Relationship Issues Therapists in Hamilton

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Sarel du Plessis
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
1 Endorsed
Hamilton 3204
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck—overwhelmed by anxiety, relationship strain, unresolved trauma, or the weight of past experiences.
I support adults navigating ADHD, relationships, grief, trauma and life transitions. Using a warm, person-centred and trauma-informed approach, I offer practical tools, clarity and emotional support to help you heal, grow and build a more grounded, empowered life.
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck—overwhelmed by anxiety, relationship strain, unresolved trauma, or the weight of past experiences.
I support adults navigating ADHD, relationships, grief, trauma and life transitions. Using a warm, person-centred and trauma-informed approach, I offer practical tools, clarity and emotional support to help you heal, grow and build a more grounded, empowered life.
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Grant Wattie, Marriage & Couples Counsellor, MNZAC
Counsellor, MNZAC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership.
With 40+ years experience, advanced training in Gottman, EFT, Imago, and our transformation model, I work with executives, founders, and entrepreneurial couples rebuilding connection—often in days not months. Unlike traditional therapy, I integrate mentoring, leadership principles, and therapeutic tools delivering rapid results in both relationships and life
Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership.
With 40+ years experience, advanced training in Gottman, EFT, Imago, and our transformation model, I work with executives, founders, and entrepreneurial couples rebuilding connection—often in days not months. Unlike traditional therapy, I integrate mentoring, leadership principles, and therapeutic tools delivering rapid results in both relationships and life
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Charmaine Bright @ Bright Wellbeing Counselling
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My approach draws on traditional and alternative counselling modalities. I use these approaches to empower my clients and my practice is strongly grounded in spirituality and energy psychology. Nourishment and healing are facilitated through energy-integration, visualisation, inner-child work and support in recovering a sense of self.
My approach draws on traditional and alternative counselling modalities. I use these approaches to empower my clients and my practice is strongly grounded in spirituality and energy psychology. Nourishment and healing are facilitated through energy-integration, visualisation, inner-child work and support in recovering a sense of self.
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Becky Bradley
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/unwanted thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/unwanted thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
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Serafin Upton
Counsellor
Serves Area
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
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Anihera Tahu-Hepworth
Counsellor, MNZAC
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
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Naomi Carleton
Psychologist
Online Only
Naomi is an Australian and NZ registered psychologist with 18 years experience working with adults, adolescents and children. Naomi is known for her warmth, understanding and approachability. She enjoys supporting and working alongside her clients to improve their quality of life and help them achieve their own personal goals.
Naomi is an Australian and NZ registered psychologist with 18 years experience working with adults, adolescents and children. Naomi is known for her warmth, understanding and approachability. She enjoys supporting and working alongside her clients to improve their quality of life and help them achieve their own personal goals.
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Glenda Irwin
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
I help individuals to thrive - predominately in relationship.
I'll take a Case Formation from you - to be aware of your generic journey. The current issue will be discussed and an intervention will be offered at that first session. Thereafter I follow the Treatment Plan I have written for you - however, I will deviate in accordance with your session needs. Call for an outline of my approach.
I help individuals to thrive - predominately in relationship.
I'll take a Case Formation from you - to be aware of your generic journey. The current issue will be discussed and an intervention will be offered at that first session. Thereafter I follow the Treatment Plan I have written for you - however, I will deviate in accordance with your session needs. Call for an outline of my approach.
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Meagan Goodman
Psychologist, MPsych
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities.
I take a collaborative, strength-based approach to therapy. I utilise evidence-based modalities such as EMDR, CBT, ACT, IFS, and Dialectical Behaviour skills. I am in the process of becoming certified as an Imago Therapist for working with couples. I currently provide diagnostic assessments for Autism (in person only) and ADHD (online and in person ages 12+)
I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities.
I take a collaborative, strength-based approach to therapy. I utilise evidence-based modalities such as EMDR, CBT, ACT, IFS, and Dialectical Behaviour skills. I am in the process of becoming certified as an Imago Therapist for working with couples. I currently provide diagnostic assessments for Autism (in person only) and ADHD (online and in person ages 12+)
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Shelley Harvill - Rainbow Consulting
Psychologist, PhD
Online Only
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
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Alejandra Riveros Garmendia
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Online Only
I primarily work with women who have been "the strong ones" and now feel they can't go on. Their bodies speak through anxiety, pain, or insomnia; they struggle to set boundaries and feel disconnected from who they once were, especially if they have migrated. They seek a safe space to let go, understand what's happening to them, and reclaim their voice without guilt.
I primarily work with women who have been "the strong ones" and now feel they can't go on. Their bodies speak through anxiety, pain, or insomnia; they struggle to set boundaries and feel disconnected from who they once were, especially if they have migrated. They seek a safe space to let go, understand what's happening to them, and reclaim their voice without guilt.
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Ryan Murray
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
2 Endorsed
Hamilton 3214
My experience includes working with people from their teens, through to later life stages, supporting with issues such as anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, bullying, and identity work.
Taking a collaborative approach, I draw from person-centered therapy, narrative therapy, and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) to meet you where you’re at. I believe in seeing the best in everyone and helping clients discover their own strength to navigate life’s difficulties—whether they’re monumental or more everyday.
My experience includes working with people from their teens, through to later life stages, supporting with issues such as anxiety, depression, grief, relationship struggles, bullying, and identity work.
Taking a collaborative approach, I draw from person-centered therapy, narrative therapy, and cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) to meet you where you’re at. I believe in seeing the best in everyone and helping clients discover their own strength to navigate life’s difficulties—whether they’re monumental or more everyday.
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Kate Faulkner
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Hamilton 3204
I am an ACC registered trauma therapy provider. I am a therapist who has worked in the addiction recovery field since 2001. A high percentage of people suffering with addiction also have experienced trauma, and the use of substance becomes a coping strategy for managing the pain. I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) as my preferred model of therapy, I also have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Psychodrama, Transactional Analysis and others. Each persons therapeutic journey is different, so we will work together to tailor your therapy to your specific needs to create your valued life.
I am an ACC registered trauma therapy provider. I am a therapist who has worked in the addiction recovery field since 2001. A high percentage of people suffering with addiction also have experienced trauma, and the use of substance becomes a coping strategy for managing the pain. I use Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) as my preferred model of therapy, I also have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Psychodrama, Transactional Analysis and others. Each persons therapeutic journey is different, so we will work together to tailor your therapy to your specific needs to create your valued life.
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Nicola Gardner
Psychologist, PsychD
Hamilton 3214
Strategies aimed at changing perspectives, regulating emotion, modifying behaviors, enhancing more connected relationships and improving general Mental Health and well being.
Support, strategies and solutions for Adults, Adolescents (16+) and Couples. Evidenced based strategies developed with you. Special interest in building strong and healthy relationships, building self esteem, trauma, depression and anxiety, exploring new perspectives and strengthening coping skills.
Strategies aimed at changing perspectives, regulating emotion, modifying behaviors, enhancing more connected relationships and improving general Mental Health and well being.
Support, strategies and solutions for Adults, Adolescents (16+) and Couples. Evidenced based strategies developed with you. Special interest in building strong and healthy relationships, building self esteem, trauma, depression and anxiety, exploring new perspectives and strengthening coping skills.
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All Blokes Counselling limited
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Hamilton 3214
Although my practice is called All Blokes I do however treat Females, couples and children don't let the title put you off.
An empathetic ear to the stresses impacting your life. Giving you tools and techniques to ease the burden and help conquer the obstacles holding you back.
Although my practice is called All Blokes I do however treat Females, couples and children don't let the title put you off.
An empathetic ear to the stresses impacting your life. Giving you tools and techniques to ease the burden and help conquer the obstacles holding you back.
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Andrew Hopkins
Counsellor, MNZAC
Hamilton 3204
I have experience working with depression, anxiety, stress, self-esteem/confidence, grief, decision-making, understanding yourself (self-awareness/knowledge ), identity, social, work concerns, relationships, family concerns, as well as personal growth and support to achieve your goals.
I have experience in a broad range of therapies and approaches. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Narrative Therapy (NT), Person-Centred Therapy (PCT), Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
I have experience working with depression, anxiety, stress, self-esteem/confidence, grief, decision-making, understanding yourself (self-awareness/knowledge ), identity, social, work concerns, relationships, family concerns, as well as personal growth and support to achieve your goals.
I have experience in a broad range of therapies and approaches. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Narrative Therapy (NT), Person-Centred Therapy (PCT), Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Mindfulness and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
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Adam Appleton
Counsellor, NZCCA
1 Endorsed
Hamilton 3204
I work from a person-centred, relational approach, drawing on Narrative Therapy to support individuals, couples, and families
My work focuses on collaboration and connection, helping clients explore the stories that shape their lives and discover new, more empowering ways forward.
I work from a person-centred, relational approach, drawing on Narrative Therapy to support individuals, couples, and families
My work focuses on collaboration and connection, helping clients explore the stories that shape their lives and discover new, more empowering ways forward.
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Juliette Shaw
Counsellor, NZCCA
1 Endorsed
Hamilton 3204
Taking the step to begin counselling can feel daunting, yet it is a courageous way to explore what matters most to you. I consider it a privilege to listen to your journey, and I aim to create an environment where you feel respected, heard, and supported whilst exploring what brings you here. I will walk alongside you in this journey in a calm, safe, supportive and non-judgemental way.
Taking the step to begin counselling can feel daunting, yet it is a courageous way to explore what matters most to you. I consider it a privilege to listen to your journey, and I aim to create an environment where you feel respected, heard, and supported whilst exploring what brings you here. I will walk alongside you in this journey in a calm, safe, supportive and non-judgemental way.
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Michelle Smal
Psychologist, MA
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Relationship is important and thus treatment is not only about skill generation, but focus is on the therapeutic relationship itself.
I am a registered clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience. I draw on therapeutic skills learnt over the years and work from a holistic perspective to assist my clients with various life challenges. Coming to terms with the past, improved coping in the present and empowering you for the future is something I look forward to assisting you with. I have worked in a wide range of settings (including private practice, hospital, clinic and prison environments) with diverse population groups and age ranges (children, adolescents and adults).
Relationship is important and thus treatment is not only about skill generation, but focus is on the therapeutic relationship itself.
I am a registered clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience. I draw on therapeutic skills learnt over the years and work from a holistic perspective to assist my clients with various life challenges. Coming to terms with the past, improved coping in the present and empowering you for the future is something I look forward to assisting you with. I have worked in a wide range of settings (including private practice, hospital, clinic and prison environments) with diverse population groups and age ranges (children, adolescents and adults).
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Dr Adrienna Ember Clinical Psychologist/Supervisor
Psychologist, PhD
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
Being wealthy may contribute to a sense of isolation, unique family dynamics btw
Welcome! You've made the courageous decision to address the challenges in your life. If you prefer a solution focused, accelerated therapy, I might be the right therapist for you: As a senior clinical psychologist, EMDR therapist & supervisor, I'm committed to supporting you towards a more fulfilling life in harmony with your values & aspirations. EMDR is a highly effective, neuro-psychology based treatment, which can significantly accelerate healing.   My clients are often in high responsibility/high public-exposure professions. I also offer wealth/financial psychology related coaching/therapy for HNW-UHNW individuals & families.
Being wealthy may contribute to a sense of isolation, unique family dynamics btw
Welcome! You've made the courageous decision to address the challenges in your life. If you prefer a solution focused, accelerated therapy, I might be the right therapist for you: As a senior clinical psychologist, EMDR therapist & supervisor, I'm committed to supporting you towards a more fulfilling life in harmony with your values & aspirations. EMDR is a highly effective, neuro-psychology based treatment, which can significantly accelerate healing.   My clients are often in high responsibility/high public-exposure professions. I also offer wealth/financial psychology related coaching/therapy for HNW-UHNW individuals & families.
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Relationship Issues Counsellors
What types of relationship issues can therapists help with?
Therapists who specialise in relationships work with individuals, couples, and families on a wide range of issues. Common concerns include communication problems, infidelity, intimacy difficulties, and navigating major life transitions such as marriage, parenthood, or caregiving. Family therapists may also address parent–child conflict, sibling rivalry, or other complex family dynamics.

What are the different types of therapy for relationship issues?
Relationship issues can be addressed through different types of therapy depending on whether you’re seeking help as an individual, couple, or family. In individual therapy, the focus is often on helping an individual understand how their own patterns, attachment style, and past experiences may be shaping their current relationships. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), attachment therapy, and Interpersonal Therapy (IPT) are three common forms of individual treatment that can help individuals understand their current relationship dynamics and improve their relationship quality. Couples therapy often uses other forms of evidence-based treatment, such as Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) or the Gottman Method. Rather than focusing on the individual, these approaches focus on improving communication, rebuilding trust, and strengthening emotional bonds between individuals in a relationship. Similarly, family therapy often focuses on communication but also examines how larger-scale dynamics—such as how parenting styles, generational differences, or sibling roles—may shape family relationships.

What actually happens in a therapy session for relationship issues?
The structure of a session depends on whether therapy involves one person or multiple people. In individual sessions, the focus may be on exploring personal patterns, role-playing difficult conversations, practicing listening skills, or setting goals for handling conflict. In couples or family sessions, each person is encouraged to share their perspective while the therapist helps uncover underlying emotions, highlight unhelpful interaction patterns, and guide more constructive communication.

How can I find an effective relationship therapist?
Finding a therapist who is a good fit for your needs, either for individual, couples, or family therapy, is critical to ensure effective therapy. Psychology Today’s online directory makes it easy to search for therapists who specialise in relationship issues, as well as related topics like marriage counselling. The platform offers filters to help you find a provider who fits your needs, such as gender, location, and fees. While the Psychology Today directory also offers the ability to filter by insurance type, it’s important to note that insurance may not cover many types of relationship therapy, such as couples counselling, so it’s important to inquire with your insurance plan about specific coverage details if intending to use insurance for therapy.