I Went Off My Meds to Be More Spiritual
Spiritual Growth and Psychiatric Medication – an oxymoron?
Posted Mar 20, 2016
I went off my meds to be more spiritual. There I said it.
Well ok – let me qualify that. I reduced my meds because I believed I would have more access to my spirituality and spiritual gifts. Now, I didn’t say this was a smart choice. And you’d think, since this ain’t my first rodeo with mental illness, I’d know better. I’ve lived (and lived quite well on the whole) with bipolar disorder, anxiety and psychosis for over 20 years and for most of those years I’ve taken medication.
Though this has been the case, there’s always been this niggling feeling that if I could just reduce (and eventually not take any) medication I would be better off for it. More spiritual – closer to the divine, more peaceful, more at one with the world, able to become more self-realized, liberated and enlightened. Who can blame me? I don’t know of any spiritual teachers on psychiatric medication. Dali Lama? Not that I know of – maybe meds for high cholesterol, but even that’s a guess. Ekhart Tolle? Doubt it. Bryon Katie? Not likely. Though they may be and I’m just projecting what I think spiritual celebrities are all about.
Regardless, stigma about mental illness in general and psychiatric medication in particular runs deeps. More accurately misinformation about it runs deep. Really deep: “threads-of-steel-around-the-roots-of-a-tree-and-into-the-magma-of-the-earth” kind of deep. Even for me, who has experienced relief by taking medication.
Somehow, I think medication stops me from being all of me, clogs up my energy systems, makes me foggy. When I or other are overmedicated, yes – that’s definitely the case. But I’m taking a dose that doesn’t do any of those things. Yet I still feel I could have more spiritual growth if I wasn’t on medication. Somehow though, in my mind this doesn’t apply to the birth control pills I’m taking. Hmmm?
So a few months ago with the guidance of my psychiatrist I began to reduce my meds. Over six weeks I began, very slowly, to decrease the amount of both my antidepressant and mood stabilizer.
I was honest about the reasons. I told him one: I have so many effective self-management tools maybe a lower dosage would be okay. Two: I would like to be on as little medication as possible due to potential negative effects of being on meds long term (though I never experienced any side effects from my meds). And three (most importantly): I had started a spiritual practice in earnest over the past four years and was concerned the meds might be interfering with my spiritual development and awareness.
He said okay. Yup, I know. Very progressive and very good he is. I thank my lucky stars I’ve had the privilege working with him.
Over the next month and half, little by little, I started reducing. Week one, things are going fine. Two week, the same. Week three, four, five – all good. Then week six – a bump, well more like a shadow – you know a black creepy blur fraying the sides of my life and the inside of my mind, turning my thoughts dark, melting my energy limpish, bruising my body purple. This wasn’t good. I stepped up my spiritual practice, exercised more, regulated my sleep. The gloomy lump lifted – for two days. Then it was back, in full force.
I was scared. The dark silhouette adhered to my shoulders, behind my eyes, on the bottom of my feet. It didn’t matter how much exercise, how much sleep or how much light I got into my eyes, it didn’t budge.
I didn’t feel spiritual, I felt wretched.
I meditated, practiced Chi Kung, prayed, ran everyday for short spurts but still depression wedged in every cavity it could. I didn’t even know between my fingers could ache so much.
I went back to my psychiatrist.
“Isn’t it true, even if I go back to my old dose, the meds might not work? I’ve heard that. It’s true, right? Right? My old meds aren’t going to be effective. I’ve f%*ked myself.” Why didn’t he stop me before I tried this inane experiment?
“Nooo...,” he said slowly shaking his head, “that’s not true.”
“Oh,” was all I could say.
So that same day, back at home, sitting at my vanity table, I opened up my two pill bottles. I picked out the dose of pills I had taken before said spiritual experiment and washed them down with water in the hopes with the health habits I was still practicing I might regain that feeling of wellness.
I did. Over the next couple weeks I slowly started to feel myself again. After taking my medication (medicine really) and continuing to practice my wellness tools, I started to feel back to my good ol’ Victoria: grounded, clear seeing, content and at ease with the natural ebb and flow of emotions that just a few weeks ago seemed locked away forever and doused with dollops a severe depression. Taking the right dose, I actually felt more spiritual, not less.
What did I learn? It was something I remembered actually about my journey with creativity.
Years ago, when psychiatric medication was suggested (very strongly) as an additional support to my recovery, I was afraid it would take away my creative spark. I was an actor, a writer – creativity was my life blood. I couldn’t afford to live without the passion that kept me alive and added meaning to my life.
At first I was prescribed lithium. It had worked wonders for my mom. Yup, bipolar disorder is a family affair. Me, I felt like a walking piece of chalk. Not dampened emotions, just NO emotions. The only thing worse than feeling suicidal, is not feeling anything at all.
But then 2 years of sampling different medications, I was given something else to try – and lo’ and behold, this particular combination of anti-depressant and mood stabiliser helped raise my bottom and gave me a roof to curb dangerous stratospheric spikes in my emotions.
I didn’t feel medicated. I didn’t feel high. I feel like me. Me.
And what happened to my creativity? It soared. My creative output was sustainable, of good quality and I flowed with it instead of being led hurly burly by it.
When I wasn’t on the right medication, the right dosage – my creativity was squelched, lost to the pharmaceutical stew of overmedication. When I wasn’t on medication at all, I THOUGHT I was creative. I actually was prolific. I was writing copious amounts of poetry...but of really really BAD poetry.
When I wasn’t on medicine to reign in the fire that touched my brain, the creativity I had ran amok and was awful.
Surprisingly (at least to me) the same course of events happened with my spirituality. When on the wrong kind, wrong dose or no medication at all, my access to spirituality and sense of the divine was warped and draped in a painful fog or hysterical mania. The depth of despair was not a ‘dark night of the soul’ it was a cemented state of being that wouldn’t budge. My manias were not wisdom unleashed but euphoria skyrocketing into heights of dangerous behaviour.
But when I am on the right medication (as I am now), the right dosage (as low as possible, but enough to help), I am connected and aligned to what I define as spirit and the divine. I feel the joyful (not manic) flow of life and I rest in trust and ease. Seriously. This is how I feel when I have the correct dose of medicine as well as consistently practice my many self-management wellness tools.
I can’t shirk any of them. I am adamantly, furiously committed to enacting my wellness tools daily (which includes taking my trusty anti-depressant and mood stabilizer). I can’t afford not to.
Both my creative and spiritual life depend on it.
© 2016 Victoria Maxwell
If you liked this post, you may enjoy this podcast interview where Victoria and Chris Cole of ‘Waking Up Bipolar’ discuss naked psychosis, imperfect bodies, medication and spirituality.