Decide to Be Fine: A Supernatural Contract to Keep Fighting
Supernatural computer hacker recommends entering no-harm contract with oneself.
Posted Oct 24, 2017
“I, ____________, agree not to harm myself or anyone else, attempt suicide, or commit suicide for the time period from __________ to __________ (the time of my next appointment).”
“Decide to be fine ‘til the end of the week. Make yourself smile because you’re alive and it’s your job. And do it again the next week.”
Also called a no-suicide decision (Drye et al., 1973), safety agreement (Potter & Dawson, 2001), or suicide prevention contract (Miller, 1999), the no-harm contract is a potentially-suicidal individual’s promise to commit no self-harm for the time being. Contracting for safety in this way is a popular counseling technique even though it has been used in so many ways with so little methodical study that investigators disagree on its effectiveness (Clark & Kerkhof, 1997; Edwards & Sachmann, 2010). One critical factor is that the individual must not feel coerced into this commitment (Caruso, n.d.; McMyler & Pryjmachuk, 2008). A professional suggesting it should do so gently by pointing out its importance. Some counselors let clients write their own no-harm pledges, which might help them feel more empowered and dedicated (Keiser & Grossman, 2016; Pfeiffer, n.d.; see also Wallace, 2016).
The television series Supernatural once featured a recurring character, computer hacker Frank Devereaux, who essentially describes having made a non-harm contract and recommending that another character consider doing so, too. Whether Frank originally enters into that contract with a therapist or only with himself, viewers do not know. After his family’s murder, Frank Devereaux makes this choice, perhaps on his own initiative or perhaps after a professional who has supposedly diagnosed him as “bipolar with delusional ideation” offers the idea. However he comes to make his no-harm decision during his twenties, Frank still renews it week after week in middle-age to keep going and always keep fighting.
Most of us who know both the show and the character well also know Frank faked his death because of Frank's obsessively cautious (paranoid, as several characters put it) and the lead characters, the Winchesters, are dangerous to be around. Frank just went deeper off the grid, his own way to keep fighting.
“There’s no shame in having to fight every day, but fighting every day—and presumably if you’re still alive to hear these words or read this…then you are winning your war. You’re here.”
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Excerpt from the book Supernatural Psychology: Roads Less Traveled (Langley, 2017).
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