Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Therapists in Otago

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Jonathan Lee
Counsellor, MSc, MNZAC
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Better Self - Better Relationships - Better World. If you're wanting more confidence in yourself, more trust in your relationships, and more acceptance in the world, then I may be able to help. You'll find me an active listener. Through evidence-based interventions, I'll build a supportive therapeutic alliance with you, enabling you to achieve positive change. However, this requires your commitment to effort, time, and investment. The average course is some half dozen sessions, while deeper issues generally need more. Currently, I'm able to offer $945 as prepayment for 6 standard 50-minute sessions - more than a 10% discount.
Better Self - Better Relationships - Better World. If you're wanting more confidence in yourself, more trust in your relationships, and more acceptance in the world, then I may be able to help. You'll find me an active listener. Through evidence-based interventions, I'll build a supportive therapeutic alliance with you, enabling you to achieve positive change. However, this requires your commitment to effort, time, and investment. The average course is some half dozen sessions, while deeper issues generally need more. Currently, I'm able to offer $945 as prepayment for 6 standard 50-minute sessions - more than a 10% discount.
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Alice Beattie
Counsellor, MNZAC
Alexandra 9320
Waitlist for new clients
My passion is to create a space for others to explore their concerns or challenges and feel comfortable doing so as we work together towards your preferred goals ultimately supporting overall wellness. It can be a stepping out of the boat experience to talk to a professional about what troubles us, so I try to make the 'process' as easy as possible. We all struggle in many ways (normal!) and often, don't know what we don't know so upskilling in self-care or healthy thinking or relational wellness is something we all need to do from time to time to continue moving forward in life in ways that give our lives meaning and colour.
My passion is to create a space for others to explore their concerns or challenges and feel comfortable doing so as we work together towards your preferred goals ultimately supporting overall wellness. It can be a stepping out of the boat experience to talk to a professional about what troubles us, so I try to make the 'process' as easy as possible. We all struggle in many ways (normal!) and often, don't know what we don't know so upskilling in self-care or healthy thinking or relational wellness is something we all need to do from time to time to continue moving forward in life in ways that give our lives meaning and colour.
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Erica Steele
Counsellor, MA, MNZAC
Online Only
Career coaching - changing career, professional development, presentation, communication and leadership skills Personal counselling - CBT, ACT, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, Short Intervention Addiction Therapy, relationships, recover from bullying, conflict management, assertiveness, building confidence, stress management, manage anxiety, self care
Do you need help through a major life transition - to help build confidence, develop life direction, improve communication and relationship skills, manage stress, anger, depression and anxiety, and encourage wellbeing and self care? I can help, and welcome your enquiry. I can also assist with conflict resolution and Short Intervention Addiction Therapy (great for highly motivated people looking to change negative habits). I currently work with a variety of people including business owners, tradespeople, homemakers, farmers, artists, and students. Preferred provider for Auckland Chamber of Commerce. Registered with EAP providers.
Career coaching - changing career, professional development, presentation, communication and leadership skills Personal counselling - CBT, ACT, trauma, narcissistic abuse recovery, Short Intervention Addiction Therapy, relationships, recover from bullying, conflict management, assertiveness, building confidence, stress management, manage anxiety, self care
Do you need help through a major life transition - to help build confidence, develop life direction, improve communication and relationship skills, manage stress, anger, depression and anxiety, and encourage wellbeing and self care? I can help, and welcome your enquiry. I can also assist with conflict resolution and Short Intervention Addiction Therapy (great for highly motivated people looking to change negative habits). I currently work with a variety of people including business owners, tradespeople, homemakers, farmers, artists, and students. Preferred provider for Auckland Chamber of Commerce. Registered with EAP providers.
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Angela Carter
Counsellor, NZAFT
Online Only
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
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Peggy Barrett
Psychologist, MSc
Serves Area
I work with individuals and couples who are functioning on the outside but struggling internally, feeling anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, disconnected in relationships, or stuck in painful repeating patterns. Many of my clients are thoughtful, capable people who find themselves overthinking, shutting down, becoming reactive in conflict, or losing themselves in relationships. Together, we work to understand the patterns beneath these experiences, develop greater self-awareness and emotional steadiness, and create more connected, intentional ways of relating to themselves and others.
I work with individuals and couples who are functioning on the outside but struggling internally, feeling anxious, emotionally overwhelmed, disconnected in relationships, or stuck in painful repeating patterns. Many of my clients are thoughtful, capable people who find themselves overthinking, shutting down, becoming reactive in conflict, or losing themselves in relationships. Together, we work to understand the patterns beneath these experiences, develop greater self-awareness and emotional steadiness, and create more connected, intentional ways of relating to themselves and others.
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Tabitha Phillips
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
Kia ora and hello! I have some availability for both couples counselling and individuals. I also offer a free initial ten minute consultation by telephone. I'm a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns;  including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions. I have a particular interest and experience in assisting men and women who have suffered personal or intergenerational trauma, along with relationship issues.
Kia ora and hello! I have some availability for both couples counselling and individuals. I also offer a free initial ten minute consultation by telephone. I'm a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns;  including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions. I have a particular interest and experience in assisting men and women who have suffered personal or intergenerational trauma, along with relationship issues.
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Glenda Irwin
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Serves Area
I help individuals to thrive - predominately in relationship. As a couples counsellor/therapist I use Positive Psych, Relational Life Therapy, and Attachment Theory; adding mindfulness (presence skills) so clients can co-regulate, in session and in their lives. This model is a place of sharing - where any work that the individual needs, is witnessed and compassionately attuned to, by the partner. Many of my clients are Adult Diagnosed ADHD or AuDHD; Gifted; or partnered with such. 'Normal' is as unique as single individual I see. With communication skills, honesty, and intent - we can see you back to thriving.
I help individuals to thrive - predominately in relationship. As a couples counsellor/therapist I use Positive Psych, Relational Life Therapy, and Attachment Theory; adding mindfulness (presence skills) so clients can co-regulate, in session and in their lives. This model is a place of sharing - where any work that the individual needs, is witnessed and compassionately attuned to, by the partner. Many of my clients are Adult Diagnosed ADHD or AuDHD; Gifted; or partnered with such. 'Normal' is as unique as single individual I see. With communication skills, honesty, and intent - we can see you back to thriving.
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Paola Montanaro
Counsellor, MPsych, MNZAC
Serves Area
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
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Online Therapists

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O'Mahoney Counselling
Counsellor, MNZAC
Auckland 0632
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, low self-esteem, or stuck in unhelpful patterns? You don’t have to face it alone. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore emotions, manage triggers, and reconnect with your true self. Using ACT, IFS, and Person-Centred Therapy, I’ll help you build confidence, heal from the past, and live a life that aligns with your values. Together, we’ll move from surviving to thriving—toward a more meaningful, balanced life. My ideal clients are those who are open to growth — even if they feel unsure or vulnerable at first. If you're ready to begin your healing I am here to support you on your journey.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, low self-esteem, or stuck in unhelpful patterns? You don’t have to face it alone. I offer a safe, supportive space to explore emotions, manage triggers, and reconnect with your true self. Using ACT, IFS, and Person-Centred Therapy, I’ll help you build confidence, heal from the past, and live a life that aligns with your values. Together, we’ll move from surviving to thriving—toward a more meaningful, balanced life. My ideal clients are those who are open to growth — even if they feel unsure or vulnerable at first. If you're ready to begin your healing I am here to support you on your journey.
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Joanne Wilkinson
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PBANZ
1 Endorsed
Auckland 1072
I will listen to you with sensitivity, warmth, thoughtfulness and compassion. Every person is unique and my therapeutic approach is tailored to suit your needs. Psychotherapy can help you to become more fully yourself, improve your quality of life and develop greater psychological freedom. I work with people suffering trauma, anxiety, depression, loneliness, physical illnesses, losses, life transitions, relationship problems, and a range of other distressing life experiences. I specialise in deeper explorations of the self, this can include meeting twice weekly if desired.
I will listen to you with sensitivity, warmth, thoughtfulness and compassion. Every person is unique and my therapeutic approach is tailored to suit your needs. Psychotherapy can help you to become more fully yourself, improve your quality of life and develop greater psychological freedom. I work with people suffering trauma, anxiety, depression, loneliness, physical illnesses, losses, life transitions, relationship problems, and a range of other distressing life experiences. I specialise in deeper explorations of the self, this can include meeting twice weekly if desired.
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Irene Begg
Counsellor, MNZAC
Whakatane 3192
If your looking for EMDR trauma therapy to resolve anxiety, depression, phobias, low self esteem and self worth grief and loss, psychological and emotional abuse, PTSD and Dissociation. This is what I specialize in since 2009. I am a Senior EMDR Consultant/ Facilitator and I'm a long standing Member of EMDR NZ and also EMDR Australia. If you are struggling with any of these issues mentioned above please contact me and we can discuss your treatment plan I provide EMDR Intensives.. (more than just 90min or min sessions.
If your looking for EMDR trauma therapy to resolve anxiety, depression, phobias, low self esteem and self worth grief and loss, psychological and emotional abuse, PTSD and Dissociation. This is what I specialize in since 2009. I am a Senior EMDR Consultant/ Facilitator and I'm a long standing Member of EMDR NZ and also EMDR Australia. If you are struggling with any of these issues mentioned above please contact me and we can discuss your treatment plan I provide EMDR Intensives.. (more than just 90min or min sessions.
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Rohit Grover
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
I like helping people connect to themselves as they navigate challenging life situations. I work with the understanding that there is a world between hope and despair, where we respond to existence with awareness. I seek such awareness in my life, and I feel rewarded when I can support others in discovering their authenticity. I am also sensitive to diversity in cultural backgrounds and life perspectives.
I like helping people connect to themselves as they navigate challenging life situations. I work with the understanding that there is a world between hope and despair, where we respond to existence with awareness. I seek such awareness in my life, and I feel rewarded when I can support others in discovering their authenticity. I am also sensitive to diversity in cultural backgrounds and life perspectives.
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Mei Long
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Auckland 1051
Hi, Kia ora, 您好, I am Mei Long, a registered NZAC counsellor. I will encounter you in your world and embrace who you are. I believe that everyone has potential, even when facing challenges at certain stages of their lives. What people often need is good company through their difficult journeys. I practise in a trauma-informed way, with a strong commitment to cultural humility. Growing up in China, immigrating to New Zealand in young adulthood, working in various industries, and navigating motherhood and marriage in a blended, multicultural family, I believe I can deeply understand you and your story.
Hi, Kia ora, 您好, I am Mei Long, a registered NZAC counsellor. I will encounter you in your world and embrace who you are. I believe that everyone has potential, even when facing challenges at certain stages of their lives. What people often need is good company through their difficult journeys. I practise in a trauma-informed way, with a strong commitment to cultural humility. Growing up in China, immigrating to New Zealand in young adulthood, working in various industries, and navigating motherhood and marriage in a blended, multicultural family, I believe I can deeply understand you and your story.
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Elaine Matthews Venter
Counsellor, AThR
If you are experiencing difficult emotions, finding it hard to express your feelings, feeling angry, stressed, depressed, or lonely, struggling in your relationships, telling yourself that you do not deserve happiness in life, failing to achieve goals in your life, or struggling with an eating disorder, or addictive behaviour, I can work alongside you to find ways to assist you to feel happier and more fulfilled, while leading a more meaningful and creative life.
If you are experiencing difficult emotions, finding it hard to express your feelings, feeling angry, stressed, depressed, or lonely, struggling in your relationships, telling yourself that you do not deserve happiness in life, failing to achieve goals in your life, or struggling with an eating disorder, or addictive behaviour, I can work alongside you to find ways to assist you to feel happier and more fulfilled, while leading a more meaningful and creative life.
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Andrew Kirby
Psychotherapist, PhD, PBANZ
Auckland 0793
I assist people from all walks of life overcome barriers preventing them from achieving happier, healthier, and more productive lives. This may mean finding help to resolve a specific problem or learning more about yourself and others to manage your lives more effectively and maximise your potential. I strive to offer a quality service supported by experience and professional training, and work around the needs of each individual. I am here to assist and empower you on our unique journey.
I assist people from all walks of life overcome barriers preventing them from achieving happier, healthier, and more productive lives. This may mean finding help to resolve a specific problem or learning more about yourself and others to manage your lives more effectively and maximise your potential. I strive to offer a quality service supported by experience and professional training, and work around the needs of each individual. I am here to assist and empower you on our unique journey.
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Life can feel overwhelming and you might be carrying more than you can manage alone. I’m here to offer my support as a UK trained, qualified counsellor, offering warm, compassionate talking therapy for adults and young people. I work in a person centred way, offering a safe & supportive space, where you can speak openly, exploring your experiences at your own pace. I tailor my work, drawing on different therapeutic approaches, ie: ADHD support, CBT, trauma informed, depending on what feels most helpful in the session. I also offer walking and talking therapy, which can be a gentle and grounding way for us to explore things together.
Life can feel overwhelming and you might be carrying more than you can manage alone. I’m here to offer my support as a UK trained, qualified counsellor, offering warm, compassionate talking therapy for adults and young people. I work in a person centred way, offering a safe & supportive space, where you can speak openly, exploring your experiences at your own pace. I tailor my work, drawing on different therapeutic approaches, ie: ADHD support, CBT, trauma informed, depending on what feels most helpful in the session. I also offer walking and talking therapy, which can be a gentle and grounding way for us to explore things together.
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Mohan Herath
Psychotherapist, MSc, PBANZ
Auckland 1052
My mission is to inspire people to embrace life with all its contradictions and equip them with the tools necessary to achieve success and build better relationships. I am passionate about helping people see situations as opportunities to grow and evolve, in order to experience all the good things life has to offer. I work alongside individuals to bring focus and clarification in identifying what steps to take in the process of transformation. My role is to support people to solve lifelong issues, achieve their goals, continue to develop their vision, increase life satisfaction, and gain success & happiness.
My mission is to inspire people to embrace life with all its contradictions and equip them with the tools necessary to achieve success and build better relationships. I am passionate about helping people see situations as opportunities to grow and evolve, in order to experience all the good things life has to offer. I work alongside individuals to bring focus and clarification in identifying what steps to take in the process of transformation. My role is to support people to solve lifelong issues, achieve their goals, continue to develop their vision, increase life satisfaction, and gain success & happiness.
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Teresa Ilonda Van Der Merwe
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Auckland 0620
As you navigate through the complexities of life, it's not uncommon to feel overwhelmed or disconnected from your goals and desires. My name is Teresa, and as a professional counsellor, I'm here to offer you a supportive, confidential space to explore these challenges. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, struggling with relationship issues, or simply needing guidance as you face major life transitions, my goal is to help you find clarity and peace. Together, we will work towards overcoming these challenges and understanding and growing from them. What sets me apart is my commitment to truly listening and understanding.
As you navigate through the complexities of life, it's not uncommon to feel overwhelmed or disconnected from your goals and desires. My name is Teresa, and as a professional counsellor, I'm here to offer you a supportive, confidential space to explore these challenges. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, struggling with relationship issues, or simply needing guidance as you face major life transitions, my goal is to help you find clarity and peace. Together, we will work towards overcoming these challenges and understanding and growing from them. What sets me apart is my commitment to truly listening and understanding.
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Dr. Marlene Dor
Counsellor, PhD
Whakatane 3120
Hi I am Marleen I really enjoy and am committed to helping patients improve their quality of life and start smiling again. So if you are struggling with anxiety, hurt, low self-esteem, and want to build resilience, it would be good to consider engaging in therapy.
Hi I am Marleen I really enjoy and am committed to helping patients improve their quality of life and start smiling again. So if you are struggling with anxiety, hurt, low self-esteem, and want to build resilience, it would be good to consider engaging in therapy.
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Matthew DARBY
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Auckland 0626
I work with individuals and couples facing a wide range of challenges — whether you’re living with low mood or depression, feeling emotionally overwhelmed, navigating anxiety or grief, healing from trauma, managing chronic illness, or feeling stuck in your relationships or inner life. My therapeutic style is flexible and integrative. I draw on humanistic and person-centred principles, psychodynamic insights, cognitive techniques, existential reflection, and mindfulness-based approaches to create a space that fosters insight, growth, and healing, tailored to your needs.
I work with individuals and couples facing a wide range of challenges — whether you’re living with low mood or depression, feeling emotionally overwhelmed, navigating anxiety or grief, healing from trauma, managing chronic illness, or feeling stuck in your relationships or inner life. My therapeutic style is flexible and integrative. I draw on humanistic and person-centred principles, psychodynamic insights, cognitive techniques, existential reflection, and mindfulness-based approaches to create a space that fosters insight, growth, and healing, tailored to your needs.
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.