National Unfriend Day: Can you have too many friends?
Jimmy Kimmel's National Unfriend Day just might be counterproductive.
Posted Nov 11, 2010
The average Facebooker has about 120 friends. Anthropologist Robin Dunbar, says that humans have an average of about 150, and that the human brain can't really accept more than that. Dunbar says you have a core of about five, then another ten close ones beyond that, and then the outer circle is 35, complemented by about another 100 who have have some sort of "obligation of friendship." So what about all these Facebook people with thousands of "friends?" Well, in their defense, it is Facebook that refers to them as friends, not you. In many cases, people are friended in order to network either socially or professionally, although there are many who only want the big headcount. Many people I didn't initially know, but who friended me for some reason have become friends--people I now care about and with whom I am interested in pursuing an ongoing social obligation.
So on Wednesday, Nov 17, National Unfriend Day, you might want to think twice before you get rid of those annoying Facebook friends who you just accepted only to be nice, because not only might they be interesting enough to get to know better, but there is another study that reports that the more friends you have, the wealthier you will be.
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