Beyond the Doubt

An inside perspective on life with OCD and the lessons of uncertainty.

Jeff Bell, Shala Nicely

Enjoying the Messy, Uncertain Process

Do you feel your life is flying by because you're trying to "get through" things one after the other? Slow life down by learning to enjoy the messy, uncertain process.

The Need to Feel Seen

Not feeling seen is not only invalidating — it's threatening. Here are five simple ways you can let others around you know that they matter.

Lessons from Love...and Loss...of Lee

We’re all experiencing loss and grief due to COVID-19. I'm sharing lessons from my love and loss of my 35-year-old Arabian horse in hopes that they will bring you comfort.

Respond Instead of React: Managing COVID-19 Anxiety

Borrowing from CBT tools for anxiety, we can learn to turn our reactions into responses, helping us and our loved ones cope well in times of crisis.

3 Ways to Power Up Your OCD Therapy

The attitude taken by successful OCD tamers is that they are going to turn OCD’s world upside down.

Ruby Campbell’s Gift to the OCD Community

As we celebrate OCD Awareness Week, let’s keep the memory of Ruby Campbell alive by remembering her approach to the ocean, to OCD, and to life.

The Subtle OCD Compulsion You Might Not Know You're Doing

Many people with OCD are depressed, but did you know that depression can also be a compulsion? Learn how to spot and rectify this subtle but OCD-empowering ritual.

The Unintended Consequences of Saying OCD Can Be Cured

If people with OCD have unrealistic recovery expectations, they are likely to fall into the self-critical shame trap, which hurts them and their recoveries.

The Best TED Talks for People With OCD: Part 5

Avoid the trap of black and white thinking to push out of your comfort zone and pursue what's meaningful.

What Everyone Wants

Do you sometimes feel disconnected from others because you have OCD? A simple cognitive shift can help you rediscover that we're all very much alike in all the ways that matter.

The Best TED Talks for People With OCD: Part 4

Embracing vulnerability and understanding how to handle shame are crucial if you want to win your life back from OCD.

The Best TED Talks for People with OCD: Part 3

Think you have no choice but to wearily and grudgingly tolerate the anxiety that comes with OCD? Think again.

The Best TED Talks for People with OCD: Part 2

Acting as though what your OCD says is irrelevant is one of the most powerful exposure and response prevention (ERP) strategies.

The Best TED Talks for People with OCD: Part 1

The best TED Talks for people with OCD have nothing directly to do with the disorder, but their insights can make a surprising impact on your recovery.

Taming OCD and Reclaiming Your Life

Success comes from defining recovery as a journey, not a destination.

I’m an OCD Therapist With OCD. And I Don’t Do ERP Perfectly

There’s a surprising upside to slipping up in exposure and response prevention therapy (ERP) for OCD.

Why There’s No Cure for OCD

There's a simple reason that OCD isn't curable. But don't despair. Having OCD that's treated with exposure therapy just might make you "better than normal."

The Hidden Power of Swearing at Your OCD

Cursing at OCD is empowering and it makes exposure and response prevention (ERP) therapy for OCD more fun.

Attitude Matters If You Want to Beat OCD

How a shift in attitude can turn unexpected OCD triggers into fabulous brain-training opportunities.

The Five Things My OCD and I Learned in the South of France

How I threw OCD off its game and had a great vacation in the process.

What My OCD and I Are Packing for Our Trip to France

I have yet to go on a vacation where my OCD didn’t want to come along. If I want to have fun, there are four items...in fact, four keys...that I do not want to leave home without.

Is the Universe Friendly? You Decide!

Pssst: Looking for a simple New Year’s resolution that will all but guarantee you the best year you’ve ever had? (Einstein and) I have a suggestion!

Ten Steps Out When Stuck in Doubt

Struggling with doubt? Try making belief. Read on for the four necessary ingredients and a simple recipe for putting them all together.

One Million+ Steps for OCD Awareness

My friend Denis is taking a walk. A long walk. Hundreds and hundreds of miles, in fact. Like most of us, Denis Asselin walks for health. But he also walks for illness--the severe OCD and BDD that robbed him of his son. And he--and I--would like to challenge YOU to add your footsteps to his in the name of mental health advocacy.

A Hero's Journey

If OCD has ever kept you from chasing your dreams, you need to meet Carol. She hadn't left her hometown in nearly three decades. But the prospect of helping others with OCD, finding the perfect souvenir, and enjoying authentic Chicago deep dish pizza was enough to help her break free. Forever.

Turning Adversity into Advocacy

We've all heard the old adage: "We help ourselves by helping others." Turns out it's true. Experientially, empirically, the proof is there. And I'm determined to spread the word about the power of this process of turning adversity into advocacy through a National Call for A2A Stories. I hope YOU will answer that call! (Read more...)

Dare to Believe

OCD Awareness Week is almost here. And this year, the International OCD Foundation needs our help spreading a powerful new message. Read on to learn how YOU can give hope to countless people struggling with The Doubting Disease.

This, too, is a Face of Mental Illness

Like most people, I am haunted by the chilling mug shot of Arizona shooting suspect Jared Loughner.  But I must confess this picture impacts me in another way that I suspect the average viewer wouldn't even consider--one that has nothing to do with the mug shot, itself, and everything to do with the label implicitly attached to it: mentally ill.   

So there I was....

Chances are you haven’t heard of many of my favorite authors.  None has written a blockbuster, nor even more than a single book.  You might, in fact, have some trouble picking up a copy of their works at your local bookstore.  But by providing front row access to their struggles and heroic triumphs, they have all taught, enlightened, and inspired countless readers.  Each, through his or her intimate storytelling, has changed--and in many cases saved--lives.  And what they’ve accomplished you can, as well--even without ever putting pen to paper...

You've Got a Friend

I am just back from Washington, D.C., where for several days I had the pleasure of hanging out with hundreds of fellow OCD washers, checkers, counters, hoarders, and the like. Insert punch line here. [Oh, admit it, you've got something, right?--maybe a quip about the gallons of Purell floating around a gathering like this? Perhaps some reference to how well-checked our hotel doors and windows must be at night? It's okay: we, too, find the humor in our get-togethers!] The occasion was this year's annual conference of the International OCD Foundation, a three-day gathering of not only OCD sufferers, but also their family members and a collection of the top OCD specialists in the country. This was my fifth such conference, and I have left each and every one with life-changing lessons that have fueled my recovery. The lesson for me this year could not have been more clear: When it comes to recovery-from OCD or any other hardship-there is no substitute for friendships forged by common challenges.

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