Bisexual Therapists in Hamilton
Many people who find their way to this work have spent a long time trying to put words to experiences that don’t always fit easily into ordinary conversation. They may feel things intensely, think in complex or creative ways, or find that their inner world moves in images, sensations, or metaphor rather than straightforward explanations.
I work especially well with people who feel deeply, think creatively, or have struggled to find therapy that makes space for imagination, sensitivity, or non-linear ways of processing experience.
Many people who find their way to this work have spent a long time trying to put words to experiences that don’t always fit easily into ordinary conversation. They may feel things intensely, think in complex or creative ways, or find that their inner world moves in images, sensations, or metaphor rather than straightforward explanations.
I work especially well with people who feel deeply, think creatively, or have struggled to find therapy that makes space for imagination, sensitivity, or non-linear ways of processing experience.
Kia ora, Talofa, Hello! I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities. I apply an intersectional lens to understanding experiences of distress. I enjoy working with and resourcing gender-diverse humans, and exploring ways to enhance gender euphoria. I work with individuals (16+), whānau (families), and couples/triads/polycules. I bring creativity, curiosity, and unconditional positive regard to the people I work with. It is a privilege to walk alongside people on their life journey and to bear witness to their growth and development.
Kia ora, Talofa, Hello! I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities. I apply an intersectional lens to understanding experiences of distress. I enjoy working with and resourcing gender-diverse humans, and exploring ways to enhance gender euphoria. I work with individuals (16+), whānau (families), and couples/triads/polycules. I bring creativity, curiosity, and unconditional positive regard to the people I work with. It is a privilege to walk alongside people on their life journey and to bear witness to their growth and development.
High-performing professionals and entrepreneurs often succeed in business but silently struggle at home. Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership. Research shows couples therapy ranks lowest in client satisfaction, often leaving professionals frustrated. That’s why I created the Aroha Rapid Transformation Method—a practical, results-focused approach that helps couples move quickly from stress and disconnection to clarity, intimacy, and trust.
High-performing professionals and entrepreneurs often succeed in business but silently struggle at home. Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership. Research shows couples therapy ranks lowest in client satisfaction, often leaving professionals frustrated. That’s why I created the Aroha Rapid Transformation Method—a practical, results-focused approach that helps couples move quickly from stress and disconnection to clarity, intimacy, and trust.
Kia Ora
I enjoy working with people committed to personal, relational and spiritual growth. My areas of interest include supporting the LGBTQ+ and Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous communities, as well as trauma survivors. I also have 30+ years experience with a wide range of mental health issues & addictions. I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodivergence. I provide assessment and diagnoses for mental health conditions, Autism/ADHD. I am honoured to support the transgender community through Informed Consent for Gender Affirming Care.
Kia Ora
I enjoy working with people committed to personal, relational and spiritual growth. My areas of interest include supporting the LGBTQ+ and Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous communities, as well as trauma survivors. I also have 30+ years experience with a wide range of mental health issues & addictions. I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodivergence. I provide assessment and diagnoses for mental health conditions, Autism/ADHD. I am honoured to support the transgender community through Informed Consent for Gender Affirming Care.
Kia ora! My name is Nat and I am an experienced counsellor working individually with teens and adults. My practice is fully online, which means I see clients living around Aotearoa from my little corner of West Auckland.
My clients are from all walks of life, but some of the common issues people come to me about include anxiety, self-esteem, boundary setting, and identity/self-discovery.
Therapy should be as unique as you are. That’s why I aim to be neurodiversity-affirming and person-centered in my counselling work. Our work together is tailored to you and your unique goals - no one-size-fits-all approach here.
Kia ora! My name is Nat and I am an experienced counsellor working individually with teens and adults. My practice is fully online, which means I see clients living around Aotearoa from my little corner of West Auckland.
My clients are from all walks of life, but some of the common issues people come to me about include anxiety, self-esteem, boundary setting, and identity/self-discovery.
Therapy should be as unique as you are. That’s why I aim to be neurodiversity-affirming and person-centered in my counselling work. Our work together is tailored to you and your unique goals - no one-size-fits-all approach here.
Hi, I'm Nick. I primarily serve LGBTQIA+, creative/open, 21yo+ people who have experienced distress or traumas in life and need to find relief & improve their quality of life. I got into this work because after my own journey of improving my wellbeing, it became really meaningful and purposeful to facilitate other peoples journey towards wellbeing and pass on what I found actually worked. I use experiential methods like IFS, STAIR, IPNB, Mindful Somatic, Hakomi, Coherence, and EFIT/attachment based, which are shown to reintegrate hard to change parts of the brain to be more flexible, adaptable, coherent, energized, and stable.
Hi, I'm Nick. I primarily serve LGBTQIA+, creative/open, 21yo+ people who have experienced distress or traumas in life and need to find relief & improve their quality of life. I got into this work because after my own journey of improving my wellbeing, it became really meaningful and purposeful to facilitate other peoples journey towards wellbeing and pass on what I found actually worked. I use experiential methods like IFS, STAIR, IPNB, Mindful Somatic, Hakomi, Coherence, and EFIT/attachment based, which are shown to reintegrate hard to change parts of the brain to be more flexible, adaptable, coherent, energized, and stable.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex & relationship therapist. Qualified child and adolescent mental health clinician.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex & relationship therapist. Qualified child and adolescent mental health clinician.
I specialise in providing a safe, inclusive space for marginalised communities, including LGBTQIA+, sex worker, and neurodiverse clients. I understand the challenges of navigating identity, stigma, and societal pressures. In my practice, I offer a collaborative, non-judgmental space for clients to explore, affirm, or reflect on their identities. Together, we build resilience, address challenges, and focus on growth. Therapy is tailored to each individual’s unique journey, ensuring a respectful and empowering experience for all.
I specialise in providing a safe, inclusive space for marginalised communities, including LGBTQIA+, sex worker, and neurodiverse clients. I understand the challenges of navigating identity, stigma, and societal pressures. In my practice, I offer a collaborative, non-judgmental space for clients to explore, affirm, or reflect on their identities. Together, we build resilience, address challenges, and focus on growth. Therapy is tailored to each individual’s unique journey, ensuring a respectful and empowering experience for all.
I meet people with strong intent. They want to thrive but have come up against repeating patterns of resistance. I see couples and individuals. Everybody striving to meet the challenges of these difficult times. Many of my clients are neurodiverse or in neuro differing relationships. Most people carry some level of trauma from the past. My job is to help folk self-reflect, and in relationship: co-regulate. I believe we must relearn tools to find belonging (in all spheres); that this is essential in order for us all to secure a thriving future.
I meet people with strong intent. They want to thrive but have come up against repeating patterns of resistance. I see couples and individuals. Everybody striving to meet the challenges of these difficult times. Many of my clients are neurodiverse or in neuro differing relationships. Most people carry some level of trauma from the past. My job is to help folk self-reflect, and in relationship: co-regulate. I believe we must relearn tools to find belonging (in all spheres); that this is essential in order for us all to secure a thriving future.
The stories of our lives through the events and experiences, wanted and unwanted, that happen around us and to us, are the keys to our present-day ways of being. Our approaches, responses and understandings are based on these stories. These stories, and our formed views of those, are called narratives, and these narratives are both powerful and influential in wanted, and unwanted ways.
I am interested in the stories of your life and your formed Attachment Styles which started at birth through to childhood and into adulthood, and what is happening in your life now, which at times is unwelcomed, unwanted and disruptive.
The stories of our lives through the events and experiences, wanted and unwanted, that happen around us and to us, are the keys to our present-day ways of being. Our approaches, responses and understandings are based on these stories. These stories, and our formed views of those, are called narratives, and these narratives are both powerful and influential in wanted, and unwanted ways.
I am interested in the stories of your life and your formed Attachment Styles which started at birth through to childhood and into adulthood, and what is happening in your life now, which at times is unwelcomed, unwanted and disruptive.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
Are you feeling distressed, lost, anxious or overwhelmed? When life moves in unexpected ways, it can be difficult to cope, let alone feel calm or clear. My role is to support you in easing the mental and emotional suffering that can arise during challenging times. Drawing on training in Counselling, Psychology, and NLP, I support adults to overcome anxiety, overwhelm, burnout, grief, trauma and low mood. Together we work toward restoring confidence, rebuilding self-esteem and cultivating more balanced, meaningful relationships.
Are you feeling distressed, lost, anxious or overwhelmed? When life moves in unexpected ways, it can be difficult to cope, let alone feel calm or clear. My role is to support you in easing the mental and emotional suffering that can arise during challenging times. Drawing on training in Counselling, Psychology, and NLP, I support adults to overcome anxiety, overwhelm, burnout, grief, trauma and low mood. Together we work toward restoring confidence, rebuilding self-esteem and cultivating more balanced, meaningful relationships.
Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
Kia ora! I am a Pākeha clinical psychologist providing remote therapy to people across Aotearoa. I work with adults (age 18+) experiencing a range of life challenges and mental health difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, OCD, low mood, LGBTQIA+ issues and relationship difficulties.
I am warm, nonjudgemental, and genuine, and strive to create a space where you will feel safe to share your experiences. I am passionate about helping you learn about yourself, overcome feeling stuck, and develop skills and strategies, so that you can ride the waves of life with a sense of presence, resilience and purpose.
Kia ora! I am a Pākeha clinical psychologist providing remote therapy to people across Aotearoa. I work with adults (age 18+) experiencing a range of life challenges and mental health difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, OCD, low mood, LGBTQIA+ issues and relationship difficulties.
I am warm, nonjudgemental, and genuine, and strive to create a space where you will feel safe to share your experiences. I am passionate about helping you learn about yourself, overcome feeling stuck, and develop skills and strategies, so that you can ride the waves of life with a sense of presence, resilience and purpose.
Not accepting new clients, only Readiness Assessments >
I enjoy working with adults navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, identity exploration, neurodiversity, life transitions, self-esteem concerns, and patterns that leave them feeling stuck. I also have extensive experience supporting Rainbow communities and providing Gender-Affirming Care, including Readiness Assessments for accessing transitional care. Together, we work to better understand challenges, build on strengths, develop practical tools, and create meaningful change aligned with your values and goals.
Not accepting new clients, only Readiness Assessments >
I enjoy working with adults navigating anxiety, trauma, relationship challenges, identity exploration, neurodiversity, life transitions, self-esteem concerns, and patterns that leave them feeling stuck. I also have extensive experience supporting Rainbow communities and providing Gender-Affirming Care, including Readiness Assessments for accessing transitional care. Together, we work to better understand challenges, build on strengths, develop practical tools, and create meaningful change aligned with your values and goals.
Online Therapists
Are you finding life challenging? Do things feel overwhelming and stressful?
Are you looking for how to feel happier and calmer and more able to deal with difficulties?
Do you want to talk to someone who is warm, gentle, kind and understanding?
I draw on my experience working with a range of adults of different ages and from different cultures, gender and sexual identities.
My approach is based on psychodynamic psychotherapy. This is a person-centred, non-judgmental and non-directive way of working.
Are you finding life challenging? Do things feel overwhelming and stressful?
Are you looking for how to feel happier and calmer and more able to deal with difficulties?
Do you want to talk to someone who is warm, gentle, kind and understanding?
I draw on my experience working with a range of adults of different ages and from different cultures, gender and sexual identities.
My approach is based on psychodynamic psychotherapy. This is a person-centred, non-judgmental and non-directive way of working.
Kia Ora and welcome. I help people who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship difficulties. I offer years of experience working with people who were diagnosed with a life-threatening illness and with people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. My special interest lies in meaning and purpose, and in finding hope again after becoming disillusioned and demoralised. You will find a caring, accepting, and thoughtful space with a genuine interest in who you are. It is important to me to understand your struggles with empathy while appreciating your strengths.
Kia Ora and welcome. I help people who struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, and relationship difficulties. I offer years of experience working with people who were diagnosed with a life-threatening illness and with people who are grieving the loss of a loved one. My special interest lies in meaning and purpose, and in finding hope again after becoming disillusioned and demoralised. You will find a caring, accepting, and thoughtful space with a genuine interest in who you are. It is important to me to understand your struggles with empathy while appreciating your strengths.
I work from a neuro-affirming perspective and help individuals with ADHD and ASD (Autism) make sense of their neurodivergence and harness their strengths, so they can work with their brains rather than against them.
I work from a neuro-affirming perspective and help individuals with ADHD and ASD (Autism) make sense of their neurodivergence and harness their strengths, so they can work with their brains rather than against them.
Feeling anxious, disconnected in your relationships, or stuck in a difficult season of life? I support youth, adults, and couples who are dealing with overthinking, conflict, low confidence, stress, low mood, or a loss of direction. Many of the people I work with are used to handling things on their own and want counselling that feels practical, approachable, and genuinely useful. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s happening, build tools that fit your life, and help you move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and connection.
Feeling anxious, disconnected in your relationships, or stuck in a difficult season of life? I support youth, adults, and couples who are dealing with overthinking, conflict, low confidence, stress, low mood, or a loss of direction. Many of the people I work with are used to handling things on their own and want counselling that feels practical, approachable, and genuinely useful. Together, we’ll make sense of what’s happening, build tools that fit your life, and help you move forward with greater clarity, confidence, and connection.
A deeply relational psychodynamic holistic counsellor while offering practical life skills. Highly effective in supporting clients to develop awareness and understanding of patterns that undermine the quality of life they seek. I provide an integrative approach drawing on different modalities dependent on a person's needs for support.
People attend therapy for a range of reasons – to understand thoughts and feelings; to explore current & past experiences; to develop effective coping strategies; to improve relationships & interact more effectively with others; to identify what has meaning & discover new pathways.
A deeply relational psychodynamic holistic counsellor while offering practical life skills. Highly effective in supporting clients to develop awareness and understanding of patterns that undermine the quality of life they seek. I provide an integrative approach drawing on different modalities dependent on a person's needs for support.
People attend therapy for a range of reasons – to understand thoughts and feelings; to explore current & past experiences; to develop effective coping strategies; to improve relationships & interact more effectively with others; to identify what has meaning & discover new pathways.
Bisexual Counsellors
What is bisexual-affirming therapy?
Bisexual-affirming therapy is a type of mental health support that fully affirms and reflects a client’s bisexual identity. It is rooted in acceptance and does not attempt to change or question an individual’s orientation. In this type of therapy, clients work with a therapist who understands the unique experiences of bisexual people. This support is especially important, as research shows that bisexual individuals face higher rates of anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation compared to other groups. Bisexual-affirming therapy acknowledges that bisexual individuals may encounter specific stressors—such as invalidation, relationship challenges, and minority stress—that require specialised understanding and intervention. Many therapists also provide couples therapy for bisexual partners, helping them navigate relationship dynamics, communication challenges, or external stressors that may impact their relationship. While not required, some clients prefer working with bisexual therapists who may bring personal insight to the therapeutic relationship. However, a non-bisexual therapist with strong training and a genuine commitment to affirmation can be equally effective. The most important factor is finding a therapist who understands how identity impacts mental health and can create a space of trust and respect.
What can a bisexual therapist help with?
Bisexual-affirming therapists can provide support across a wide range of concerns relevant to bisexual individuals. Whether through personal or professional experience, they often have specialised knowledge in areas such as the coming out process, navigating stereotypes, and dealing with common stressors. Relationship support is another key area of focus, as bisexual clients may face unique challenge when dating or maintaining relationships across genders. Affirming therapists can also help clients build coping strategies for managing discrimination or stigma. Additionally, many bisexual-affirming therapists can connect clients to other providers or community-based resources—such as bisexual support groups or LGBTQ+ organisations—that offer additional affirming spaces for connection. It's important to note that therapists provide can talk therapy and counseling services but do not prescribe medication—if medication is needed for conditions like depression or anxiety, they will coordinate care with a psychiatrist or primary care physician who can provide psychiatric medication management alongside therapeutic support.
How do I find a bisexual therapist?
The Psychology Today online directory is a helpful tool for finding bisexual-affirming therapists. You can use search filters to identify therapists who specialise in LGBTQ+ care and work specifically with bisexual clients. You can also filter by clinical specialties, therapeutic approaches, accepted insurance, session costs, and languages spoken to find the right fit. During initial consultations or early sessions, ask potential therapists about their specific training in bisexual-affirming care, their experience with LGBTQ+ clients, and their therapeutic approach to identity-related concerns. An effective bisexual-affirming therapist will demonstrate genuine understanding of bisexual experiences, including awareness of the unique challenges facing bisexual individuals. You can also look for credentials or continuing education in areas such as LGBTQ+ mental health, trauma-informed care, and intersectionality.