Therapists in Paraparaumu

In our one-on-one sessions, we will work together to identify and address the issues that bring you to therapy. Our sessions will be a collaborative process, focused on your goals and needs. Through techniques such as CBT, we will work on reshaping negative thought patterns and behaviors. EMDR will assist in processing past traumas, and Sand Play therapy will offer a creative and expressive outlet for exploring your emotions. I am currently training in Transactional Analysis- an evidence-based psychotherapy modality.
In our one-on-one sessions, we will work together to identify and address the issues that bring you to therapy. Our sessions will be a collaborative process, focused on your goals and needs. Through techniques such as CBT, we will work on reshaping negative thought patterns and behaviors. EMDR will assist in processing past traumas, and Sand Play therapy will offer a creative and expressive outlet for exploring your emotions. I am currently training in Transactional Analysis- an evidence-based psychotherapy modality.

I welcome adult clients for help with stress, anxiety and past trauma. Somatic therapies involve less talking and more awareness of sensations and emotions in the body, as well as any movements or gestures that may arise. As a retired medical doctor, I have good understanding of how stress influences the body, and can help you to release some of the effects of past traumas. Please note that I am not registered as an ACC therapist at this time.
I welcome adult clients for help with stress, anxiety and past trauma. Somatic therapies involve less talking and more awareness of sensations and emotions in the body, as well as any movements or gestures that may arise. As a retired medical doctor, I have good understanding of how stress influences the body, and can help you to release some of the effects of past traumas. Please note that I am not registered as an ACC therapist at this time.

Hi I'm Ben and I've been supporting people of all ages for over 20 years. I offer a safe space to explore issues, solve problems, learn new skills and gain insights.
I work with a very wide range of issues, including but not limited to - depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, grief and loss, neurodivergence, youth and family, sexuality and sexual identity, relationships, financial stress, workplace behaviour and issues, interpersonal conflicts and so much more.
As well as counselling adults, I have a depth of experience working with children, youth and younger adults, and parents struggling with parenting issues.
Hi I'm Ben and I've been supporting people of all ages for over 20 years. I offer a safe space to explore issues, solve problems, learn new skills and gain insights.
I work with a very wide range of issues, including but not limited to - depression, anxiety, childhood trauma, grief and loss, neurodivergence, youth and family, sexuality and sexual identity, relationships, financial stress, workplace behaviour and issues, interpersonal conflicts and so much more.
As well as counselling adults, I have a depth of experience working with children, youth and younger adults, and parents struggling with parenting issues.

If grief or loss, have lead you to this page, you may currently find yourself in a state of exhaustion or despair. However painful your emotions, there exists a pathway towards integration and healing. If you are seeking relief from pain of loss, my professional expertise is dedicated to help you process your past and rediscover a sense of wholeness.
If grief or loss, have lead you to this page, you may currently find yourself in a state of exhaustion or despair. However painful your emotions, there exists a pathway towards integration and healing. If you are seeking relief from pain of loss, my professional expertise is dedicated to help you process your past and rediscover a sense of wholeness.

I am a child and family therapist passionate about helping families work together better.
I work with couples
provide play therapy for children
I can help with separation
arrangements and helping children manage change, grief and loss
I can help to build confidence
I can help with behaviour challenges
I enjoy working with neuro diverse children and children with development delays
I am ACC approved
I am a child and family therapist passionate about helping families work together better.
I work with couples
provide play therapy for children
I can help with separation
arrangements and helping children manage change, grief and loss
I can help to build confidence
I can help with behaviour challenges
I enjoy working with neuro diverse children and children with development delays
I am ACC approved

I offer in person counselling in Kāpiti or online counselling throughout New Zealand to adults and adolescents. I am flexible in my approach, which is individualised for you depending on your current needs. I work in a client centred, collaborative way where we meet together as equals working to satisfy the outcome that you desire, respecting your values, beliefs and uniqueness. We will work together and at a pace that works for you enabling you to heal and move forward to your wholeness - of what is already there. I believe that we can find solutions to your difficulties using the strength and resources that you have within you.
I offer in person counselling in Kāpiti or online counselling throughout New Zealand to adults and adolescents. I am flexible in my approach, which is individualised for you depending on your current needs. I work in a client centred, collaborative way where we meet together as equals working to satisfy the outcome that you desire, respecting your values, beliefs and uniqueness. We will work together and at a pace that works for you enabling you to heal and move forward to your wholeness - of what is already there. I believe that we can find solutions to your difficulties using the strength and resources that you have within you.

I am a warm and empathetic clinical psychologist who works with a range of presenting difficulties. My aim is to provide a service tailored to each individual and their goals. I have a special interest in eating disorders, and gender readiness assessments and transition support.
I am a warm and empathetic clinical psychologist who works with a range of presenting difficulties. My aim is to provide a service tailored to each individual and their goals. I have a special interest in eating disorders, and gender readiness assessments and transition support.

Life can be challenging, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, dealing with trauma, anxiety, low self-esteem, or other personal challenges, I provide a safe and supportive space to explore, heal, and move forward.
If you are contemplating leaving – or have left – a high-demand religion, I understand the impacts of that experience and can help support you through the process of finding your way, without influencing or pressuring you in your decision.
Life can be challenging, and you don’t have to navigate it alone. Whether you’re feeling stuck or overwhelmed, dealing with trauma, anxiety, low self-esteem, or other personal challenges, I provide a safe and supportive space to explore, heal, and move forward.
If you are contemplating leaving – or have left – a high-demand religion, I understand the impacts of that experience and can help support you through the process of finding your way, without influencing or pressuring you in your decision.

I have helped thousands of people with Depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I treat each person as the unique person they are and we work together to figure out what is required. Sometimes people need help navigating through grief through loss or through fertility issues or illness and I can help with that. Sometimes couples want help to ensure their communication is improved, or help with navigating post separation arrangements with for their children. I am a firm believer in the benefits of Yoga and Meditation but do not push this on to clients if they do not wish to use these tools.
I have helped thousands of people with Depression, anxiety and relationship issues. I treat each person as the unique person they are and we work together to figure out what is required. Sometimes people need help navigating through grief through loss or through fertility issues or illness and I can help with that. Sometimes couples want help to ensure their communication is improved, or help with navigating post separation arrangements with for their children. I am a firm believer in the benefits of Yoga and Meditation but do not push this on to clients if they do not wish to use these tools.

I believe very strongly that we all have the power within ourselves to live the best lives we can. My aim is to help you with whatever you bring into the room. With an open mind and the skills I have I can help you move forward in your life to a happier place.
I believe very strongly that we all have the power within ourselves to live the best lives we can. My aim is to help you with whatever you bring into the room. With an open mind and the skills I have I can help you move forward in your life to a happier place.

Kia Ora! I am interested in working with people who identify as LGBTIQ+ and their families. Social justice is close to my heart. I live on the Kāpiti Coast with my partner and two boys. I enjoy being near the beach and nature.
Some of the particular areas I enjoy working in are LGBTIQ+ individuals and their families, Queer parenting, creating Queer whānau and the family planning journey, non-binary and trans folk, identity, relationships, friendships, self esteem and spirituality and religion.
Kia Ora! I am interested in working with people who identify as LGBTIQ+ and their families. Social justice is close to my heart. I live on the Kāpiti Coast with my partner and two boys. I enjoy being near the beach and nature.
Some of the particular areas I enjoy working in are LGBTIQ+ individuals and their families, Queer parenting, creating Queer whānau and the family planning journey, non-binary and trans folk, identity, relationships, friendships, self esteem and spirituality and religion.

Hello, I'm Bethany. I enjoy helping others and feel honoured to be part of a client's journey towards healing, freedom and becoming a more authentic and healthier version of themselves. I have experience working individually, with couples and groups. I provide a safe, accepting and affirming environment where growth, insight and discovery are nurtured.
Hello, I'm Bethany. I enjoy helping others and feel honoured to be part of a client's journey towards healing, freedom and becoming a more authentic and healthier version of themselves. I have experience working individually, with couples and groups. I provide a safe, accepting and affirming environment where growth, insight and discovery are nurtured.

I frequently work with the following clients - teenagers, university students, and adults. Are you feeling stuck within yourself, or your relationship with a loved one is strained and when you try and resolve it, the relationship actually gets worse rather than better? Are you feeling angry, sad or unfulfilled with your life and are ready for a positive change? I understand that challenges come up in work, in relationships, or inside of ourselves and I listen and share with you some new tools and perspectives to deal with your emotions and situations in a much more positive and helpful way.
I frequently work with the following clients - teenagers, university students, and adults. Are you feeling stuck within yourself, or your relationship with a loved one is strained and when you try and resolve it, the relationship actually gets worse rather than better? Are you feeling angry, sad or unfulfilled with your life and are ready for a positive change? I understand that challenges come up in work, in relationships, or inside of ourselves and I listen and share with you some new tools and perspectives to deal with your emotions and situations in a much more positive and helpful way.

I work with people who are experiencing everyday issues as well as people who are struggling with more complex mental health issues. Sometimes there isn't something "wrong", but things don't feel okay or "right". Sometimes we know what we should say or do, but find ourselves doing or saying something opposite to what we intended. Sometimes we think that we know ourselves or someone else and then realise that we really don't. I'm here to help you accept who you are and the ways that you are. Through self-acceptance many challenges can be overcome.
I work with people who are experiencing everyday issues as well as people who are struggling with more complex mental health issues. Sometimes there isn't something "wrong", but things don't feel okay or "right". Sometimes we know what we should say or do, but find ourselves doing or saying something opposite to what we intended. Sometimes we think that we know ourselves or someone else and then realise that we really don't. I'm here to help you accept who you are and the ways that you are. Through self-acceptance many challenges can be overcome.
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Kia ora, I'm John.
I'm a psychotherapist based in Upper Hutt with nearly 30 years' experience working in the fields of mental health and addiction. I work with a variety of issues, long-term and short-term.
My repertoire includes Transactional Analysis and psychodynamic understanding, I also use relational and motivational approaches. I have lived experience and am passionate about psychotherapy. I am interested in ethics and humour in relation to mental health.
I supervise therapists and trainees, and I help to run a Transactional Analysis psychotherapy training programme based in Wellington.
Kia ora, I'm John.
I'm a psychotherapist based in Upper Hutt with nearly 30 years' experience working in the fields of mental health and addiction. I work with a variety of issues, long-term and short-term.
My repertoire includes Transactional Analysis and psychodynamic understanding, I also use relational and motivational approaches. I have lived experience and am passionate about psychotherapy. I am interested in ethics and humour in relation to mental health.
I supervise therapists and trainees, and I help to run a Transactional Analysis psychotherapy training programme based in Wellington.

Please contact me via email, rather than phone call. Cheers.
Please contact me via email, rather than phone call. Cheers.

I am an experienced, social work-trained practitioner with many years of working therapeutically with individuals and whānau in the community. My approach is person-centered and eclectic, weaving together various models to best meet your needs. I specialize in supporting individuals through anxiety, depression, life transitions, anger, relationships, emotional regulation, stress, distress, and personal development and growth.
I am an experienced, social work-trained practitioner with many years of working therapeutically with individuals and whānau in the community. My approach is person-centered and eclectic, weaving together various models to best meet your needs. I specialize in supporting individuals through anxiety, depression, life transitions, anger, relationships, emotional regulation, stress, distress, and personal development and growth.

Overwhelmed by anxiety or depression? Struggling to cope with your relationship, life or work? Paralysed by decision making? Frustrated with those around you? Dissatisfied with where your life and relationships are at? I work with individuals, couples, children and young people, and can offer you a safe and confidential space to help you explore solutions that are right for you and your particular situation. Clients come to see me with various difficulties in their lives, including depression, loss, anxiety, bereavement, sexual abuse, trauma, low self-esteem and couples who are experiencing difficulties in their relationships.
Overwhelmed by anxiety or depression? Struggling to cope with your relationship, life or work? Paralysed by decision making? Frustrated with those around you? Dissatisfied with where your life and relationships are at? I work with individuals, couples, children and young people, and can offer you a safe and confidential space to help you explore solutions that are right for you and your particular situation. Clients come to see me with various difficulties in their lives, including depression, loss, anxiety, bereavement, sexual abuse, trauma, low self-esteem and couples who are experiencing difficulties in their relationships.

I am a Holistic Counsellor, an Intuitive & a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing. The transformation & sacred journey I will take you on will enable you to reach wellbeing by liberating yourself from traumas, conditioning, and self-limiting beliefs rooted in past experiences that are no longer serving you. I have a nurturing, proactive & empowering approach to help you find freedom within yourself in a supportive and safe environment.
I am a Holistic Counsellor, an Intuitive & a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing. The transformation & sacred journey I will take you on will enable you to reach wellbeing by liberating yourself from traumas, conditioning, and self-limiting beliefs rooted in past experiences that are no longer serving you. I have a nurturing, proactive & empowering approach to help you find freedom within yourself in a supportive and safe environment.

We all go through difficult times in our lives when we might feel unfulfilled, overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, depressed, dealing with loss, facing a major life-change, or struggling with relationship dynamics. Sometimes these feelings are accompanied by physical symptoms such as muscle tension, headaches, palpitations, sleep disturbances, or fatigue. Counselling provides a safe and supportive space to gain insights into your emotional and behavioural patterns and leads you to self-discovery, improved relationships, and a more fulfilling life. With me you will feel safe, supported, valued, and respected during the therapeutic process.
We all go through difficult times in our lives when we might feel unfulfilled, overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, depressed, dealing with loss, facing a major life-change, or struggling with relationship dynamics. Sometimes these feelings are accompanied by physical symptoms such as muscle tension, headaches, palpitations, sleep disturbances, or fatigue. Counselling provides a safe and supportive space to gain insights into your emotional and behavioural patterns and leads you to self-discovery, improved relationships, and a more fulfilling life. With me you will feel safe, supported, valued, and respected during the therapeutic process.
How does your Counsellor compare?
Number of Counsellors in Paraparaumu
10+
Average cost per session
$150
Counsellors in Paraparaumu who prioritize treating:
71% | Anxiety |
64% | Depression |
64% | Self Esteem |
57% | Bereavement |
50% | Relationship Issues |
50% | Trauma and PTSD |
50% | Women's Issues |
Average years in practice
13 Years
Top 3 insurances accepted
100% | Southern Cross |
100% | Sovereign Health |
100% | AIA |
How Counsellors in Paraparaumu see their clients
93% | In Person and Online | |
7% | Online Only |
Gender breakdown
92% | Female | |
8% | Male |
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling
How can I find a therapist in Paraparaumu?
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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?
Psychologists listed in the directory are registered with the New Zealand Psychologists Board under the Health Practitioners Competency Assurance Act 2003 (HPCA Act). To be listed in the directory, psychotherapists must be registered through the Psychotherapists Board of Aotearoa New Zealand. Counsellors listed in the directory should have a minimum training of NZQF 6 or higher, and many are registered with a professional body, such as the New Zealand Association of Counsellors (NZAC).
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for counsellors in New Zealand, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for counsellors in New Zealand, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.
What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?
Psychologists, counsellors, and psychotherapists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and supervised, practical experience that enable them to do so in New Zealand.
Psychologists possess a minimum of a master's degree in Psychology and are registered with the New Zealand Psychologists Board. Psychotherapists typically hold the equivalent of a Master's or Doctorate Degree in Psychotherapy, depending on their programme of study. Many psychotherapists have themselves undergone psychotherapy as part of their training. In order to be a member of NZAC, Counsellors must have a bachelor's or master's degree in Counselling and complete ongoing professional development and education.
Psychologists possess a minimum of a master's degree in Psychology and are registered with the New Zealand Psychologists Board. Psychotherapists typically hold the equivalent of a Master's or Doctorate Degree in Psychotherapy, depending on their programme of study. Many psychotherapists have themselves undergone psychotherapy as part of their training. In order to be a member of NZAC, Counsellors must have a bachelor's or master's degree in Counselling and complete ongoing professional development and education.
What type of therapy is right for me?
The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.
How much does therapy cost?
The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, the cost of a therapy session in New Zealand could be between $100 and $200. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.
What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?
Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. To access these services you will need to be assessed and referred by your GP or family doctor. However, you will have limited choice regarding the specialist and the length of treatment that will be assigned to you. In addition, Community Mental Health and Addiction services are also available through your local District Health Board (DHB).
If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. To access these services you will need to be assessed and referred by your GP or family doctor. However, you will have limited choice regarding the specialist and the length of treatment that will be assigned to you. In addition, Community Mental Health and Addiction services are also available through your local District Health Board (DHB).
Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?
Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.
Is online therapy a good option?
Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.
Are therapy sessions confidential?
Professionals registered with the Boards and/or who are members of professional organisations are obligated to uphold client confidentiality unless there is a legal reason that requires them to disclose information. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there is the potential or known harm to the client or others, or a court order, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.