Sex Therapists in Otago

Qualified sex & relationship therapist.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
Qualified sex & relationship therapist.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.

The last few years I have been focused my professional development on the topics of sex therapy and wairuatanga/spirituality.
Please contact me via email, rather than phone call. Cheers.
The last few years I have been focused my professional development on the topics of sex therapy and wairuatanga/spirituality.
Please contact me via email, rather than phone call. Cheers.

I specialize in providing a safe, inclusive space for LGBTQIA+, sex worker, and neurodiverse clients.
I offer a collaborative, person-centred approach to therapy, where each client's unique needs are prioritized. As a peer with lived experience, I understand the challenges of navigating identity and life's complexities. I work alongside you to find what works best, helping you build resilience, explore your identity, gain clarity and create change.
I specialize in providing a safe, inclusive space for LGBTQIA+, sex worker, and neurodiverse clients.
I offer a collaborative, person-centred approach to therapy, where each client's unique needs are prioritized. As a peer with lived experience, I understand the challenges of navigating identity and life's complexities. I work alongside you to find what works best, helping you build resilience, explore your identity, gain clarity and create change.

In the beginning the substance or the behaviour (such as sex addiction) was the 'solution', but after a while it became the problem.
I have worked in the addictions treatment sector since 2009. This included inpatient counselling as an addictions therapist in the US, Australia and NZ as well as outpatient counselling for CADS. For the past six years I have had my own practice in Auckland City, specialising in treating people with sex and love addiction (also by video conferencing).
In the beginning the substance or the behaviour (such as sex addiction) was the 'solution', but after a while it became the problem.
I have worked in the addictions treatment sector since 2009. This included inpatient counselling as an addictions therapist in the US, Australia and NZ as well as outpatient counselling for CADS. For the past six years I have had my own practice in Auckland City, specialising in treating people with sex and love addiction (also by video conferencing).

Vanishar Jayaprakash
Counsellor, MA, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Queenstown 9300
Hi, I’m Vani, and I’m here to support you—whether you’re processing the past, navigating the present, or planning for the future. With a background in psychology and counselling, I take a down-to-earth, client-focused approach. My experience includes working with diverse communities, from volunteering with Bluebird Pluho to establishing a counselling unit at an international high school and working in private practice. I support clients through anxiety, depression, burnout, and life transitions, creating a safe space where you can explore, heal, and grow at your own pace.
Hi, I’m Vani, and I’m here to support you—whether you’re processing the past, navigating the present, or planning for the future. With a background in psychology and counselling, I take a down-to-earth, client-focused approach. My experience includes working with diverse communities, from volunteering with Bluebird Pluho to establishing a counselling unit at an international high school and working in private practice. I support clients through anxiety, depression, burnout, and life transitions, creating a safe space where you can explore, heal, and grow at your own pace.

Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.

Kia ora! I'm Lisa Gibson, a registered psychologist based in Palmerston North. I'm dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. Through therapy, we can work together to develop helpful coping strategies, foster self-compassion, and cultivate greater self-awareness. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach.
Kia ora! I'm Lisa Gibson, a registered psychologist based in Palmerston North. I'm dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. Through therapy, we can work together to develop helpful coping strategies, foster self-compassion, and cultivate greater self-awareness. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach.
Online Therapists

My work background has been highly varied and I have specialised training in addiction, sex therapy, trauma work and couples work.
Welcome! My name is Jen and I am a registered counsellor specialising in relationship work, sexual issues, addiction and trauma. I primarily work with adults and couples with a range of complex issues. I offer a non-judgmental environment and a relational approach with the hope that you and I can work together in order to find answers or solutions that you may be seeking. I am psychodynamically trained and enjoy the explorative process of therapy. I have been a therapist for several years and enjoy my work immensely. I approach each new client with curiosity, compassion and a hope for resolution. I look forward to hearing from you!
My work background has been highly varied and I have specialised training in addiction, sex therapy, trauma work and couples work.
Welcome! My name is Jen and I am a registered counsellor specialising in relationship work, sexual issues, addiction and trauma. I primarily work with adults and couples with a range of complex issues. I offer a non-judgmental environment and a relational approach with the hope that you and I can work together in order to find answers or solutions that you may be seeking. I am psychodynamically trained and enjoy the explorative process of therapy. I have been a therapist for several years and enjoy my work immensely. I approach each new client with curiosity, compassion and a hope for resolution. I look forward to hearing from you!

They may also face challenges in their sexuality or relationships, seeking a safe space to explore these aspects of their identity.
I specialize in tailored psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, addiction, and sexual health. Using evidence-based techniques like CBT and ACT, I create a supportive environment for clients. My personalized treatment plans focus on individual needs and goals, helping build resilience and navigate toward a healthier, fulfilling life.
They may also face challenges in their sexuality or relationships, seeking a safe space to explore these aspects of their identity.
I specialize in tailored psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, addiction, and sexual health. Using evidence-based techniques like CBT and ACT, I create a supportive environment for clients. My personalized treatment plans focus on individual needs and goals, helping build resilience and navigate toward a healthier, fulfilling life.

I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.

I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodiversity.
My focus is on building a supportive and validating therapeutic relationship with the aim of increasing your insight, awareness, self compassion and ultimately leading to the changes you wish for. I work with adults; individuals, couples and ethically non monogamous relationship structures. I also offer professional consultation and supervision
I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodiversity.
My focus is on building a supportive and validating therapeutic relationship with the aim of increasing your insight, awareness, self compassion and ultimately leading to the changes you wish for. I work with adults; individuals, couples and ethically non monogamous relationship structures. I also offer professional consultation and supervision

MNZAC Registered with NZAC, specialising in relationships and areas that frequently impact relationships such as conflict, addiction, pornography addiction, anxiety, and sexuality
Intensives excel in crisis resolution and rapid, deep exploration. With a condensed format, they accommodate busy schedules, offering immediate, impactful results and focused attention. This enhances understanding and allows couples to address issues comprehensively. The concentrated effort fosters a quicker transformation in relationship compared to weekly
MNZAC Registered with NZAC, specialising in relationships and areas that frequently impact relationships such as conflict, addiction, pornography addiction, anxiety, and sexuality
Intensives excel in crisis resolution and rapid, deep exploration. With a condensed format, they accommodate busy schedules, offering immediate, impactful results and focused attention. This enhances understanding and allows couples to address issues comprehensively. The concentrated effort fosters a quicker transformation in relationship compared to weekly

I am a psychotherapist, a supervisor, and a sex therapist; these disciplines intertwine and inform my clinical practice every day.
I am currently taking clients and supervisees for general clinical practice and/or specifically for sex therapy.
I am a psychotherapist, a supervisor, and a sex therapist; these disciplines intertwine and inform my clinical practice every day.
I am currently taking clients and supervisees for general clinical practice and/or specifically for sex therapy.

I help people with all sorts of issues from sex and sexuality, relationships, workplace stress, depression and anxiety as well as helping connect with a sense of purpose in life.
Ready to start? I have availability for sessions for new bookings. Offering compassionate support - Someone neutral who you can rely on to be non-judgemental, empathetic and confidential. Even if things are generally going well but you'd like to make some improvements in life, do some self-discovery work, or process old issues from your past, having a safe, supportive space just for yourself, your thoughts and emotions, can be hugely beneficial. I look forward to hearing from you :-)
I help people with all sorts of issues from sex and sexuality, relationships, workplace stress, depression and anxiety as well as helping connect with a sense of purpose in life.
Ready to start? I have availability for sessions for new bookings. Offering compassionate support - Someone neutral who you can rely on to be non-judgemental, empathetic and confidential. Even if things are generally going well but you'd like to make some improvements in life, do some self-discovery work, or process old issues from your past, having a safe, supportive space just for yourself, your thoughts and emotions, can be hugely beneficial. I look forward to hearing from you :-)

I have a special interest in working with couples and individuals dealing with issues related to relationships and sex.
I also enjoy working with individuals and couples in non-traditional relationship structures like ethical non-monogamy, or those wanting to explore these alternative structures.
I have a special interest in working with couples and individuals dealing with issues related to relationships and sex.
I also enjoy working with individuals and couples in non-traditional relationship structures like ethical non-monogamy, or those wanting to explore these alternative structures.

My experience involves supporting whanau and individuals impacted by cancer, and group/individual therapy specialising in (cancer specific distress, grief, chronic illness/ chronic pain, couples therapy, sleep difficulties, Depression, Anxiety, stress, PTSD, sex and intimacy).
I provide a safe space to talk through what has been going on for you and I provide practical strategies to support and help manage the difficulties you may be having. I use evidence based therapy-along with working with each individual as a team to provide unique support.
My experience involves supporting whanau and individuals impacted by cancer, and group/individual therapy specialising in (cancer specific distress, grief, chronic illness/ chronic pain, couples therapy, sleep difficulties, Depression, Anxiety, stress, PTSD, sex and intimacy).
I provide a safe space to talk through what has been going on for you and I provide practical strategies to support and help manage the difficulties you may be having. I use evidence based therapy-along with working with each individual as a team to provide unique support.

I am a professional and experienced counsellor. I genuinely care about my clients and ensure a warm and nonjudgmental environment in my practice. I understand we all struggle with life’s challenges at times. I can offer you a supportive and comfortable environment to help you overcome those challenges. I provide a multi-dimensional approach tailored to the client’s individual requirements. I draw from aspects of mindfulness, neuroscience, multi fields of psychology, CBT, Imago Therapy, and counselling principles. My qualifications are Bachelor of Arts (Psychology), Post-Graduate Diploma (Psychology), Masters of Arts
I am a professional and experienced counsellor. I genuinely care about my clients and ensure a warm and nonjudgmental environment in my practice. I understand we all struggle with life’s challenges at times. I can offer you a supportive and comfortable environment to help you overcome those challenges. I provide a multi-dimensional approach tailored to the client’s individual requirements. I draw from aspects of mindfulness, neuroscience, multi fields of psychology, CBT, Imago Therapy, and counselling principles. My qualifications are Bachelor of Arts (Psychology), Post-Graduate Diploma (Psychology), Masters of Arts

Ideal clients could be suffering from disappointing life experiences, an unfair chance at life and those who are needing awhi, encouragement and support. They can be feeling sad or down, confused, have a reduced ability to concentrate, fearful, mood swings, feelings of guilt, withdrawal, loneliness, tiredness, low energy or have trouble sleeping. Understanding these issues by listening, identifying their needs and determine some goals may help formulate changing circumstances for a better future of growth and prosperity; a balanced life with whānau, friends and work situations.
Ideal clients could be suffering from disappointing life experiences, an unfair chance at life and those who are needing awhi, encouragement and support. They can be feeling sad or down, confused, have a reduced ability to concentrate, fearful, mood swings, feelings of guilt, withdrawal, loneliness, tiredness, low energy or have trouble sleeping. Understanding these issues by listening, identifying their needs and determine some goals may help formulate changing circumstances for a better future of growth and prosperity; a balanced life with whānau, friends and work situations.

Mo provides a warm, kind, hopeful, and effective space for increased awareness, personal growth and healing. In his holistic practice, he integrates modern therapy with age old wisdom traditions. Mo has been himself on the journey of growth and embodiment, practicing yoga, meditation, martial arts, and shadow work. Mo worked at a domestic violence agency, where, in addition to offering couples and individual therapy, he facilitated anger management groups. Mo has also taught mindfulness for stress reduction courses.
Mo provides a warm, kind, hopeful, and effective space for increased awareness, personal growth and healing. In his holistic practice, he integrates modern therapy with age old wisdom traditions. Mo has been himself on the journey of growth and embodiment, practicing yoga, meditation, martial arts, and shadow work. Mo worked at a domestic violence agency, where, in addition to offering couples and individual therapy, he facilitated anger management groups. Mo has also taught mindfulness for stress reduction courses.

Ashley Raju (Maharani Movement)
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Online Only
Kia ora, Ni sa Bula Vinaka and Namaste, I’m Ashley. I use an anti-oppressive, holistic, trauma-informed lens centered around those most impacted by patriarchy, sexism, misogyny, and colonization. I support women, femmes, and non-binary people of color through identity struggles, cultural assimilation, and trauma including racial, intergenerational, and sexual. I use Indigenous wellness models and trauma-informed yoga to foster healing and provide strategies for nervous system regulation & body reconnection. My focus is on easing anxiety, depression, sensory overwhelm, and a deeper understanding for highly sensitive people.
Kia ora, Ni sa Bula Vinaka and Namaste, I’m Ashley. I use an anti-oppressive, holistic, trauma-informed lens centered around those most impacted by patriarchy, sexism, misogyny, and colonization. I support women, femmes, and non-binary people of color through identity struggles, cultural assimilation, and trauma including racial, intergenerational, and sexual. I use Indigenous wellness models and trauma-informed yoga to foster healing and provide strategies for nervous system regulation & body reconnection. My focus is on easing anxiety, depression, sensory overwhelm, and a deeper understanding for highly sensitive people.
Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.