If you find yourself wondering, "Where are all the good guys?" you are not alone, but it may be that there are plenty of good guys out there, we just can't see them. Vh1's special Undatable unveiled the 100 qualities that render a man unworthy of a date, or anything more. We all have these qualifications that a potential partner must meet, as well as a list of qualities that are automatic deal-breakers. Adhering to these stringent rules, however, is what leaves us wondering why we didn't find anyone at that party last night. Instead, I argue for the importance of a minor shift in attitude that could mean the difference between lonely nights with a teddy bear and happy mornings with, well, not a teddy bear.