Relationship Issues Therapists in Nelson
Whether it is relationship struggles, career stress, grief, anxiety, or depression, these difficulties impact our health, well-being, and sense of self-worth.
Kia Ora, I am Noa, a certified counsellor living and practicing in Nelson/Whakatu.
I offer a client-led, pluralistic approach to therapy, tailored to meet each individual and couple's unique needs. My practice is grounded in a deep respect for every client’s journey, supporting self-acceptance, self-discovery, and healing from trauma into greater well-being.
Whether it is relationship struggles, career stress, grief, anxiety, or depression, these difficulties impact our health, well-being, and sense of self-worth.
Kia Ora, I am Noa, a certified counsellor living and practicing in Nelson/Whakatu.
I offer a client-led, pluralistic approach to therapy, tailored to meet each individual and couple's unique needs. My practice is grounded in a deep respect for every client’s journey, supporting self-acceptance, self-discovery, and healing from trauma into greater well-being.
I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities.
I take a collaborative, strength-based approach to therapy. I utilise evidence-based best-practice modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Dialectical Behaviour skills. I also teach emotion regulation skills, self-compassion practices, and utilise the Imago Dialogue to enhance communication skills.
I am passionate about supporting people in the LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, and polyamorous/CNM alternative relationship structure communities.
I take a collaborative, strength-based approach to therapy. I utilise evidence-based best-practice modalities such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Dialectical Behaviour skills. I also teach emotion regulation skills, self-compassion practices, and utilise the Imago Dialogue to enhance communication skills.
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
Kate Todd Coaching and Counselling
Counsellor, MCouns, MNZAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
As a therapist and Executive Coach I have a special interest in supporting clients to manage ADHD, Menopause, Relationships, Separation, Grief and our relationship with eating.
I am a Solution Focused trained counsellor which means we will look at how your life is now, what changes you would like to make, what is holding you back from that and learning your strengths to help you to move forward. We live in busy and emotionally demanding times and my hope is to provide you with some space to focus on your needs away from the pressure of life and work. I welcome working with clients from all walks of life. We will work together to figure out how you would like your life to be, identify the roadblocks and look at ways for you to make positive changes in your life.
As a therapist and Executive Coach I have a special interest in supporting clients to manage ADHD, Menopause, Relationships, Separation, Grief and our relationship with eating.
I am a Solution Focused trained counsellor which means we will look at how your life is now, what changes you would like to make, what is holding you back from that and learning your strengths to help you to move forward. We live in busy and emotionally demanding times and my hope is to provide you with some space to focus on your needs away from the pressure of life and work. I welcome working with clients from all walks of life. We will work together to figure out how you would like your life to be, identify the roadblocks and look at ways for you to make positive changes in your life.
My training in trauma-informed psychotherapy prioritises the therapeutic relationship as the foundation of healing.
Developing together a safe space to explore, we can work towards understanding and befriending your inner world (thoughts, emotions, body sensations and nervous system responses) as a pathway towards awareness, resilience and lasting healing.
My training in trauma-informed psychotherapy prioritises the therapeutic relationship as the foundation of healing.
Developing together a safe space to explore, we can work towards understanding and befriending your inner world (thoughts, emotions, body sensations and nervous system responses) as a pathway towards awareness, resilience and lasting healing.
Whether we are feeling anxious or depressed, are navigating relationship issues, a difficult transition, struggling with unresolved trauma, or unhelpful behaviour patterns we do not need to do it alone.
My approach is gentle and calm. I create a warm, safe, and non-judgmental space that allows you to explore whatever you feel at ease with. Getting to know yourself is one of the most important journeys you can take. Allowing time to understand and become comfortable with all parts of yourself will support you in creating a life where you feel truly at home.
Whether we are feeling anxious or depressed, are navigating relationship issues, a difficult transition, struggling with unresolved trauma, or unhelpful behaviour patterns we do not need to do it alone.
My approach is gentle and calm. I create a warm, safe, and non-judgmental space that allows you to explore whatever you feel at ease with. Getting to know yourself is one of the most important journeys you can take. Allowing time to understand and become comfortable with all parts of yourself will support you in creating a life where you feel truly at home.
Terressa Zwart - Connect Counselling
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nelson 7010
I am a qualified counsellor with a warm and empathetic approach, dedicated to supporting clients of all ages, from children to older adults. With a deep understanding of life’s challenges, shaped by my own experiences and raising three children.
My practice is grounded in person-centered therapy, drawing on evidence-based approaches such as solution-focused and narrative techniques. I specialise in areas including life stress, anxiety, grief, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My focus is on helping clients develop practical coping strategies and regain a sense of control and clarity in their lives.
I am a qualified counsellor with a warm and empathetic approach, dedicated to supporting clients of all ages, from children to older adults. With a deep understanding of life’s challenges, shaped by my own experiences and raising three children.
My practice is grounded in person-centered therapy, drawing on evidence-based approaches such as solution-focused and narrative techniques. I specialise in areas including life stress, anxiety, grief, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My focus is on helping clients develop practical coping strategies and regain a sense of control and clarity in their lives.
We all go through difficult times in our lives when we might feel unfulfilled, overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, depressed, dealing with loss, facing a major life-change, or struggling with relationship dynamics.
My strong academic foundation combines with a wealth of professional and life experience (I have lived and worked in 8 countries, raising a family in 5 of these) to inform my practice. I work with warmth, empathy, authenticity, and a genuine belief in the potential for growth. I practise collaboratively, honouring your needs and preferences.
We all go through difficult times in our lives when we might feel unfulfilled, overwhelmed, stuck, anxious, depressed, dealing with loss, facing a major life-change, or struggling with relationship dynamics.
My strong academic foundation combines with a wealth of professional and life experience (I have lived and worked in 8 countries, raising a family in 5 of these) to inform my practice. I work with warmth, empathy, authenticity, and a genuine belief in the potential for growth. I practise collaboratively, honouring your needs and preferences.
My focus is on building a supportive and validating therapeutic relationship with the aim of increasing your insight, awareness, self compassion and ultimately leading to the changes you wish for.
Hi! I enjoy working with people committed to personal, relational and spiritual growth. My areas of interest include supporting the LGBTQ+ and Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous communities, as well as trauma survivors. I have 30 years experience with a variety of mental health problems & addictions. I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodiversity. I provide assessment and diagnoses for mental health conditions and ADHD. I am honoured to support the transgender community through Informed Consent for Gender Affirming Care.
My focus is on building a supportive and validating therapeutic relationship with the aim of increasing your insight, awareness, self compassion and ultimately leading to the changes you wish for.
Hi! I enjoy working with people committed to personal, relational and spiritual growth. My areas of interest include supporting the LGBTQ+ and Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous communities, as well as trauma survivors. I have 30 years experience with a variety of mental health problems & addictions. I am interested in attachment, loss, life transitions, relationships, spiritual & personal growth, gender, sex, sexuality, and neurodiversity. I provide assessment and diagnoses for mental health conditions and ADHD. I am honoured to support the transgender community through Informed Consent for Gender Affirming Care.
In my practice, I provide a variety of 'talk therapies' (such as Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Person Centered, and Gestalt Therapy), Mindfulness, and Imago Relationship Therapy.
Living an extraordinary and joyful life is about ending the mental suffering when events outside of your control occur. With training and qualifications in Counselling, Psychology, and NLP, I will empower you to manage and overcome anxiety, burnout, grief, trauma, and low moods; so that you will restore and enjoy confidence, self-esteem, health, well-being, and better relationships. I work exclusively with adults of all ages; and welcome cultural, sexual, gender, and neuro diversity.
In my practice, I provide a variety of 'talk therapies' (such as Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Person Centered, and Gestalt Therapy), Mindfulness, and Imago Relationship Therapy.
Living an extraordinary and joyful life is about ending the mental suffering when events outside of your control occur. With training and qualifications in Counselling, Psychology, and NLP, I will empower you to manage and overcome anxiety, burnout, grief, trauma, and low moods; so that you will restore and enjoy confidence, self-esteem, health, well-being, and better relationships. I work exclusively with adults of all ages; and welcome cultural, sexual, gender, and neuro diversity.
I'm a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns; including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions.
Our first session will focus on clarifying what brings you to counselling and working with you to plan a way ahead. I aim to provide a warm, empathetic and supportive space but if you don’t feel we align, I can help you find a different therapist. I am straightforward and can be direct if need be.
I'm a registered counsellor with experience in addressing all kinds of concerns; including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, anger management, stress and navigating life transitions.
Our first session will focus on clarifying what brings you to counselling and working with you to plan a way ahead. I aim to provide a warm, empathetic and supportive space but if you don’t feel we align, I can help you find a different therapist. I am straightforward and can be direct if need be.
Meet Our Relationship Issues Counsellors
You deserved to be heard for yourself or your relationship with your loved ones.
People come with different issues and concerns. Some respond to a particular therapeutic modality, while others prefer tools and models. I use an eclectic approach encompassing all these things to help you address concerns and issues. I also offer optional homework that you can do between sessions, which can help with learning and change.
You deserved to be heard for yourself or your relationship with your loved ones.
People come with different issues and concerns. Some respond to a particular therapeutic modality, while others prefer tools and models. I use an eclectic approach encompassing all these things to help you address concerns and issues. I also offer optional homework that you can do between sessions, which can help with learning and change.
I work with adults (age 18+) experiencing a range of life challenges and mental health difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, OCD, low mood, LGBTQIA+ issues, and relationship difficulties.
I strive to be neurodiversity, gender, sexuality, and ethical non-monogamy affirming in my practice. I recognise that wellbeing is shaped by societal, historical, and cultural contexts, and I’m committed to offering holistic, trauma-informed, and tailored support that acknowledges these influences.
I work with adults (age 18+) experiencing a range of life challenges and mental health difficulties, including trauma, anxiety, OCD, low mood, LGBTQIA+ issues, and relationship difficulties.
I strive to be neurodiversity, gender, sexuality, and ethical non-monogamy affirming in my practice. I recognise that wellbeing is shaped by societal, historical, and cultural contexts, and I’m committed to offering holistic, trauma-informed, and tailored support that acknowledges these influences.
I specialise in supporting clients struggling with relationship or family-related trauma.
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
I specialise in supporting clients struggling with relationship or family-related trauma.
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
I’ here to offer a supportive and non-judgmental space where you can talk about whatever’s on your mind. With 16 years of experience in therapeutic and well-being services, I specialise in areas like anxiety, stress management, pain management, trauma, grief, loss and perinatal support. I’m passionate about holistic well-being and focus on helping you manage stress and pain to suit your unique needs. My collaborative approach is tailored to empower you to live a balanced and fulfilling life. I am using a mix of methods like Person-Centered, Solution Focused, Internal Family Systems, and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
I’ here to offer a supportive and non-judgmental space where you can talk about whatever’s on your mind. With 16 years of experience in therapeutic and well-being services, I specialise in areas like anxiety, stress management, pain management, trauma, grief, loss and perinatal support. I’m passionate about holistic well-being and focus on helping you manage stress and pain to suit your unique needs. My collaborative approach is tailored to empower you to live a balanced and fulfilling life. I am using a mix of methods like Person-Centered, Solution Focused, Internal Family Systems, and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.
Have you been feeling stuck or held back by limiting beliefs or unhelpful patterns in your life that are getting in the way of the life you had envisioned? Are you keen to improve your confidence, self-belief and feel happier with yourself? Are you ready to embrace "the true you" in order to make strides toward the life you want to create? If you're ready for change, get in touch.
Have you been feeling stuck or held back by limiting beliefs or unhelpful patterns in your life that are getting in the way of the life you had envisioned? Are you keen to improve your confidence, self-belief and feel happier with yourself? Are you ready to embrace "the true you" in order to make strides toward the life you want to create? If you're ready for change, get in touch.
Kia Orana and Hello! My name is Elizabeth Putaura. I was born in Rarotonga and raised in New Zealand. I live in Nelson where I also received my BA in counselling. I am a member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors and am an ACC registered counsellor/provider for the Sensitive Claims Service
Kia Orana and Hello! My name is Elizabeth Putaura. I was born in Rarotonga and raised in New Zealand. I live in Nelson where I also received my BA in counselling. I am a member of the New Zealand Association of Counsellors and am an ACC registered counsellor/provider for the Sensitive Claims Service
Hi, I am a registered clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist living and practicing in Nelson, New Zealand. My primary focus is providing psychotherapy. Psychotherapy involves the careful application of techniques that help people change their behaviors, thoughts, feelings, and other personal characteristics in ways that enable them to thrive and cope with the stresses of living. I prefer to work with clients in person but if meeting in person is impossible or impractical, I can provide services online.
Hi, I am a registered clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist living and practicing in Nelson, New Zealand. My primary focus is providing psychotherapy. Psychotherapy involves the careful application of techniques that help people change their behaviors, thoughts, feelings, and other personal characteristics in ways that enable them to thrive and cope with the stresses of living. I prefer to work with clients in person but if meeting in person is impossible or impractical, I can provide services online.
My passion and strengths lie in assisting people to make positive steps to take back mastery of their health and wellbeing and move towards their greatest potential and freedom. I take a holistic, creative and heart centered approach to the process, meeting you where you are at and walking side by side with you to a brighter, joyful and more authentic place within yourself and your world. My focus is on supporting you to build and strengthen your own resources inside yourself. Empowering you to grow your own awareness to understand yourself and the root causes of the presenting challenges.
My passion and strengths lie in assisting people to make positive steps to take back mastery of their health and wellbeing and move towards their greatest potential and freedom. I take a holistic, creative and heart centered approach to the process, meeting you where you are at and walking side by side with you to a brighter, joyful and more authentic place within yourself and your world. My focus is on supporting you to build and strengthen your own resources inside yourself. Empowering you to grow your own awareness to understand yourself and the root causes of the presenting challenges.
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.