport to be - and she presents herself in no such way. I was unaware that people who grew up with money weren't allowed to find their niche in homemaking. And heaven forbid be educated and enterprising enough to capitalize on it. Like reverse nepotism right? You can't blog about being a SAHM and "accidental country girl" if you came from money and married money - gasp, the horror! It sounds like most of the critics need to seriously examine their motives because that seems to be the common thread.
Killing the planet
The biggest problem with Ree Drummond is that she's pushing a totally toxic, psychopathic way of life. Cattle ranching is one of the most environmentally destructive industries on the planet and the level of animal cruelty is off the charts. I watched her ONE TIME and had the overwhelming urge to slap that phony, simpering, plastic smile right off her face. The woman is absolutely repulsive, as is the rest of her family. Why the hell can't we have role models who are compassionate and are invested in caring for the planet; teaching people the deliciousness of plant-based foods where cruelty, torture and death aren't involved; sustainable gardens and eco-friendly lifestyles? This planet is rapidly being destroyed due in large part to selfish, greedy, psychopathic morons like Drummond.
"Killing the planet"
Sounds like someone needs a cheeseburger!
Ree D
Thank God you recognized this and called her out. I just can't stomach anything about her.
Ree Drummond
It is damaging because she is a figment of your imagination. She presents herself as a self made woman. In reality, she is a spoiled rich woman who found success selling her leisure-like carefree lifestyle to women like her. The rest of us are working our asses off to make ends meet.
Ree Drummond
Anonymous wrote:why is it damaging? I don't see it anymore damaging then the women who sells high powered career lives, Or the women who sells her body and beauty for ads. Why cant we just say that some people may just be happy at home and some may be happy working full time? We are individuals after all. And nobody has to live your life besides you.
I agree ... If this type blog or the TV show makes feel bad, I would suggest that there are self esteem issue to begin with. And regardless this has to be better for mental/emotional health than other "reality presentations" that encourage the worst of human nature and bad behavior, i.e. The Bachlor(ett), Survivor or The Kardashians.
True ID for Marlboro Woman
Hi everyone! "The Marlboro Woman" is Gail Lee Spies Baker of Houston, TX!!!!!!!!!
Kim Drummond Thomas - Stalker Extraordinaire
Hi everyone. Kimberly Anne Drummond Thomas was born October 10th in Pawhuska, Oklahoma. She attended The Hockaday School and Oklahoma State University. Kim's the first cousin of Ladd Drummond and she currently resides in The Woodlands, Texas. When Kim's not shaking down parents for team meal expenses, she pursues those "secrets to keep him." But it's her unhealthy fixation with The Marlboro Woman that dominates her life. Kim devotes every waking moment to stalking TMW and exacting vengeance.
Kim Thomas - The Woodlands, Texas is a Cyber-Stalker
Kim's voice and style, dripping with hate and sarcasm, is unmistakable, not to mention amateurish. She's hijacked this thread because it's no longer moderated making it possible for Kim to post freely her anti-Marlboro Woman diatribe using multiple pseudonyms. Kim yearns to be a forensic linguist, when in fact she's a bitter, menopausal hack consumed with revenge.
Kim Drummond Thomas - Stalker Extraordinaire
OMG, why???
So this person is related to Pioneer Woman, Rees, husband, Ladd?!
Surely the family can do something about her (legal, I mean!)?
How awful to have one's cousin-by-marriage, so hateful towards one!
Kim Drummond Thomas - The Hockaday School Class of '86
Kim here, sorry for the many one-note comments, but my obsessive-compulsive disorder prevents me from having an actual life. Not a day goes by that I don't scour the Internet tracking the Marlboro Woman. I even have my own Twitter account devoted to stalking TMW. I'm Ladd Drummond's first cousin, I live in The Woodlands, Texas and I can't help myself. Even my fancy prep school education at The Hockaday School in Dallas failed me--I'm a cyber-stalker--and truth be told, not a good one. Just a hack with a computer. Warning: I'll be back!
Kim Thomas - The Woodlands, TX is a Creepy Cyber-Stalker
The Hockaday School must be sooooo proud of this class of '86 alum, Kimberly Anne Drummond Thomas of The Woodlands, Texas. Kim's tony education helped launch her Marlboro Woman stalking career, equipping her with those sorely needed, Internet harassment skills. Kim's 24/7 Marlboro Woman addiction and her failed efforts to remain anonymous whenever she posted hate comments--laced with misspellings and grammatical errors--left behind one very, sloppy cyber-trail that led to Kim Drummond Thomas' identification.
Thank you sir!
Thank you sir!
I know so many who think they were born poor country folks and worked hard to get what they have from nothing.
Truth they run wild horses and are paid by the government a huge amount of money to do so. Her father a doctor his family rich ranchers. Nothing wrong with that at all! But don't act like you grew up poor country people.
We are not jealous to all those who believe we are but she doesn't dress like that daily nor does she cook like that daily. Making egg in the hole is not exactly really cooking every morning.
Point is it is a show it is not real it is her job.
Now I've been to Oklahoma no matter where you live in Oklahoma you are pretty much in to the country, sorry. Yes a country club but hey it is not New York City.
So yes she makes money off of recipes that have been around since the old days. My grandmother cooked better than her a true country woman she was.
I think what annoys most is the lying in part that makes it appear as though they are just two country people. Nope they are not.
Funny how she says she lives in the middle of nowhere but it is on one of her blog post that town is twenty minutes away hmmm
I live about that distance on a large property but I don't say I live in the middle of nowhere. I just own a lot of property and driving twenty minutes really isn't much. We have to drive an hour to a nice market and to find designer clothing and high end markets over two hours.
She knows how to sell herself. But her products are all made in China!!! Why not create jobs here.
Jealous nope I would not sell out my kids or privacy on t.v.
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