Wisdom Essential Reads

Pathological Resistance to Change Does Not Make Us Great

Looking backwards won't make us great. We need innovation to tackle big problems like energy outages and their impact on the elderly. Our collective resilience depends on it.

Ten Essential Success Hacks That You Won’t Learn in School

By Bobby Hoffman Ph.D. on June 16, 2017 in Motivate!
Achieving personal success and financial freedom requires more than knowing facts. Win at life when you master these essential lessons.

Why Do Man Buns Inspire Instant Vitriol?

By Gregg McBride on June 10, 2017 in The Weight-ing Game
With the advent of social media, we’ve all become a little more “brave” in regard to sharing our opinions. The parallels to other life disagreements have not been lost on me.

The Fatal Flaw in Dating Advice

By Ken Page L.C.S.W. on June 06, 2017 in Finding Love
Most dating advice promises lasting love, but erodes our chance of ever finding it. The secret to success isn't about your attractiveness. It's about your attractions.

Hassles Are Part of Being Human, Even for Our Ancestors

Being human, with all its messiness, is worth the hassle

The Wisdom of "It's Not My Fault"

When we are not caught in self-blame, we are free to love this life. Opening to the possibility of "It’s not my fault" creates space for deep inner freedom.
Eduard Kurzbauer / The Dispute / Walters Art Museum / Wikimedia Commons / Public Domain

A Question That Good Critical Thinkers Ask, Part 1

If I were to tell you that reading this article will make you a better critical thinker, what question would a good critical thinker ask about my claim?

From A Mother Who Died Too Young

I share reflections on losing my mother at a young age to cancer, and what this has taught me about motherhood.

11 Questions Everyone Should Ask Themselves

By Marty Nemko Ph.D. on May 11, 2017 in How To Do Life
Introspections that can lead to personal growth and better decisions.

The Secret to Remembering Your Vacation Better

By Andrea Bartz on May 08, 2017 in The Wandering Mind
New research shows us how to make that trip stick.

Peekaboo: Joy Might Just Surprise You

Remembering to laugh is essential. It can’t make the darkness go away, but it does admit the light.

The Secret to Stepping Outside Your Comfort Zone

By Andy Molinsky Ph.D. on April 09, 2017 in Adaptation
Scared to step outside your comfort zone? You'll be surprised what you'll discover when you just take that leap.

How to Really Write a Psychology Paper

Students who write psychology papers often get so caught up in trying to sound scientific, that they forget the fact that they are telling a story for an audience.
Jennifer Bliss, PsyD, LCSW

How and When to Discuss Adoption With Your Child

Are you ready for your child's questions about their adoption? Having confidence and pride in the story of how you became a family is essential to a child's healthy development.

52 Ways to Show I Love You: Showing Up

Showing up for performances, events, agreed-upon dates, and in times of need shows love. Your presence can underscore reliability, willingness to receive, and a desire to give.

Interpersonal Attraction

By Adrian Furnham Ph.D. on March 24, 2017 in A Sideways View
What has evolutionary science to say about physical attractiveness?

What Are You Resisting?

By Rick Hanson Ph.D. on March 21, 2017 in Your Wise Brain
It is easy to accept life’s beautiful things. It is the hard things in life that are hard to accept. The sweet spot is both by accepting the fact that they are what they are.

How to Help Your Kid Pick a College

By Jake Breeden on March 19, 2017 in Tipping Sacred Cows
'Tis the season for high school seniors to pick a college. If your child is making this choice, discover five ways to help.

Silencing Is Golden: The Chilling Dogma of AntiNormalization

Many college students are unable to debate bad ideas because they aren't learning the difference between a firmly held opinion and a self-evident truth.

Autism in the South Pacific: A Different Way of Seeing?

By John Elder Robison on February 26, 2017 in My Life With Asperger's
Were Polynesian navigators who settled the Pacific autistic? Americans are used to thinking about autism in the context of disability. Other societies may have seen it different

Inspirational Quotes from the 45 U.S. Presidents

By Elizabeth Lombardo Ph.D. on February 19, 2017 in Better Than Perfect
Need a dose of inspiration? Here are quotes from the 45 U.S. presidents to motivate and encourage you.

Marital Infidelity: Existential Uncertainty in Spades

By Susan Rako M.D. on February 18, 2017 in More Light
"How can I ever trust my husband/wife again?"

Are You a Stretcher or Are You A Chaser?

The answer to this question holds the key to leading a happy and successful life.

How to Free Yourself from What You "Should"​ Be Doing

By Andy Molinsky Ph.D. on February 11, 2017 in Adaptation
Is compliance stifling your passion? It may be time to make a change.
quotesgram.com, used with permission.

The Knowledge Curse

By Steve Albrecht DBA on February 05, 2017 in The Act of Violence
How do you handle people that "know it all" and won't shut up about it?

Is Hope Good or Bad?

By Neel Burton M.D. on February 04, 2017 in Hide and Seek
Hope, said Aristotle, is the dream of a waking man.

To Our New President: Advice From 5-year Olds

By Karlyn Crowley Ph.D. on January 20, 2017 in Woman Power
Perhaps the president—and us all—could learn almost everything we need from kindergartners.

Grieving: Should You Dive Into Emotion or Jump Into Action?

By Deborah L. Davis Ph.D. on January 10, 2017 in Laugh, Cry, Live
Is diving into emotion the "right way" to grieve? Research shows that both "feeling" and "doing" can help people cope and adjust to adversity. What's the right blend for you?

Trusting Your Gut: An Excuse For Not Thinking?

By Hank Davis on January 07, 2017 in Caveman Logic
You're going to have to listen to more than your "gut" to get through life's major decisions. Don't be afraid to question what you hear. It's not a sin to be intelligent.

Appreciating the Difference Between Pride and Vanity

With all the transitions happening at this moment in history, knowing the distinction between pride and vanity may help us appreciate the actions and reactions we see in others.