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Self-Disclosure Test

20 Questions
3 Minutes

Are you sharing too much, or not enough?

Sharing your innermost thoughts and feelings with others is a key component of intimacy. But it’s also possible to share too much, too often, or with the wrong people. How comfortable are you with self-disclosure? Take this test to find out.

Using the key below, answer the questions based on how strongly you agree or disagree with the statement.

Strongly Disagree
Disagree
Neutral
Strongly Agree
Agree
1. I’m comfortable sharing my greatest fears with my loved ones.
Disagree
Agree
2. If I’m upset about something, I complain about it to almost everyone I talk to.
Disagree
Agree
3. When I experience a major disappointment, I keep it to myself.
Disagree
Agree
4. I often find myself talking about my personal life with people I just met.
Disagree
Agree
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5. When I feel sad, I reach out to my loved ones to talk things through.
Disagree
Agree
6. I frequently reveal more to people than I intend to.
Disagree
Agree
7. If a loved one passed away, I would share my sadness with anyone willing to listen.
Disagree
Agree
8. All topics, even sensitive ones like religion or money, should be discussed openly.
Disagree
Agree
9. I tell my friends everything, even the truly embarrassing stuff.
Disagree
Agree
10. If I’m upset and a loved one asks what’s wrong, I tell them right away.
Disagree
Agree
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11. If I overheard someone talking about a difficult experience I could relate to, I would stop to share my story with them.
Disagree
Agree
12. I’ll talk about my love life with just about anyone.
Disagree
Agree
13. I am vocal even about aspects of myself that I feel badly about.
Disagree
Agree
14. I consider myself an open book.
Disagree
Agree
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15. Sharing my problems with others would make me look weak.
Disagree
Agree
16. I feel better after revealing a secret that had weighed on me.
Disagree
Agree
17. I have no problem telling other people that I need help.
Disagree
Agree
18. It’s OK to talk about painful past experiences on a first date.
Disagree
Agree
19. If I shared my real self, my loved ones would like me less.
Disagree
Agree
20. Keeping secrets can be difficult for me.
Disagree
Agree

Who Is This Test For?

This test is for anyone interested in assessing their willingness to disclose personal information to others. This test is designed for adults and is not intended to be diagnostic.

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How to Get Help

If you are concerned about a tendency to share too much or too little, a therapist could help; you can find one in your area on the Psychology Today Therapy Directory.

Sources

Jourard, S. The Jourard Self-Disclosure Inventory (SD-60).

Miller, L. et al. The Self-Disclosure Index (SDI).

Larson, D. and Chastain, R. Self-Concealment Scale (SCS).