What do Narcissists Sound Like?
Narcissists revealed in their daily lives
Posted Jun 29, 2010
This is a problem for psychologists trying to study narcissists in the laboratory because narcissists are likely to present themselves in the best possible light, inflating their abilities on self-report surveys, and generally being oblivious to their own true selves (Vazire, 2010).
Enter an awesome new study conducted by Nick Holtzman and his colleagues. They set out to find out what happens when you stick audio recorders on a bunch of narcissists and listen to them naturally go about their day. What do they say?
The researchers then transcribed the audio and submitted the transcriptions to a well-validated psychological text analysis program. They focused their analysis on variables particularly related to narcissism: extraverted acts (talking, being in a group, and socializing), disagreeable acts (using swear words or anger words), academic disengagement (class attendance), and sexual language use (e.g., "fuck, "naked").
They found that narcissism was correlated with extraverted acts, being especially predictive of being in a group, socializing with others, and talking about friends. The correlation seemed to be much stronger among female narcissists and remained significant after controlling for the personality trait Extraversion, suggesting that there is something unique about narcissism that predicts extraverted acts above and beyond Extraversion.
Narcissism was positively related to engagement in disagreeable behaviors, including arguing, using swearing words, and using anger words. For both genders, narcissists high in exploitativeness/entitlement were the most disagreeable lot. This is interesting since the exploitativeness/entitlement facet of narcissism is considered to be the most maladaptive facet of narcissism (Raskin & Novacek, 1989).
As the researchers note, this combination of high Extraversion and low agreeableness in narcissists has both benefits and disadvantages:
"Specifically, while most narcissists (especially women in this particular sample) exhibit many extraverted behaviors that are likely to make a good first impression (e.g., socializing, talking about friends), they also exhibit disagreeable behaviors, which probably helps to explain the difficulties they have maintaining favorable reputations over time (Back, et al., 2010; Campbell, 2005; Paulhus, 1998).
While the total narcissism composite wasn't related to class attendance, the exploitativeness/entitlement facet of narcissism was positively related to academic disengagement in both men and women. Also, this link remained after controlling for the personality trait of Conscientiousness. The researchers note that "this finding suggests a mechanism by which self-enhancement is associated with academic disengagement over time (Robins & Beer, 2001)—inflated self-importance may lead to shirking academic obligations, which may potentially contribute to disappointing academic outcomes."
Narcissism was also positively correlated with greater use of sexual language. This link was strongest among narcissists high in exploitativeness/entitlement and leadership/authority. This link remained after controlling for potential overlap with the use of anger and swear words that had sexual connotations. The researchers note that this "impulsive sexual strategy" is "consistent with the view that narcissists tend to be impulsive and seek short-term gains (Vazire & Funder, 2006)."
© 2010 by Scott Barry Kaufman
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