Attachment-based Therapists in Inglewood

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Simone Hayward
Psychotherapist, MA, ANZAP
Inglewood 4330
I believe that the relationship we have with ourselves is paramount for personal growth, awareness and understanding. Only when we know ourselves with compassion, can we invite others into our lives without judgement and with respect. Relationships are based on communication, boundaries, love and empathy. When we learn these skills we develop more meaningful relationships and can live more fulfilling lives. The therapy journey with me is one filled with care, compassion, empathy, safety and hope.
I believe that the relationship we have with ourselves is paramount for personal growth, awareness and understanding. Only when we know ourselves with compassion, can we invite others into our lives without judgement and with respect. Relationships are based on communication, boundaries, love and empathy. When we learn these skills we develop more meaningful relationships and can live more fulfilling lives. The therapy journey with me is one filled with care, compassion, empathy, safety and hope.
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Mark Warren
Counsellor, MPsych, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
Seeking help is a courageous step, and picking the right therapist can be a daunting task....so who am I?....I am a heart centred, gentle and relational Gestalt therapist. I provide a safe space where we can explore together, with kindness and compassion, what brings you to therapy. If you'd like to know more, please feel free to email me and we can arrange a 15 minute no obligation zoom chat, to see if we could work together. the first step is often the hardest....reach out.
Seeking help is a courageous step, and picking the right therapist can be a daunting task....so who am I?....I am a heart centred, gentle and relational Gestalt therapist. I provide a safe space where we can explore together, with kindness and compassion, what brings you to therapy. If you'd like to know more, please feel free to email me and we can arrange a 15 minute no obligation zoom chat, to see if we could work together. the first step is often the hardest....reach out.
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Angela Roberts
Verified Verified
Online Only
Sexologist, Sex and Relationship/Couples Therapist, Registered Occupational Therapist, Grief and Loss Trauma-Informed Therapist and Professional Supervisor. Find out more www.angelaroberts.nz. I understand that coming to therapy can be daunting, and it can feel challenging to talk about topics such as sex and relationships and/or grief and loss. I offer you professional, unbiased, experienced, solutions-focused therapy as you navigate your relationships, communication, mental health, grief and loss, and sexuality. I offer online talking therapy and coaching sessions from the comfort and convenience of your home.
Sexologist, Sex and Relationship/Couples Therapist, Registered Occupational Therapist, Grief and Loss Trauma-Informed Therapist and Professional Supervisor. Find out more www.angelaroberts.nz. I understand that coming to therapy can be daunting, and it can feel challenging to talk about topics such as sex and relationships and/or grief and loss. I offer you professional, unbiased, experienced, solutions-focused therapy as you navigate your relationships, communication, mental health, grief and loss, and sexuality. I offer online talking therapy and coaching sessions from the comfort and convenience of your home.
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Tabitha Phillips
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
Kia ora and hello! I have some availability for both couples counselling and individuals. I also offer a free initial ten minute consultation by telephone. I'm a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns;  including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions. I have a particular interest and experience in assisting men and women who have suffered personal or intergenerational trauma, along with relationship issues.
Kia ora and hello! I have some availability for both couples counselling and individuals. I also offer a free initial ten minute consultation by telephone. I'm a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns;  including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions. I have a particular interest and experience in assisting men and women who have suffered personal or intergenerational trauma, along with relationship issues.
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Sally Williams
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
I specialise in providing a safe, inclusive space for marginalised communities, including LGBTQIA+, sex worker, and neurodiverse clients. I understand the challenges of navigating identity, stigma, and societal pressures. In my practice, I offer a collaborative, non-judgmental space for clients to explore, affirm, or reflect on their identities. Together, we build resilience, address challenges, and focus on growth. Therapy is tailored to each individual’s unique journey, ensuring a respectful and empowering experience for all.
I specialise in providing a safe, inclusive space for marginalised communities, including LGBTQIA+, sex worker, and neurodiverse clients. I understand the challenges of navigating identity, stigma, and societal pressures. In my practice, I offer a collaborative, non-judgmental space for clients to explore, affirm, or reflect on their identities. Together, we build resilience, address challenges, and focus on growth. Therapy is tailored to each individual’s unique journey, ensuring a respectful and empowering experience for all.
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Photo of Paola Montanaro, Counsellor, MPsych, MNZAC
Paola Montanaro
Counsellor, MPsych, MNZAC
Serves Area
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
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Grant Wattie, Marriage & Couples Counsellor, MNZAC
Counsellor, MNZAC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
High-performing professionals and entrepreneurs often succeed in business but silently struggle at home. Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership. Research shows couples therapy ranks lowest in client satisfaction, often leaving professionals frustrated. That’s why I created the Aroha Rapid Transformation Method—a practical, results-focused approach that helps couples move quickly from stress and disconnection to clarity, intimacy, and trust.
High-performing professionals and entrepreneurs often succeed in business but silently struggle at home. Whether your marriage feels on the brink or you simply want deeper connection, I provide a safe, structured space to realign love and leadership. Research shows couples therapy ranks lowest in client satisfaction, often leaving professionals frustrated. That’s why I created the Aroha Rapid Transformation Method—a practical, results-focused approach that helps couples move quickly from stress and disconnection to clarity, intimacy, and trust.
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Attachment-based Counsellors
Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?
Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?
Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?
Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?
Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.