Relationship Issues Therapists in Whangarei

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Serafin Upton
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families.
Child and Adolescent Mental Health and Behavioural Issues / Child and Family Therapy / Sex and Couples Therapy. Child And Adolescent Assessments And Treatment. Specialising in trauma, neurodiversity, and relationships.
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Incredible Connectionz Counselling
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Serves Area
If you are or a loved one are struggling with mental health concerns or just wondering whether therapy might help you reach "the next level" in your personal life or relationship, please get in touch.
In my counselling practice I use an eclectic approach with a client-centred focus to help clients identify their preferred futures, or explore their concerns, challenges, thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. We work together, focusing on solutions, clarifying goals and strategies, eliciting the client’s existing strengths, and incorporating new learnings into everyday life. I use a Solution-Focused Brief Therapy format but can also draw on aspects from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Mindfulness.
If you are or a loved one are struggling with mental health concerns or just wondering whether therapy might help you reach "the next level" in your personal life or relationship, please get in touch.
In my counselling practice I use an eclectic approach with a client-centred focus to help clients identify their preferred futures, or explore their concerns, challenges, thoughts, emotions, and behaviours. We work together, focusing on solutions, clarifying goals and strategies, eliciting the client’s existing strengths, and incorporating new learnings into everyday life. I use a Solution-Focused Brief Therapy format but can also draw on aspects from Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Motivational Interviewing, and Mindfulness.
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Michael Streifler
Counsellor, MCouns
Verified Verified
Whangarei 0110
- Relationship difficulties (Heterosexual or same sex relationships)
I am a registered counsellor with over 20 years of experience working with adults from all walks of life dealing with a wide range of issues. I am a New Zealander and have lived in Auckland for most of my life. Five years ago I relocated to a small town in Northland and live close to the beach
- Relationship difficulties (Heterosexual or same sex relationships)
I am a registered counsellor with over 20 years of experience working with adults from all walks of life dealing with a wide range of issues. I am a New Zealander and have lived in Auckland for most of my life. Five years ago I relocated to a small town in Northland and live close to the beach
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Melissa Paschke
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Whangarei 0110
Many experiences in our lives have an impact on our well-being, such as work pressures, family and relationship challenges, loss, trauma, abuse, and unmet needs in childhood.
I can offer you support and tools to gain greater understanding, manage thoughts and emotions, heal past experiences, increase your well-being and create new behaviours to move forward in your life with confidence. You will learn about your own innate healing wisdom and how to work with it.
Many experiences in our lives have an impact on our well-being, such as work pressures, family and relationship challenges, loss, trauma, abuse, and unmet needs in childhood.
I can offer you support and tools to gain greater understanding, manage thoughts and emotions, heal past experiences, increase your well-being and create new behaviours to move forward in your life with confidence. You will learn about your own innate healing wisdom and how to work with it.
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Dr. Hayley Walker-Williams (Bwrt Practitioner)
Psychologist, PhD, MNZCCP
Verified Verified
Whangarei 0179
Her clinical expertise include psychological disorders and specifically trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues.
Her therapeutic approach is eclectic and trauma-informed and draws on evidence-based modalities like CBT, Psychodynamic, DBT, and TF-CBT as well as the new promising practice of Brain-Working Recursive Therapy (BWRT) a short-term therapy designed to quickly and permanently rewire the way your brain reacts to stressors to reduce anxiety responses.
Her clinical expertise include psychological disorders and specifically trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues.
Her therapeutic approach is eclectic and trauma-informed and draws on evidence-based modalities like CBT, Psychodynamic, DBT, and TF-CBT as well as the new promising practice of Brain-Working Recursive Therapy (BWRT) a short-term therapy designed to quickly and permanently rewire the way your brain reacts to stressors to reduce anxiety responses.
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Melisa Cane-Franzetti
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Online Only
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
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Becky Bradley
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and OCD.
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/intrusive thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to disordered eating and OCD.
If you find yourself struggling with low self-esteem, caught in unhelpful patterns, experiencing obsessive/intrusive thoughts, feeling like food controls you or feeling disconnected from your body, know that there is a path to improving your life and healing. I am here to help provide the support you need to grow and heal in order to reach your goals.
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Diante Fuchs
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Whangarei 0110
I use a range of evidence based techniques that completely shifts your relationship with anxiety / depression and help you process any past trauma.
As a clinical psychologist and certified anxiety coach I help people who are tired of anxiety or depression getting in the way of everything they do. I support those who want more from their relationships and their lives, but are feeling held back by mental health concerns. I work with people who want more intimacy + connection, as well as parents who are tried of anxiety getting in the way of their parenting. I support career + business people who want to follow their dreams but find anxiety keeps getting in the way...
I use a range of evidence based techniques that completely shifts your relationship with anxiety / depression and help you process any past trauma.
As a clinical psychologist and certified anxiety coach I help people who are tired of anxiety or depression getting in the way of everything they do. I support those who want more from their relationships and their lives, but are feeling held back by mental health concerns. I work with people who want more intimacy + connection, as well as parents who are tried of anxiety getting in the way of their parenting. I support career + business people who want to follow their dreams but find anxiety keeps getting in the way...
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Charmaine Bright @ Bright Wellbeing
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
My approach draws on traditional and alternative counselling and coaching modalities. I use these approaches to empower my clients and my practice is strongly grounded in spirituality and energy psychology. Nourishment and healing are facilitated through energy-integration, visualisation, inner-child work and support in recovering a sense of self.
My approach draws on traditional and alternative counselling and coaching modalities. I use these approaches to empower my clients and my practice is strongly grounded in spirituality and energy psychology. Nourishment and healing are facilitated through energy-integration, visualisation, inner-child work and support in recovering a sense of self.
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Anihera Tahu-Hepworth
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Online Only
ACC Registered. Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
ACC Registered. Tena Koutou, ko Anihera Tahu-Hepworth ahau. Hello, I’m Anihera. I whakapapa back to the East Coast of the North Island and Waikaremoana in the central North Island of New Zealand. I am from Ngati Porou & Tuhoe iwi through my mother and father. Offering a confidential, compassionate and non-judgmental service for people from all walks of life. Are you needing relief from difficult life stresses and complexities? Nau mai, Haere mai, you are welcome to contact me.
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I Am Noble - Holistic Health Services
Counsellor, MSc
Verified Verified
Whangarei 0185
Welcome! If you’re new to I Am Noble, let me say I am so excited to serve you! Is there anything in your life you would like to change? Your job? Relationships? Friends? Your emotions? Thoughts? How you spend your free time? What about eating or other habits? Less pain? More peace? We all have something or other. Once you focus your intention and believe that it is possible, you are already on the road to success.
Welcome! If you’re new to I Am Noble, let me say I am so excited to serve you! Is there anything in your life you would like to change? Your job? Relationships? Friends? Your emotions? Thoughts? How you spend your free time? What about eating or other habits? Less pain? More peace? We all have something or other. Once you focus your intention and believe that it is possible, you are already on the road to success.
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Julia Ferry-Parker
Counsellor, PsychD, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Kia ora! My name is Julia Ferry-Parker, I am a NZAC Provisional Counsellor and an Analyst-in-Training of the Centre for Lacanian Analysis of Aotearoa. I have been studying and practicing for over 5 years, mainly working with adults from multiples cultures and backgrounds in a non-judgmental space. I have a bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Postgraduate diploma in Psychoanalysis. I am originally from Brazil and have been living in Aotearoa for the last 4 years, running sessions in English and Portuguese with an ethical commitment to the care of the patients.
Kia ora! My name is Julia Ferry-Parker, I am a NZAC Provisional Counsellor and an Analyst-in-Training of the Centre for Lacanian Analysis of Aotearoa. I have been studying and practicing for over 5 years, mainly working with adults from multiples cultures and backgrounds in a non-judgmental space. I have a bachelor’s degree in Psychology and a Postgraduate diploma in Psychoanalysis. I am originally from Brazil and have been living in Aotearoa for the last 4 years, running sessions in English and Portuguese with an ethical commitment to the care of the patients.
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Catia Batalha
Psychotherapist, MA, PBANZ
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Having been trained as both a psychotherapist and a Yoga psychology teacher, I view life’s experiences as integral to our soul’s journey toward wholeness. By learning from our past and transcending suffering, we cultivate greater awareness, awaken our inner light, uncover our purpose, and recognize our innate qualities & gifts. My approach integrates the scientific foundations of Western psychology—including psychodynamic & transpersonal perspectives—with the wisdom of Eastern and Indigenous traditions, such as Yoga philosophy & mindfulness. If this perspective resonates with you, I would be honoured to support you on your journey.
Having been trained as both a psychotherapist and a Yoga psychology teacher, I view life’s experiences as integral to our soul’s journey toward wholeness. By learning from our past and transcending suffering, we cultivate greater awareness, awaken our inner light, uncover our purpose, and recognize our innate qualities & gifts. My approach integrates the scientific foundations of Western psychology—including psychodynamic & transpersonal perspectives—with the wisdom of Eastern and Indigenous traditions, such as Yoga philosophy & mindfulness. If this perspective resonates with you, I would be honoured to support you on your journey.
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Lisa Gibson
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Not accepting new clients
Many of the clients I work with struggle with anxiety, are navigating relationship difficulties, or are seeking clarity.
Kia ora! I'm Lisa Gibson, a registered psychologist based in Palmerston North. I'm dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. Through therapy, we can work together to develop helpful coping strategies, foster self-compassion, and cultivate greater self-awareness. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach.
Many of the clients I work with struggle with anxiety, are navigating relationship difficulties, or are seeking clarity.
Kia ora! I'm Lisa Gibson, a registered psychologist based in Palmerston North. I'm dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. Through therapy, we can work together to develop helpful coping strategies, foster self-compassion, and cultivate greater self-awareness. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach.
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Dr. Maria Rotella
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Whangarei 0110
Not accepting new clients
I bring expertise to support you with a wide variety of concerns, and I have particularly enjoyed working with clients whose lived experience includes neurodiversity, gender diversity, and relationship diversity.
I employ a variety of therapeutic approaches and techniques, tailored to the goals, strengths, and interests of each client. Primarily, I draw from Integrative, Person-Centred, CBT, ACT, Narrative, Brief Psychodynamic, and Mindfulness-Based therapies. I also offer a Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction group.
I bring expertise to support you with a wide variety of concerns, and I have particularly enjoyed working with clients whose lived experience includes neurodiversity, gender diversity, and relationship diversity.
I employ a variety of therapeutic approaches and techniques, tailored to the goals, strengths, and interests of each client. Primarily, I draw from Integrative, Person-Centred, CBT, ACT, Narrative, Brief Psychodynamic, and Mindfulness-Based therapies. I also offer a Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction group.
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Safe Space with Shagoon
MA
Verified Verified
Serves Area
My work assists adolescents and parents with parent-child relationship, behavioral concerns, anxiety, depression, peer relationships, adolescent issues, anxiety, stress, depression, self-esteem, developmental disorders and other life challenges.
I am an enthusiastic, energetic and reliable individual with a wealth of experiences combined with appropriate qualifications who has been supporting individuals through general, complex and diverse issues they may experience. I believe in creative yet simple ways to bring out positive emotional, social and cognitive changes in people. I have a diverse and comprehensive educational background from the University of Adelaide and Delhi (India). I have current police checks, all my DCSI screenings. Providing E-Counselling to NRIs and Indians. In one sentence, encouraging self care, positivity and mental health is my life’s passion.
My work assists adolescents and parents with parent-child relationship, behavioral concerns, anxiety, depression, peer relationships, adolescent issues, anxiety, stress, depression, self-esteem, developmental disorders and other life challenges.
I am an enthusiastic, energetic and reliable individual with a wealth of experiences combined with appropriate qualifications who has been supporting individuals through general, complex and diverse issues they may experience. I believe in creative yet simple ways to bring out positive emotional, social and cognitive changes in people. I have a diverse and comprehensive educational background from the University of Adelaide and Delhi (India). I have current police checks, all my DCSI screenings. Providing E-Counselling to NRIs and Indians. In one sentence, encouraging self care, positivity and mental health is my life’s passion.
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Online Therapists

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Alister Gates
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auckland 2018
Whether you’re dealing with complex relationship dynamics, facing uncertain career paths, or struggling with personal issues like anxiety and low self-esteem, you’re not alone.
My practice is a space where you can safely explore emotions and experiences, tackling issues from anxiety to couple relationship therapy. Both in-person and online sessions are available, ensuring accessibility across New Zealand and internationally. I am based out of Maraetai in Auckland and often work in St Heliers.
Whether you’re dealing with complex relationship dynamics, facing uncertain career paths, or struggling with personal issues like anxiety and low self-esteem, you’re not alone.
My practice is a space where you can safely explore emotions and experiences, tackling issues from anxiety to couple relationship therapy. Both in-person and online sessions are available, ensuring accessibility across New Zealand and internationally. I am based out of Maraetai in Auckland and often work in St Heliers.
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These struggles might be linked to past or ongoing trauma, such as violence, abuse, grief, migration, displacement, spiritual or physical loss, neurodivergence, or relationship ruptures, or not If traditional talk therapy is leaving you stuck, why not consider Creative Arts Therapy?
I don't claim to have all the answers—after all, you are the expert on your own life. My role is to help you carry the weight of your burdens, worries, and memories, and to help us create a safer space where you can express your thoughts, curiosities, anger, sadness, confusion, joy, and numbness through verbal and creative expression and stillness.
These struggles might be linked to past or ongoing trauma, such as violence, abuse, grief, migration, displacement, spiritual or physical loss, neurodivergence, or relationship ruptures, or not If traditional talk therapy is leaving you stuck, why not consider Creative Arts Therapy?
I don't claim to have all the answers—after all, you are the expert on your own life. My role is to help you carry the weight of your burdens, worries, and memories, and to help us create a safer space where you can express your thoughts, curiosities, anger, sadness, confusion, joy, and numbness through verbal and creative expression and stillness.
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Cari Frances Batenburg
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Auckland 1024
With this in mind, I do my best to build a relationship with you (and your partner or partners) – in which you feel accepted and respected.
My overall approach is largely informed by the non-pathologising perspectives of Narrative Therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Relational Psychotherapy, Positive Psychology, Neuroscience, Attachment & Developmental theory. I am a realist and do not believe there is no single theory, therapy, or approach that is right for us all.
With this in mind, I do my best to build a relationship with you (and your partner or partners) – in which you feel accepted and respected.
My overall approach is largely informed by the non-pathologising perspectives of Narrative Therapy, Acceptance & Commitment Therapy (ACT), Relational Psychotherapy, Positive Psychology, Neuroscience, Attachment & Developmental theory. I am a realist and do not believe there is no single theory, therapy, or approach that is right for us all.
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Brian Hughes
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0632
While medication and behavioural skills can help soften these symptoms, only psychotherapy can get to the underlying root causes, which almost always occur in the realm of relationship - with yourself and with others.
Anxiety can manifest as nervousness, racing heart, dread, worrying, low sex drive, sleep struggles, panic attacks, or stress. Depression may involve persistent low mood, hopelessness, numbness, guilt, irritability, isolation, suicidal thoughts, confusion, or increased substance use. Relationships with partners, family, or colleagues may bring challenges in communication, emotional conflict, trust, intimacy, or break-ups. New skills can reduce symptoms and improve relationships. But long-lasting change and new choices in life requires better understanding yourself and addressing the root cause of your issues, even if it takes time.
While medication and behavioural skills can help soften these symptoms, only psychotherapy can get to the underlying root causes, which almost always occur in the realm of relationship - with yourself and with others.
Anxiety can manifest as nervousness, racing heart, dread, worrying, low sex drive, sleep struggles, panic attacks, or stress. Depression may involve persistent low mood, hopelessness, numbness, guilt, irritability, isolation, suicidal thoughts, confusion, or increased substance use. Relationships with partners, family, or colleagues may bring challenges in communication, emotional conflict, trust, intimacy, or break-ups. New skills can reduce symptoms and improve relationships. But long-lasting change and new choices in life requires better understanding yourself and addressing the root cause of your issues, even if it takes time.
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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.