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The Power of Self-Awareness in Leadership

Leading yourself before you lead others.

Key points

  • Leaders must learn how to lead themselves first.
  • Emotions will always be part of leadership.
  • Self-awareness is a continuous journey for leaders.

In the realm of leadership, a critical yet often overlooked quality is self-awareness. The ability to lead oneself before leading others is a fundamental principle that distinguishes exceptional leaders from the rest.

Understand Yourself

Understanding our own emotions and experienced trauma can prevent us from making intense reactions, enabling us to make better decisions in challenging leadership situations. According to classic research from the renowned neuroscientist Joseph LeDoux (2000), the key to consciously accessing the emotional brain lies in self-awareness.

LeDoux's research shed light on the intricate workings of our brain. He argues that the rational executive brain, while capable of controlling and regulating our emotions to some extent, cannot erase felt emotions or traumatic experiences. Instead, it is through self-awareness that we can gain a deeper understanding of these emotions and experiences, allowing us to navigate them effectively.

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Leadership and Emotions

Leadership is not immune to the impact of emotions. In fact, emotions play a significant role in decision-making. When leaders find themselves feeling overwhelmed or on high alert, poor decisions are bound to follow. This is where self-awareness comes into play.

By cultivating self-awareness, leaders can develop the ability to recognise and manage their emotional states, preventing reactive responses that may hinder their decision-making process. Leaders who possess a high degree of self-awareness are better equipped to remain calm and focused in the face of adversity. They understand that their reactions are not solely determined by external circumstances but are also influenced by their internal emotional landscape. By acknowledging and addressing their emotions, these leaders gain the ability to detach themselves from immediate reactions and instead respond with clarity and intentionality.

A Leader's Journey

The journey towards self-awareness is rarely an easy one. It requires leaders to engage in a process of introspection and self-reflection. This entails exploring their own strengths, weaknesses, values, and beliefs. By delving into their own psyche, leaders can gain valuable insights into their own patterns of behaviour and emotional triggers.

Furthermore, self-awareness also involves seeking feedback from others. By actively seeking input and perspectives from their team members, peers, and mentors, leaders can gain a more accurate perception of their leadership style and its impact on others. This feedback acts as a mirror, allowing leaders to recognise blind spots and areas for growth.

A Continuous Process

Leaders who prioritise self-awareness in their journey to becoming effective leaders understand that it is not a destination but a continuous process. They commit themselves to ongoing self-reflection, seeking to uncover deeper layers of understanding about themselves and their impact on others. This commitment enables them to adapt and grow as leaders, thus fostering a culture of continuous improvement within their organisations.

The implications of self-awareness in leadership extend beyond individual growth. When leaders lead themselves with self-awareness, they inspire and empower their teams to do the same. By modelling emotional intelligence and thoughtful decision-making, leaders create an environment that encourages their team members to reflect on their own emotions, behaviours, and motivations.

Conclusion

Self-awareness is a vital skill for leaders seeking to navigate the complexities of the modern world. By understanding the power of self-awareness, leaders can consciously access their emotional brain, allowing them to make better decisions and prevent intense reactions. Self-awareness enables leaders to remain calm and focused, even in the midst of challenges, and empowers them to inspire and guide their teams towards greater self-awareness. Across industries, self-aware leaders will undoubtedly play a crucial role in shaping a better future for organisations and society as a whole.

References

J.E. LeDoux (2000), Emotion Circuits in the Brain, Annual Review of Neuroscience 2000 23:1, 155-184

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